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  1. timduncan

    timduncan Sex Machine

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    This isn't for me its for "my friend." Seriously though, my friend is looking for advice but i figure i can take your suggestions and use them for myself when i have a gf as well as to help him out right now.

    All in all he's a good guy and treats her great but she feels like he doesn't do anything "romantic." They'll do the whole dinner thing, movies, he'll call her and she if needs anything on his way home from work, all that kinda stuff. He's kind of lost on what to do. The more thoughtful the more romantic she'll think it is.

    Some of my thoughts were
    wine tasting
    cook her dinner
    go to a beach and have a lil picnic and all that
    get a room at a nice hotel and have someone set up candles and all that kinda stuff before they get there
    The whole leave clues on a post-it note type thing

    I mean those are all basic lame things and i wouldn't even know how to execute them. I just hear of people doing things like that so thats what i told him.

    So what is your advice? It can be lil day to day things or it can be an idea for a big event type thing. Anything general or specific on how to be more romantic you know?
     
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  2. chunky

    chunky Porn Star

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    Have her name tattooed across your forehead....:)
     
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  3. colinwarren

    colinwarren Porn Star

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    probably do a national paper advert
     
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  4. timduncan

    timduncan Sex Machine

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    At least be funny if you're not gonna help out. I know theres plenty to make fun so i hope you guys got better jokes than that.
     
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  5. Rain

    Rain Femme Fatale

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    go shopping for lingerie together
    run her a bubble bath, light candles (afterwards, brush her hair and paint her toenails)
    write her a poem (I guess some girls like this)
     
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  6. sara_pax

    sara_pax Porn Surfer

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    a night at a nice hotel always does it for me...... marriott, holiday inn etc.... prefer a room with a spa though..... a nice dinner then back to the room... *sigh*.... its been sooooooo long :rolleyes:
     
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  7. piggit

    piggit A Fine Wine of a Woman

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    Romance isn't always about grand gestures. As Rain said, brushing her hair ... AAAHHH, that is a killer right there.

    Make her a card (not with a computer)
    Wash her car for her
    Make her a CD with songs that have meaning to their relationship
    Arrange a girls' night for her
    Serve her breakfast in bed


    That's about all I've got right now.
     
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  8. Spinoza

    Spinoza Sex Lover

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    Bed & Breakfast spots. My favorite for romantic weekends. They're typically located amongst some really enjoyable nature.
     
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  9. Lady Fox

    Lady Fox Queen of Fantasy

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    :rose::rose:Make her some candle light dinners........don't let this just be a one time thing........send her flowers at her work.........cuddle alot with her like when watching tv or something............just keep letting her know u love her....hold hands when ya'll go out.....i love that part.....anyway good luck to ur friend:rose::rose:
     
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  10. Binky_Poodleduff

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    First thing I'd do it sit and talk with her and during the course of the conversation, ask her what she considers to be romantic. This way, he hears it right from her. Then he can take what she tells him and go think about it for a while and figure out some similar things to do.... :)

    To me, the fact that the person cares enough and is interested enough to ask me what I consider to be romantic and then soon acts upon it is, in its' own way, romantic....

    Then again, what do I know? :D
     
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  11. meQal

    meQal King of the Cantankerous Curmudgeons

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    Nothing says romance like hand cuffs and a whip. :D

    Seriously, flowers are always a nice touch but find out if she is allergic to any of them first. Small stuffed animals also seem to work sometimes. So does wine. However some of the best romatic gestures are simple things like putting the lid down, foot rubs, doing the cooking, showing you are actually listening, and showing intrest in what she wants to do.
     
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  12. CasaDan

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    That right there sounds like me :-|

    Anyway, what I found with my girl is that some of the smallest things are the most romantic. For instance, we'd just be layin on my bed snuggling and I'd out of nowhere give her a soft kiss on the lips the whisper 'I love you' in her ear.

    So, my advice would be to remain kind of simple. Send her flowers every now and then while she's at work, or star gaze together under a moonlit night. Show her your softer side.
     
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  13. nightlite79

    nightlite79 Porn Star

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    Casa seems to have hit the nail on the head.

    Romance isn't always about spending money. Throwing money at a problem like this can often make things worse.

    Maybe the guy isn't the 'touchy-feely' type, but lots of cuddles, kisses and snuggles could help a lot.
    I think those three magic words shouldn't be used cheaply though, 'I love you' is an important thing to say, but at the right time and when you really mean it.
     
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  14. A010011000111

    A010011000111 Porn Star

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    if you cook anything be sure you've cooked it beforehand and you know exactly what you're doing.
     
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  15. UK_Tax_Man

    UK_Tax_Man Sex Machine

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    this may just be me because i'm not in a relationship right now, but last time i was she told me that all of the pampering and other romantic stuff that i arranged was too much for her.

    after i got dumped.. again.. i sought advice from several sources and they all basically said the same thing...

    be a bastard and treat 'em mean to keep 'em keen


    shame it's not in my nature to be a bastard to anyone never mind a prospective partner... perhaps that's why i'm still single at 40...
     
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