Hi All;

What say for a bit of fun we all take a moment and consider if the giver what little tricks really worked well for us at times when giving a blowjob, and if the receiver what things really blew your mind, and put it all together somewhat to see if we can build the perfect "generic" BJ technique. I say generic in that mood and situations, yet most of all individuals will often dictate specifics. However sometimes just some basic mechanics can make a great foundation to work from.

For myself I have some hard and fast rules for giving head, one being once really into it not taking my hand or mouth off a guys cock till done and so on. Yet others may have other ideas that would make that worthwhile to do. So perhaps if we put them all together we might come up with something great.

How we'll do this is, we can post either a simple trick, or perhaps even fully how we think it should be done. Subsequent posts may cancel some things out as we're looking for a "generic" basic 99% of all men should like it technique (ex. Bob likes having you shove a finger up his rump, yet Tom says no way!....So that would NOT be part of it).

Anywho, to get things rolling here is part of a post I made giving some folks a little advice (as he like many men could not cum from one, that a whole other issue though) and a technique I've used often if wanting a guy to cum hard and quickly....In fact, make it so he can't stop it, and assumes he has no serious issues with erections and so on.............So lets add or detract from it, and see where it goes.

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I insure my hands are soft with no rough spots....Sandpaper on a cock is not a good feeling I'd suppose. Next, I'm going to make sure he is sitting or laying down, standing makes it more difficult, I want this easy for them. Next, I do not want to sit to the side, I want to be between their legs. More so, I'm going to force their knees wider by cradling their feet between my thighs or even my feet yet I will be kneeling. I will make it a point to rub my cunnie on their shin or feet, I want it to look like I'm really getting off doing this. I waill also rub his inner thighs with the sides of my chest or breasts, and I will be right up close, so close be it where his feet are, or due to my chest he has to spread his knees wider....(the point of that to come, tendons and nerves).

Next, I'm going to take my left hand and wrap my thumb and index finger around his scrotum placing my palm over his balls, as I take up his cock in my right....At this point I look like I'm about to devour ambrosia.....and will start suckling his cock as though trying to suck the life out of it.....

From this point forward my lips will NOT come off his cock, they will remain wrapped around it, in fact I will never take it out further then where my lips pull up on the flairing edge of the head.

Very loosely, my right hand will stroke his cock to get him hard....Loose so it does not rub him badly, yet will tighten as I allow spit to coat his cock (here is where sticking it in your cunnie first to lube it then sucking it helps)....Once slick, my hand will grip it tightly yet not so tight to cause friction....It should be as though trying to milk the cum up the shaft, yet should slip over the skin, and should stay in time with my mouth moving down in fact often right up to my lips.

My left hand will beging wrapping around his balls and stroking down "gently"...As they do I'll twist my hand as though wringing them yet never squeeze so hard it will cause or even come close to pain...Even if the guy likes his balls mashed I'll not do it, it will delay the orgasm.

As I suck my tongue will bathe and slather all around his cock inside my mouth, I'll make particular point to make it firm and very rapidly flick it over the underside of his cock especially toward the tip, and when lower wrap round the flairing head's edge. My right hand will twist one way, my head the other like tracing a barber pole, and I will insure my lips very firmly drag over the flair of the head, and my hand's web/tumb/forefinger come up and touch that edge then pull it up higher yet don't pass it.

We're at 60 seconds into it......

My mouth and right hand will continue what they are doing, my grip slowly tightening as my suction increases, my speed and tempo gradually increasing every stroke.........As that is happening my lefts thumb will at the base of his balls near the cock will drag over them and wrap around the under side as though my palm is covering his butt.....My thumb and forefinger will then slip up and begin to press on his cowper glands as though pinching off the base of his cock on the sides and press down firm, as my ring finger and pinkie's knuckles press to the spot between his balls and anus (the perineum, that wrinkled area that houses all the nerves and such)....and I will rapidly vibrate my hand while pressing all three points.

My left hand will flex to squeeze his ball sack just above them yet apply pressure to them slightly pulling them down as they try to pull up......The heel of my right hand since they are now gathered up high will also just brush them, grazing over them gently yet in time with my movements gradually increasing.

