Hey I'm new.
I'm wondering what do guys think about women who are virgins in their 20s or later? Its something that has been nagging me for a while but...I don't know. I just turned 21 in Jan. being a virgin doesn't bother me but the thought that guys might think I'm strange or not being into me because of it or something does.

Seems like everyone's doing it or done it by now (I know its not true but it sure feels that way). I just think it’s kind of awkward for they guy especially if he's been around for a while.
Question: If you met a chick (say in her mid mid 20s) would she being a virgin put you off? Is there a max age where you'd go "ok there's something wrong with her"?

 

Be true to yourself is all that matters.

But yes a girl in her mid 20's that is a virgin I would stay away from thinking that if she guards her virginity so well........ she probably has other issues.

 

I started early myself, but there were alot if girls my age who believed that they should wait. Having a belief that you don't want to fuck is fine but don't hold off for too long. Enjoy your youthfulness while you still have it

 

i've only had sex once and i'm 24, so no i wouldn't think there is anything wrong with you. honestly the thing i'd probably be worrying is how i am for you, since i have such little experience

 

Personally i dont veiw anything wrong with females being a virgin at any age its their choice on wether or not they want to have sex or not it would not scare me off if i met a female in her mid 20s that was a virgin although i think it would be interesting.

 

There isnt anything wrong with it. Preasure from peers and the media and general perception encourages people to give it up at an early age but theres nothing wrong with keeping it.

 

hey i'm a guy and only 22... I also am a virgin. don't let the peer pressure get in to u... do it if you feel doing it but be sure that you are well taken care of... and be careful with assholes... they're a lot 'em out there... (not sure if i'm one of them) so anyway main point is it doesnt bother me a girl is virgin at there 20's as long as she knows what is suppose to... porn can help...

 

no that kinda makes me a little happy but ive never had a virgin so yeahhhh...

 

It's okay if she is a virgin. If you care for her you will find out why. If she quit a convent at 40 she might be a virgin at 40.

 

I've got loads of respect for a girl who's waited, and would love to meet someone who respected themselves enough to be in that position. Can I flip the question slighly, how do you feel about the fact that your future partner is likely to have had a few partners already?

 

well... so much for experimenting

 

I know.. I've been watching porn for too long. but that doesn't bother me at all.. I'm cool with that.. we can say am waiting for the right one...

 

first off, there is nothing wrong with beinga virgin into your twenties or even later, personally I think you'd enjoy it more when you do have sex, then earlier as a teenager. I was a virgin until I was 20. I quoted funster because I took exception to his wording......

Having sex for quite a few women has nothing to do with self respect. That's the kind of comment you expect out of a man that thinks because a woman has had extra-marital sex, she is a slut, or a whore because she's slept with a certain amount of people. Not saying you do, it was just a badly worded comment. I do like that you seem to believe your comment though, because it is true, most men have had multiple partners. It is a very valid point, and why I get snarky about the double standard, that a man can have lovers and women shouldn't.

 

respect?!

WTF has it got to do with respecting self?!!

You spout that BS and then some of y'all have the gall to ask why women are uptight about sex. Cause some of y'all think we disrespect ourselves by having it.

And then, in this same forum, you'll be wondering how to get your (less-than-respectful?) partner to do anal, and swallow your cum, and let you jizz all over her face . . . right?

Stop with the thinly-veiled misogynistic beliefs.

 

I don't have a problem with it, im 26m and still a virgin, there's nothing wrong with waiting.

 

Like somebody else said, she probably has other issues also. In fact, she might never like sex or even want it. If sex is important to you, find another woman. This girl will likely want to watch Glee if you took her to the Fantasy Inn.

Run Forrest Run...

 

Why would it matter if she's a virgin? Maybe she wanted to wait for the right person to come along? Maybe she didn't want to have her first time with just anyone?

I'm a 22 year old girl and I'm a virgin. There's nothing wrong with me. I just wanted to wait. Why is it such a crime for someone to be a virgin over the age of 14 or 15 nowadays. I don't regret waiting because I believe I have found the right person.

 

My best friend is 21 and she's remained a virgin. She's a good girl and while I bring out a more 'naughty' side of her, it's just with me.

I lost my virginity when I was 17, but I didn't want to, the guy got me drunk and took advantage of me. I didn't say no, but I was under the influence of alcohol and my judgment was very much impaired. I didn't have sex (with a guy) again until I was 21.

 

When the right guy comes along, will you suck his cock and swallow his cum?

 

Nothing wrong with waiting for that mystical "right one" to each is their own, but by all means do not think, it is special, I much rather a girl with some sexual experience, deflowering a virgin is not all that.