I recently asked my wife if she would like to be with another man or as many other men as she wanted with me watching or possibly joining and she said no. i promised her i didnt want another girl i just dont think im giving her all she needs sexualy and also it is a fantasy of mine for her to be gang banged. is she saying no because she doesnt want to or is it because she might think i will look differently at her??

 

Because she only wants you, probably.

If my boyfriend suggested that to me I think the idea would turn me on, but not enough for me to want to do it, because I'm so in love with him I don't want anyone else.

 

How on earth could we possibly know?

 

I suggest you ask her why she said no. I could come up with a lot of reasons why she said no, but they'd all be guesses and you wouldn't be any closer to an answer.

 

im with Rain ask her because i know personally i couldn't do it because the only person i want is my husband

 

Yeah, what he said. Beyond that, if you want us to know the answer, put her on, we'll ask her. Or, as was so astutely suggested, ask her why she said no.

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watching wife

Curious, I agree with everyone else, you won't know till you try it. My wife always said she would never do it, then one night with the right couple and a little drink, we swapped. The next day she was a little uptight about it but we found we got turned on by telling each other what happened. It still took awhile before we were all in the same room. She told me after she saw I still loved her and didn't think any less of her she became more comfortable. I told her I was thinking the same thing!! Now it's still only with the right people, the right time, etc. I would say don't push her, if you find yourselves in the right situaton who knows.

 

Dude, come on, it might be interesting as a fantasy but dont take a stupid thing that someone claims to be doing on some website and apply it to your life. These things are not good for a married couple and I think they rarely happen. Try to keep your marriage healthy and don't mess it up because of some fantasy.

 

Don't do it. If she does it against her better judgement, because you pressured her into it, all sorts of bad things can happen:

1. She might like some other guy better than you, and leave with him.
2. You might get jealous of some other guy or guys, and go ballistic.
3. You might start thinking of her as a whore if she likes it too much.
4. You both might encounter some very unsavory and unsanitary characters.
5. She might pick up an STD.

Any one of the above could damage your relationship beyond repair.

 

good point

 

She probably thinks you will look at her differently . Tell her to pm me and I will hunt around at her with it and see what she says

 

She might not be into that........Tf ?? This thread is from 2006 lol

 

Why are we resurrecting threads that are over ten years old..........well because they contain a post from Kimiko I suppose!!

Thinskin

 

You sort of let the cat out of the bag. You said you don't think you are giving her all she needs sexually but then start on about your fantasy.
If you were truly worried about her it wouldn't be your fantasy that you would want.
Maybe she can see through you.

 

Holy shit this is a fucking old post.

 

She is fuckin hott

 

I remember when she was here. She's not here anymore. Get over it and stop resurrecting fucking old posts.