My girlfriend and I have been together about 7/months now so we are really getting to know each other. She is 50 & I am 45. We fit together more perfectly and have more in common than anyone I have ever been with. Sex is great and she is an amazing lover. She is not real kinky but kinky enough. There is a rumor that she goes both ways but she says it is bullshit. Either way does not matter to me but I really don't know to believe her or the rumor. She did tell me one night to pull up titty pics one the computer so we could look at some tits. Also when we make love she pays a lot of attention to my nipples kissing and sucking them. Tonight we were laying in bed and I started teasing her alittle about being into women and she said there is nothing wrong with licking a little pussy. I figured she was just giving me a hard time back by saying that. Then she sent my head spinning when she said there would be nothing wrong with me sucking dick. I played it off as both of us teasing. Little bit later I started wondering is she really teasing or is she trying to tell me something.

 

I think you should absolutely enjoy the relationship you already have with this wonderful woman, and let things progress as she opens up. Did she really go both ways? Who knows. Does it ultimately matter in your current relationship? It certainly seems like it doesn't. Let things move as she wants to, but it seems like it might be an idea that if she wasn't already open to, she might be opening up to now. Again, it doesn't really matter in the end. Enjoy her and your time and growth with her, be sure to say yes when she wants to keep things moving in that direction, that is if you're comfortable with it.

 

I have been letting her go as far as she wants to go and I think at her speed. Like I said it doesn't matter to me if she has had sex with another woman in the past. It was supposed to have happened before I even knew her so it is nothing to me. Also she was the one who told me the rumor when we first got together. The rumor was started by her ex and she said she just wanted me to be aware of it because I would probably hear it sometime.

 

Then I'm a little confused about what the problem is here. What is it you're asking from us?

 

Do u think she is wanting or open to us both playing both ways?

 

Now that we can really work with. I think she is testing the waters. If she told you from the get go it was a rumor, it would just be to see how you'd react. Now several months in, she's probably more comfortable asking and talking about that. I think yes, she might be heading in that direction, but definitely let her lead, slow her down once you reach a level you are no longer comfortable with.

 

I think she might be thinking, curious or leading that direction also. I also think you are right about her testing the waters when she first told me about the rumor. Because when she told me that she also asked me if I had ever sucked a guy or done anything else with a guy.

 

I think you're on the right track. It's up to you to go as far as you allow her to take you.

 

Right now it is nothing more than a little teasing.

 

Then there you have it my friend

 

She truely is an amazing woman all the way around. I just don't want to read more into something than I should.

 

Should you believe her or the rumor? Come on what do you think? Of course you believe her first and above anything else. '

Could she be Bi sexual but scared about openly admitting it, could she be testing the waters? Absolutely yes she could be.

Just play it cool. You have what seems like a great relationship and are having some great sex. My advice just go with the flow, the next time you look at some porn together ask her what she thinks of the girl, throw a comment in here or there yourself to show that you are cool with the idea of her being bi sexual, and f you are bi yourself or curious then drop a hint.

You dont know how her friends, family or previous partners may have reacted, or how she thinks they may react in coming out so dont push it just let her know in a subtle way that you are OK with it and if she really is Bi you will know for sure in due course

 

go on , taste different versions of sex donot be shy start licking and sucking

 

If it's that new of a relationship as a woman I would say just be very happy with her only for now.You push that topic and you could end up with no one.

 

Like i said it doesnt matter to me about the rumor. Deep down I do believe her about the rumor. I have her back no matter what and totally support her with everything and I try to make sure she knows that I do.

 

My wife said the same thing to me. I will never ask her again.

 

If you don't mind sucking dick. Do it.

 

If that would turn her on, make her happy a x please her I would do it. Like I said I have her back and totally support her!!!

 

Go to a swinger's party.., if there's a cat in the bag..,,out it comes.

 

I suggest you do not look a gift horse in the mouth and enjoy going with the flow for the moment.

When she wants to talk about just listen and do not judge!

The very best of luck!

Thinskin