Yesterday I was taking a drive and drove through this resort. A couple had arrived at their condo they had rented. The gentleman gets out and opened his ladies door. Reaches out taking her hand to help her out of the vehicle. He then pulls her to her holding her tight. Then kisses her so passionately. He then walks her to the door holding her hand. They were dressed so nice for each other to admire. I thought to myself if men treated their ladies like this I believe they wouldn't have to worry about not being satisfied sexually. Where's the chivalry anymore??? I know if my husband were to act this way towards me he would not be able to keep my hands off of him. I would want to please him in every way. You want more great sex then you guys should try this and see if things change for you. Not saying I don't give him what he needs now but I would adore him for treating me like a lady and fuck him like the bad girl he wants me to be!!! Like mmm daddy I'm all yours!!!!

 

chivalry

Chivalry has been somewhat tamped down by feminism. I have actually had a woman get angry because I rushed to open the door for her, she said I was being sexist. This was at a restaurant, I have no idea who she was, but I was taught to always do that... I couldn't believe it.

 

I take your point Sweetie and I agree that you should treat a girl like a lady in public.

A problem can arise however when that same girl wants to be treated like a whore and a slut in the bedroom but she cannot quite bring herself to articulate it properly.

In that situation the guy has to probe and push to see how far she wants him to go. The risk is that the passion of the moment gets lost in the guessing game that the guy has to play, to the disappointment of both parties.

Much better if she is the occasional naughty girl that needs a spanking.

thinskin

 

Yes exactly a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets??? That is me lol

 

Obviously she was a royal bitch. There are many women that wanna act like they don't need a man. True they don't but it's nice to have one around at times. But for a lady not to want to be treated like a lady...I don't get that!!! I love all the attention and affection.

 

I regularly practice chivalry. Sometimes you ladies don't give a guy a chance to do the small things like getting the door.

 

Some women don't want help with the door; next time let them pay for the meal :excited:. Be a gentleman in public and a ruthless man whore in bed .

 

How I like to be treated outside of the bedroom...in public. Is not how I like to be treated in the bedroom. Well at times I love the romantic passionate love making. But other times I wanna get down and dirty. Spank me and pull my hair, talk dirty to me and toys are always a nice added bonus. But in public?? Well I wanna be treated like a lady. He can gladly open my door or kiss me in public, hold my hand. I love the attention from him and the attention it draws to us. Guys see that and think hummm what is he doing that I'm not?? i bet the second though is.....hummm she must be good to him in the bedroom!!! Lol

 

I guess we all have our reasons.

Everyone is different. My husband doesn't have to earn the good sex with me. I love him and enjoy giving him pleasure, as he does for me. Isn't that what marital sex is mainly supposed to be for.... JMO

 

I don't do it to earn brownie points. I do it to be a gentlemen.

 

Being a gentleman died with the advent of reality tv and the fact many not all but many women can't take compliments and see it as a guy only trying to get in her pants. I know many times my ex fiancée killed the mood or just plain pissed me off when I tried to tell her nice things or do nice things she would come back with a snide remark about it. Like telling her she was beautiful and her replying no I'm fat or something. As far as reality tv goes young people see it and all wanna be like it but hate they find assholes to be with and just settle cause they look up to those people and think that's how they are supposed to act

 

I would say that chivalry is dead...it's just on life support. Nice guys do catch the most hell when it comes to relationships. You have a lot of women who crave bad boys. Those types may not know how to deal with nice guys. It seems that men have to honestly develop a persona that have the qualities of nice and bad in order to gain the attraction of a woman and to help her keep the fire burning...that's my opinion anyway lol.

 

Exactly!!! Both partners doing what the other desires. Inside or outside you bedroom. To be a loving wife or husband. True people have different desires and some women choose not to let their husband do chivalrous type things for her. Which is her choice. But others may enjoy the extra attention or feel a need for it.

 

I have to agree with you actually. I know some women like that. That just can't take a compliment. They have been treated wrong and are bitter from it. So they will never let a guy be a gentleman. In their mind bad attention is what they deserve. Then they bitch about how bad they have it. I will admit when I was a teenager I wanted a bad boy. I turned down a few gentlemen and found that prize bad boy....well bad boy is just what I got!!! So long story short after a stent of mental and physical abuse....I realized that wasn't quite what I pictured when I dreamed of this sexy rough bad boy. But that I only wanted to see the bad boy persona in the bedroom. Not quite so abusive but you get the picture. Lol There are those selective few women that would still like to date or marry that gentleman or as you quoted....that perfect combination!!!!!

 

Excellent point. In truth, I believe that both men and women have made relationships too damn complicated.

 

Nice guys finish last when they have met the wrong type of women. You got it men do need to find the right combo. I just think lovers, or husbands and wife's should put 100% inside and outside the bedroom. But it definitely takes two!!!

 

There is alot of truth behind that statement. Just do nice things for each other equally and have lots of sex!!!!! Simple as that!!!

 

Well hopefully soon, I will find that girl who personifies that statement.

 

I hope that you do too very soon.

 

The Friend Zone

I agree with many of the other guys above, but all have failed to mention what is called the Friend Zone. It's this wonderful place where you can be the absolute nicest guy to everyone you meet, but for some peculiar reason all of your female friends would prefer to date, fuck, and do many other things with people who don't value them for who they are beyond what they can do in bed. And before you mention it, yes I am in the friend zone in a multitude of relationships, its horrible.