At this point he will be close, so I will flair out my elbows and press to his inner thighs just above the knees and force his knees wider, as wide as they will go stretching the tendonds that run from his inner thigh across his balls and anus (Perineum)....and will even vairy that pressure gentle-firm-gentle-firm to match my up and down strokes as I rise and fall....

He should be close to cumming at this point, and will protest......Do NOT STOP!...Look up with your eyes and shake your head no, and go at it with a vengence...........However as he is just abot to cum, being very close I will relax my grip to his cock having it be very loose, and at this point begin moving dramatically faster.

As he starts to cum, I will retighten my grip, press down with my elbows to force his knees extra wide, press very hard to his cowper glands and perineum vibrating my hand furiously, and will time my strokes up and down to match the pulses and pauses in his ejaculation to draw up all he can muster yet will grip hard on the upstroke, loose on the down.....and dependant on the male will possibly mash his balls if that seems his thing to a pressure that makes cumming more intense.

He will cum fully in my mouth, if I don't want to swallow and my mouth becomes too full I will let it slip out of the corners of my mouth like I did the spit, and keep going gradually slowing.....

2 minutes..........

At this point I continue to softly suckle, lips still wrapped around, slowly milking and gradually back off intensity and speed....My left hand will switch back to massaging his balls, and if I don't want his cum in my mouth I let it fall out on my down stokes of mouth and hand....I slow to a gradual stop, yet suckle for about another 30 seconds gently....

If he doesn't ask to marry you.......you killed him.

That's my assured 2 minute blowjob....have never known a single man no matter what a hold out stud he was if sober and having not cum that day to last longer.

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Ok, so how do we change that or add to it?

Hush......an alias

 

Wow.

 

i don't like to give quick blowjobs, i prefer to build them up and then let go and do it over and over again and then by the time i let them cum, it's an amazing experience

now i tease at first, i'll lightly pump his cock while dragging my lower lip across the base, shaft, and his balls

now if he's uncut, i'll play with the foreskin, i'll suck on it and run my tongue under it barely grazing the frenulum
if he's cut, i run my tongue lightly around his head and play with his urethra
and then i'll finally lick his frenulum and slowly work my head up and down his cock until he's deep in my throat and then i start swallowing so i can massage his head with my throat and if i'm feeling very talented that day i'll snake my tongue out and lick his balls

 

(not disregarding the entire post just want to comment on this aspect of)..

Oh I agree 100%, more so in the regard half of the fun is for me. The technique above offered as advice to try and help get a guy get over not being able to orgasm during (as many men have been brainwashed/trained to not cum during a BJ for various reasons) Part of that bad technique gals actually making their guy numb.....It also a basic technique for "expediting" the orgasm as $300.00/hr. can then turn into 300/5 minutes lol.

Anywho, as said I agree with you fully in that though the above will make for a very intense orgasm, it still nothing like really building up as you say. The real trick there though if you let it back off too far, you it can eventually make the guy as numb as much as "rubbing it numb". That's a VERY tough judgement call for those not paying attention to how their guy is responding.

You also mention deep throating. I'm not sure that would be the best addition for a few of reasons. 1. some women can't/won't try. 2. sometimes that cock is just too big. 3. most men I've known though they like the "show" aspect of it and the novelty is exciting, in the end state it really doesn't feel as good as some of the basics, just different..............

Though I don't know, what do you think should it be included in a "generic" basic blowjob technique?.........Will have to figure how to build on this with the rest as well.

