is getting a bj from a guy make me gay? cuz i love woman and am completely straight but i was wondering if getting blown from a guy, just because its head and it feels good, is ok. ive never had gay thoughts but i have the opportunity to get a bj from a guy and i dont know whether to do it bc i dont wanna feel gay. thoughts?

 

Why is it important, if you do that and like that, so what? Im too straight with the girls, and very gay with men, i love sucking cock, most the guys i ve sucked off were straight, married etc. that makes me bisexual... But its just a name, if noone knows what you doing, so it doesnt matter i think

 

Do you feel attracted to guys?
Do you think about guys and wanting to have sex with them?
Do you constantly feel like being with a member of the same sex?

If you answered yes to any of these then you are either homosexual or bisexual.

Having a gay or bi guy sucking your cock does not make you "gay". If that is what you want by all means have at it. I've done the research and even spoken to a few people regarding this subject and the majority say you are still straight.

 

Labels, labels, labels.....
If you are not attracted to guys, you are not gay!! I've sucked off straight guys, and love doing it!! they need to get off and I love cock... Win win situation.

 

I do not see it as "Gay", but with that being said, I know I am Bi. I love sex with other guys, but I have no physical attraction to them other than their cocks. I find most guys faces to be less than attractive, but we could fuck and suck each other till hell froze over and it still would not be enough for me.

 

for me

I don't think so. The first time a guy sucked me was in a threesome. It was awesome. Thought about it and said it is just me getting blowjob, safe and clean, what the hell.

 

If you are involved sexually with a member of the same sex then then it's considered a homosexual act no mater if you were passive or active.

 

Who care what anybody may call what you do behind closed doors. Many man are on the DL and others have done what might be consider worst.

 

if you are unsure but want to try, the worst is, you may not like it, and that's it, over! is anyone of any influence in your life aware of your potential exploring? then what is the harm? good luck!

 

It being the act is gay. Doesnt mean youre gay

 

Does it really matter? If it feels good go for it. If you don't like it stop and just don't do it again. If you do like it enjoy it.

 

I don't care how I am labeled, but I had come to believe that I was bi?!
I do't care what the gender is of the person who sucks my dick, or caresses me all over, 'cept i don't like my face kissed or caressed. I don't want to touch or caress men.
I fantasize of sex with women and crave it...not with men.
It's just that it is easier to find men who suck n so hard to find women.

 

Well you certainly are not 100% straight. That said who cares. Really I mean what the hell is the issue. If you like it you like. Enjoy and quit worrying about it

 

Rothko's right.

Bi guys have double the fun. :excited:

 

I get blow jobs from guys all the time off craigslist. Have been for some time. I have never returned the favor, maybe someday. There is nothing in the world like having another mans mouth wrapped around your cock. Men definitely know how to suck dick way better than any woman. And the amount of married guys that are sucking cocks on the side is simply amazing. Call me gay, call me Bi, call me straight, I don't care. But be sure to call me balls empty when I walk out the door! What I do care about is getting amazing head on a regular basis.

 

Yes.

 

No, just horny. It's a blow job thats all. I suck on a married guys cock and thats all. I just suck on his cock and balls he cums then leaves.

 

do u want to be with just men? or do you still like women?

I mean being gay is a atraction to the same sex only so no ur bi and if you enjoyed it who cares who is sucking ur cock as along as you enjoy it.

 

Ask a stupid question...

Seriously though, doesn't matter.

 

Getting a blow job from a talented mouth is a beautiful thing. Does not matter what the sex of the mouth is.

However, if that mouth is a guy perhaps you will explore more sex with him. It will be really fun and exciting. You will want more sex with guys. Enjoy