Okay, the title is kinda blunt. Figured I would pretty much sum up the post if you didn't want to read the wall of text and you just wanted to voice an opinion.

I've been seeing this girl for about 1 year now. We are both pretty shy when it comes to sexuality. We fool around and whenever it comes to sex, I kinda get stymied by her. But recently the avenue has opened up. Yeah, a year, I know...

So I guess I'll just run down the stats so this doesn't turn into a 30 page essay.

Vagina is way tight. I can't fit two fingers up there. One finger, fine. Thumb, fine. Index and middle finger, no good. It really feels like its uncomfortably tight. And she winces in pain if I try for two fingers. And I'll be honest, I have kinda have thin fingers for a dude.

I am the first guy she has been with.

My penis is about 6.5-7 inches long, depending how aroused I am. I'm not sure on the width. If you take string and go around the thickest point of the shaft, its 5 inches, some people measure across, I'm not sure how all that works. The head of my penis is larger than the aforementioned 5 inches around.

First attempt. She is wet, I try to get it in, but there too much friction on the outside of the vagina. I'm catching on her labia (Majora?). I give up. I bring up the fact a few days later that I'm having some issues getting in. I bring up lube, she agrees. I get lube...

Second attempt. Laying be watching Euro-trip. Giving her the rub down. Reach for the vagina. Its like fucking water works down there. Panties are soaked. Okay, I figure I'm good to go. Start fooling around, I get probably just the tip in. And her legs flex like a damn body builder and I can't thrust any further. I'm trying, I'm like 'relax your legs etc, teasing the inside of her legs with my fingers, just trying to get her to relax. I Decide to put some lube on my member, things go in slightly better, but flexed legs again. At this point I'm asking her if she wants to continue. She says yes. I'm taking it real easy. Little more than the tip is in. Her head is turned to the side and I notice a glint of light on her face. She is crying slightly. I stop. I say are you okay, does this not feel good. She replies, yeah it feels good, but it hurts really bad at the same time. We decide to stop.

So I need some advice for like loosing her up a bit. I'm not trying to be a dick about this and obviously time isn't an issue. I was thinking maybe booze. Tipsy but not drunk. I was also thinking a thin vibrator to get her use to the feeling? Any advice would be great because I really want to have sex. Word, thanks in advance.

 

If she's a virgin, the first time isn't going to be the best, you might have to press on, it should get better!!!!!

 

Questions should be asked to her doctor or her gynecologist not to people on a porn message borad.

 

You need to get her closer to orgasim before you try to penetrate her. Rub and suck her clit and get her all hot, it'll help her relax and make her more likey to play through the pain. It's going to hurt to an extent if it's her first time.

 

If her legs are tensing up as well, I think maybe she is nervous and clenching up.

Booze might actually help but may be unethical. If you have access to a hot tub, or even a bath tub, you can try sitting in there for like an hour and then trying the sex again. That shit relaxes the muscles.

 

Sounds like more than a case of nerves to me. GET HER TO A DOCTOR.