Here's my situation. In all truth and reality I would never choose to do my mom, but sometimes I have urges. After all I am a teenager. I'm not going to specify how old, but
old enough to have a cronic type of urge. Usually I look at porn and masterbate everyday. It's usually entertaining, but the thing that turns me on most is my own mom.

For example, I'll give her massages as I have usually since I was little. Now they're still mostly just massages, but I'll try to explore. I'll go to low on the lower back in attempt to grab her butt. One time I actually did massage her butt and she didn't seem to mind. Except it was kinda awkwardish later on so I never did it again.

I just get these really powerful drives/overwhelming feelings of curiosity. You might call it lust. Whatever it is, it just takes over my mind and starts to make me feel like I want to screw her or something. The time I feel this way is at night while I massage her at her desk.

What makes this a problem:
- I'm certain I would never commit incest, but I'm attracted to my mom.
- My family is the type that would be messed with by this type of stuff.

Just sorta hear me out and maybe give some advice...

 

Well, I'm hoping you're over 18... And also, this would probably fit in sexuality more...

But anyway, it's natural for most males to become attracted to sisters and mothers in there early teen to mid teen years (basically let's say 11-15). Some guys it takes a bit longer before the attraction disappears and for some it never will. I would know, I was one of those kids... While the mother phase has generally disappeared from my mind, there still is my sisters... But that's a different case, they're steps...

So, you can always just let it pass as a phase.

Though, if you're concerned, the easiest way to to clear your mind would be to talk with your mom about it. Yes, that may be hard or embarrassing, but it's the easiest way. Otherwise, you may end up torturing yourself mentally for some amount of time. Just talk with her about it.

Chance are, she may already think that you fantasize about her. So, I say go with a talk.

 

I can't say for sure what I what do but I would try to get up the courage and just talk to her about it.

But, I'm not in that position so I wouldn't know what I would really do.

 

Same situation here... got so hot a mom... that all i can think of is fucking her...

 

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I understand how you feel,Jimbo202,I too have fantasized about my Mom,but instead of talking to her about it or doing nothing,I turned to role-playing with my girlfriend. One,because the idea really turned me on,and two because my Mom's the kind of person you don't tell those kind of things to. In any case,that's what my decision was,and if you think that your' Mom will be more understanding then mine (easily done),I say tell her how you feel.

 

Oedipus complex anyone? If you abide by the tenets of strict Freudian psychology, then you hold that every male holds sexual attractions towards their mother that is, to one extent or another, repressed by the effects of social constraints. If this is true (I'll leave that up to you to decide) then you simply have an extraordinarily weak repressive function, but are otherwise entirely normal. There, I just saved you hundreds of dollars on psychoanalysis.

 

You left out, or like most teenagers coming into the world of libido, curiousity says for society to get the hell out of your mind and let you explore new pleasurable sensations in a safe manner.

I'd say talk to her if you really can't stand being alone in it; you'll definately make her day on how attractive she feels. If she becomes negatively aggressive with you about it, maturely ask her to research the topic at hand through scientific sources before irrationally coming to conclusions. If maturity is out of the question, then just find a way to tell her to open her mind and do some research.

 

it's probably natural for teenage guys to feel that way, but i wouldn't know. once you find someone you really like, the urges will probably die down.