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  1. BigMichaelsInYou

    BigMichaelsInYou Porn Surfer

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    I need help I don't know where I belong. Any ideas? Idvice.?help talk to me
     
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    deleted user 555 768 Porn Star Banned!

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    some might say you belong where you are.
     
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  3. BigMichaelsInYou

    BigMichaelsInYou Porn Surfer

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    Thanks. I'm still confused
     
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    Xkokimail Porno Junky

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    you've got a natural penis ?
     
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  5. obe

    obe a little pain and a lot of pleasure

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    just be yourself everyone is different, or go and see some sort of professional talk it through with them I'm sure you wouldn't be the first person to feel like that
     
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  6. Jack Mine

    Jack Mine The Pope of Assholiness

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    If you're serious about this and it's something you're concerned about you need to seek professional help and counseling. We can't help, other than encouraging and supporting you to decide what you think and know is right for you, it's your life to live and we can't decide it for you. Wish you the best of luck. But I don't think this is a topic to joke about or have fun with, it's something challenging, physically and mentally and you better not be joking!
     
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  7. SilverLycan

    SilverLycan The XnXX Alpha Wolf

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    Jack hit the nail on the head, I think. If you're seriously considering that you may be transgender, you should talk to professionals who can assist you.

    However, I must say that from the content of this topic, you are not even sure if you are transgender. This seems more almost like an anxiety attack than anything else.

    Why don't you begin by telling us about yourself. There's literally nothing in your post to base an opinion on or even what sort of advice you should get, short of "get help", which I suppose is going to be the main thing you're going to be told, anyway.
     
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  8. BigMichaelsInYou

    BigMichaelsInYou Porn Surfer

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    Yes mother earth gave me a pepe
     
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  9. BigMichaelsInYou

    BigMichaelsInYou Porn Surfer

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    Thanks for the reply , but I got to ask do I realy need professional help. Like a shrink ?
     
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  10. BigMichaelsInYou

    BigMichaelsInYou Porn Surfer

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    Thanks. I am not jokeing. I don't think I need professional help. I mean realy. Now I am realy confused . I know I am weard. The doctor gave me t shots. 1.5 inch deep injections. Self administered a lot. The pharmacy thought my dose was way to high. A lot. I took them for a while then. Got new insurance and now I get jell I've ben trying to take as directed but then I feel all , well way diferent, belive me it's no joke. I take it then I say and do things I never thought I would do. In a good way. I think I need this shit. But I still feel like I am a girl. Long hear. Polish my nails. I like girl music. And excuse the term but chic flicks. The problem is I am not gay, my dad was gay, I have no problem with that. But I like pussy. Dicks do nothing for me. Not even a tingle. Maybe I just need more testosterone . I've got that. In a bottle. Idk I am just confused. I don't want "professional help" like there is any. I saw your answer yesterday but had trouble finding it until now. I am new to this. What do you call it. Threads. Posts and the like. I just think shearing and listening will help me.some. so thanks. Now I am starting to cry. See I am a chick.
     
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  11. BigMichaelsInYou

    BigMichaelsInYou Porn Surfer

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    Thanks I needed that. I havent cried in a very long time. I still don't think I got it all out. But thank you .
     
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  12. BigMichaelsInYou

    BigMichaelsInYou Porn Surfer

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    Thanks. I was born a man and I will stay that way. I like woman, I like crafts. My favorite band is phish. And Fishman just became mayor I think it was mayor . He wears a dress while playing drums. Not the point.I have never ben in a relationship even though I am 47. I like airsuply. And journey . But love phish. I am so easy to get along with . I hate sports on tv. I had all mail friends in the past . I love to shop for sales. Or just to look. I am way to honest. I hate drama,can't stand it. I have spent most of my life taking care of my family . Brothers,nice and nephews. I listen to weard music . It's very personal to me. I love a good love story . I am great with science and physics . I can't spell. I can't right. I suck at this. That's all I can think of now . I do have anxiety realy bad. I got off all the drugs for it. When something piss es me off that's all I think about for days.or weeks. Yea I am just crazy . Hopefully in a good way. I would never hurt anyone . I am so gentle . Wouldent hurt a fly. Except the one I killed earlier . Sorry fly. Now I feel bad for a fly. Ask and I'll tell. I am way to honest.I am the nice guy . .
     
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  13. Hush

    Hush Happy Hhedonist

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    Is it so important that you find yourself a neat little box to fit in? If I felt the need to do the same, it would literally drive me insane trying to cram the degree of complexity that makes up me (just as with anyone) into some easily labeled box. How about you quit worrying about what you might be, or trying to come up with a single word to describe the whole of you, and just be who you are? You have no intentions of having gender reassignment surgery, meaning that you have no driving need, so that means you're not transgender.

    Try just living a while, not worrying about how you should be, or how you might be, just simply be yourself and forget about trying to apply a name or word to it.

    It's really that simple.

    Hush....an alias
     
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  14. deleted user 555 768

    deleted user 555 768 Porn Star Banned!

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    "I do have anxiety realy bad. I got off all the drugs for it. When something piss es me off that's all I think about for days.or weeks."

    Ya, me to, want some advice, go to your Dr and get back on your meds!
     
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  15. SilverLycan

    SilverLycan The XnXX Alpha Wolf

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    I almost regret asking...
     
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  16. BigMichaelsInYou

    BigMichaelsInYou Porn Surfer

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    Thanks ,
    Thanks. I was just asked a question a couple of days ago. Simply"are to strate" my post said man for man. Big fingers. I hit rong button and oops. But the question brought up a lot of questions to my self. Realy I'm 47 and never ben in a relationship. Why? It has to be me. So what your saying is if I don't want surgery then. Don't worry about it ? . But I am done being single. Forever. It sucks. The only people I have layed next to are my family . So clean family fun. I need more in my life. You know human contact . Just more then hugs.
     
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  17. BigMichaelsInYou

    BigMichaelsInYou Porn Surfer

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    No more meds. No zombie me no more.
     
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  18. BigMichaelsInYou

    BigMichaelsInYou Porn Surfer

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    I asked a question . You answered. Thank you . Don't regret.
     
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  19. SilverLycan

    SilverLycan The XnXX Alpha Wolf

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    You answered as well but it was almost incoherent.
     
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  20. BigMichaelsInYou

    BigMichaelsInYou Porn Surfer

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    Yea my writing skills are awefull . But thanks for noticing lol. It's my major flow. Well one of them.
     
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