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  1. alexdelarge

    alexdelarge Amateur

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    Apologies if there's previous similar threads (there must be), I have tried searching but thought I'd try for some opinions straight from the experts.
    Any suggestions for experimenting in the bedroom for your typical monogamous vanilla (ish -is anyone?) couple.
    Not into anal, done some light role-play, dressing up, dirty talk, fantasies of threesomes/being watched etc.. done sex outdoors, by open windows, in front of camera/computer etc.. not wanting to pic swap or share with friends but any suggestions of what other peoples favourite games/positions/kinks are with your significant other half?
    Thanks,
     
  2. blcp11

    blcp11 Porno Junky

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    Have you tried having her suck your cock until you cum in her mouth then kissing her. Snowballing can be very hot for the both of you.
     
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  3. noboat

    noboat Porn Star

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      ROFLMAO
       
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    2. seafoam1
      Look at that poor guys asshole, talk about ruined!
       
      seafoam1, May 24, 2017
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      I wouldn't imagine that he would 'suffer' from constipation...
       
      P.A.T.S.Yorks, May 25, 2017
    4. 1 Toy Maker
      He did say not into anal, now you have ruined any chance of his vanilla girlfriend ever getting to peg him.
       
      1 Toy Maker, May 25, 2017
  4. jafobuds

    jafobuds Sex Lover

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    Start with dialog, talking about your fantasies with your significant other can be very arousing and lead to ideas to pleasure each other, but you have to both be open and willing to talk about your fantasies with an open and non judgemental mind.
    If you fantasize about her fucking another man get a realistic file I and help her experience it in a safe environment.
     
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  5. Jack Mine

    Jack Mine Porn Star

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    I find my wife enjoys when I take her out to dinner and I start reminiscing about when we first met and the wild places we'd go to have sex and how crazy it was. After a couple bottles of wine and her hearing my bullshit we don't even get out to the car and she's grabbing at my prick, she knows what I'm doing and I know she loves it, I knew after she told me that she knew what I was doing. But that's the thing that makes it nice, when you know what each other are up to.
     
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  6. OmiOmy

    OmiOmy Porno Junky

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    Tobasco sauce will spice it up nicely.
     
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      That would be one hot pussy!
       
      jafobuds, May 19, 2017
  7. alexdelarge

    alexdelarge Amateur

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    Thanks folks. The delicate mix of genuine ideas and subtle high end wit we know and love here.
     
  8. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    Try to do every position in the Kama Sutra. I've done all but one, which I'm not flexible enough for.
     
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  9. Milo Cronos

    Milo Cronos Milo Cronos & Lil' Donna OFFICIALLY

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    My favorite kind of play is role play and the wife's too. But at it's peak I wrote ideas out beforehand, purchased clothing and toys ahead of time (not every time) at first keep it simple then add and subtract paying close attention to the reaction of certain stories?
     
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  10. Luvitwet

    Luvitwet Sex Lover

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    Talk about what she fantasizes about. Maybe Blind fold her and tie her up. Slowly tease her until she can't take it anymore...nothing rough(unless she likes it) in that case have a safe word. Just slowly experiment with different things: toys, tickling, etc... Pics or video but only for you guys to see, that's how we got started. Good luck
     
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  11. randallgossip

    randallgossip Sex Machine

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    Played a board game once called A Hot Affair With Your Partner. It's very well designed to get you communicating, get you drunk, get you naked, then get you trying new things. That must have been 10 years ago, but I bet you can find it for sale somewhere.
     
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    GemmaSwinger101 Porn Star

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  13. CandiCayned

    CandiCayned Porn Surfer

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    Somettimes something as simple as leaving the house can spice things up a bit. One of you can rent a hotel room and pretend to be strangers at a bar and bring them back to the room.
     
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      Checking into a hotel room always turns me on, even if I'm not going to be having sex while I'm there.
       
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  14. alexdelarge

    alexdelarge Amateur

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    Great advice, Thanks to all!
    I'm humbled by the genuine kindness of strangers.
    ...or am i just stoned.. Both!
    Thankyouuu you sexy creatures
     
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  15. rustybutt666

    rustybutt666 Porn Surfer

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    we wanted to spice up our relationship and tried most things mentioned here, just kept feeling like we needed more, I found a swinger site which we knew nothing about swinging or that it even existed, after talking about it and fantasying we signed up and the rest is history, we really love it and has made us great together never been more in love. This isn't for everyone but worked for us, we have had lots of fun and made many new friends.
     
  16. devour my pussy

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    Cinnamon on your cock as you fuck her
     
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      Only if you put the jodhpurs on!;)

      ts
       
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      Have you tried this?
       
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  17. babyjesus

    babyjesus Porno Junky

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    Let her fuck your ass! That seems to be the fad here nowadays
     
  18. RiaR

    RiaR Porn Star

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    Handcuffs and a blindfold for starters :)