Hush.....an alias

 

you're right there is a fine line between amazing experience and numb cock, that's why it's so important for a woman to hone in on her partner's verbal and nonverbal cues

and about the deepthroating i agree with #1 but as for #2, a lot of men feel that way because honestly a lot of women just think that shoving a man's cock down their throat is enough and realistically, it's not, if you know how to do it right, you can make it a once in a lifetime experience for the man, it's all about technique

and as for basic blowjob techniques, i think using tongue is very important because most of the men i've known can cum just by having their frenulum rubbed, so i think using your tongue is important

now as for using hands during the experience, i tend to try not to overkill using my ands, i like to use a nice mix of hand and mouth, i think this is why i am such a fan of DTing because it helps with variation of sensation

now most men will tell a woman not to do this but i actually think your teeth can be an asset when used properly because it also helps vary sensations the man experiences

now i prefer to swallow while the man's cumming if he wants me to swallow that is, if he prefers to shoot it somewhere else, well then that's perfectly fine too

 

Seems like you already pretty much covered the bases...what did you want from the rest of us?

 

Holy shit. If I were in a position to do so I would give you grant to continue this study. It is quite extensive and noble what you are doing here.

But after reading over it some more, I see this was to make a man blow in 2 minutes. Having never came from a blowjob in anywhere close to that amount of time, I think you may need to research some more long haul techniques just in case.

 

Well, what works for you be you the giver or receiver....In kind what doesn't.

When all said and done perhaps build a list of do's/don'ts based on contributors experience and agreement, and then list out a basic plan of action all just for kicks for the "perfect generic blowjob".

In the end do I expect anyone to find value in it?...Heck no it's just for fun. Yet you never know when someone might have a little trick they use that you never thought of.

.......and as said Perv79, that just a post I already did not at all what I would do with someone I'm wanting to spend time with.

Hush......an alias

 

When are you gunna start writing stories?

 

I have a boyfriend that thinks that the perfect blowjob includes more than work on his shaft. It includes licking his ball sack and mouthing his balls. He is especially excited by getting tongued in back. Sucking him off is not for the faint of heart.

Love,
lynn-nyc

 

Well all and all it sounds epic, but man I don't know if its just me or the girls I'm getting it from but I have an awful hard time getting off from a BJ. Feels great but never feels like the end is anywhere insight.

 

i like wen mah girls make noises and moans while blowing me. and wen they smile

 

Would like to see a bit more input on this then might begin to build a list to add/subtract from.

Hush....an alias

 

holy....fucking....shit. sounds like you really know how to give a good BJ. I've honestly never gotten a good one before. first girl that gave me one, wasn't good, but I appreciated the effort. second girl that gave me one, was pretty good, but she always stopped too quickly and never put in much effort or finished one. any chick that can give a good BJ, is a chick I wanna keep around

 

I've had a cock in my mouth once or twice.....No expert to be sure

Hush.......an alias

 

I think I'm in love lol, that sounds amazing

 

Well...gee, sweetie, how are any of us going to add anything to that??

But I'll try. One thing I think is very important is saliva. I want everything really wet...sloppy, drippy wet, oozing down my chin. And I have to disagree about not taking your mouth off his cock. I usually do stop and start, usually because I want to talk dirty to him and tell him how much I adore sucking his cock, how much I'm looking forward to his big load of cum, etc. I also like to take a timeout to lick and suck on his balls for awhile. Third, I tend to purse my lips pretty tightly and slide them over just the head of his cock several times...I'll suck him deeper, as deep as I can, but only as punctuation, you might say.

The only other thing I'd emphasize is eye contact. I believe in getting inside a man's head, and I want him to think I was BORN to suck his dick.

 

Holy Shit. You should teach a class or something. I have to disagree with Baller16. As definitely some head Ive gotten has been better then others, I dont believe in "bad" head. Some of the head that I have gotten either would never get me off or would take hours to do so. After a bit I tell them to stop just because (a) if they dont enjoy it any way and their doing it just for me then they get pissed if they have to keep doing it for hour+ and (b) Im not going to cum from it any way so get up here and lets have sex. Meby its because I have never received it from somebody that really knew what they were doing or theres something wrong with me, but I have only cum from head twice I believe. So I see it more as a precursor to sex. Or as a type of foreplay. That being said however, I have never gotten a BJ like what Hush just described in such avid detail. And Kimiko, eye contact 100%. I think you and Hush should get together and open a course at a college.

 

Are you volunteering to be our test subject?

 

Well I mean if you really cant get anybody else and you need somebody to work on then I guess I could stop by....


Fuck yes I am lol.