I was fucked and abused by my dad and uncle, now i hate them, but the idea of incest inexplicably turns me on. I wish I was in a family where we all fucked, and it was consensual and fun, but also i crave abuse now too. I tell my boyfriend to beat me, and I can't cum without calling him daddy, which he gets creeped out by. Am i fucked up or what? What is wrong with me?

 

i think you might need to talk to a proffessional... that isn't an insult, but a genuine and friendly suggestion. i hope everything works out.

 

It's not unusual

:rose:For an abused person to desire the things that were done to her by her abusers. See Pattie Hearst. Your boyfriend may desire to be gentle, and may be creeped out by being called "Daddy" but if he wants to satisfy you he should give you what you need.

RICO

 

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i'm not saying this girl's needs should be denied in any way, shape or form, but shouldn't the boyfriend's needs be considered too? what if he is repulsed by incest, should he have to pretend he thinks it's ok? isn't there a middle ground here?

 

well it's not like i don't care what he thinks- i'm trying to find another boyfriend online who might be into that stuff, but i'm afraid it's too dangerous - also i was looking for replies from anyone who has actual experience with incest

and no duh, see a professional, how original.

 

yeah just rubbish anyone who tries to make a valid suggestion, you know what, fuck you.

 

If you didn't want advice to see a professional and only wanted replies from incest victims you should have said so in your post.
And don't you dare insult people who are earnestly trying to help you.

 

lets all play nice, Prettykitty they werent insulting you telling you to get professional help, that's an honest and actual response to help you

PatronofPorn and Barbaric Swan you gotta understand that commonly when somebody tells you to get professional help, a lot of the time its used as an insult

was just a misunderstanding on both side i believe... course i could be wrong

my ex was a lot like you kitty, she was neglected by her parents and now she's into daddy/daughter and big brother/little sister fantasies, she also likes to be hit and choked... now i liked her a lot, and i was willing to do most of what she liked... but i'll tell you this that hitting the person you like is hard for a lot of people to do

 

Seek therapy.

 

Hey, if you want to be beaten and call your man daddy, just find a boyfriend who is okay with that. If your current boyfriend is too uncomfortable with that, and it's something you feel is very improtant to the relationship, talk to him and see if you can work something out, like you do alternate between sex your way and his way. If your really can't work something out, consider moving on and getting a new boyfriend.

I know this next suggestion isn't at all the same as sex, but try cybering with someone who is into that stuff, so you can have things your way, keep the boyrfriend you have, and not actually cheat on him.

That's all I got. :|

 

Hello Kitty

I would give you everything you desire and you could call me daddy everytime. I am a firm believer that problems are only problems if you let them become problems. If it turns you on then just enjoy it. Also I'd love to call you my daughter while fucking your brains out roughly.

 

Both the above are good pieces of advice. You should consider what they say carefully.

 

awesome, thanks

thank you all for your replies and advice- Shyguy was right, I wasn't trying to diss the people trying to help me- i guess i just misunderstood and got defensive, but it's all good! Thanks for the advice- I should talk to my boyfriend, but i think we will probably break up- i mean, we have other shit going on that will make us break up, but I wanted advice for any future boyfriends who feel the way he feels too. I know honesty is always the best policy-

thank you for your help all of you!

-PrettyKittty

 

When finding a new boyfriend, certainly test the waters, and make sure he's ok with hitting you if that's what you want, but if you have a threshold, make sure he knows about it and doesn't go past it. You wouldn't want a guy that doesn't know when to stop, or you'll find yourself in an abusive relationship.

As for the whole "daddy" thing, I would think most guys would be okay with it, of course I can only speak for myself on that one. Getting a guy to smack you around is a little tougher to find, I would think. Just be careful, and try to find a guy who knows it's only a sexual thing, and who isn't a big creep outside of sex.

Good luck!

 

why dont you fucking say that then instead of being rude to people who offer a valid suggestion

 

Why beat a dead horse?

 

why be a cunt to someone offering advice?

 

Why be a cunt now that the misunderstanding had been sorted out? She even apologized.

 

i know she apologised and her apology was accepted, but being a cunt to buzz for no reason just creates bad feeling on the boards.