I lived in an apartment building for a short time. When I met my 4th wife I invited her to come over.
She decided to stay the night. We had a very good time. The next morning right after I left for work the manager came knocking on my door.
The neighbors thought I was killing a woman. It embarrassed my soon to be wife so much I had to move.

 

I love men who are vocal, but it has to be genuine. I've taken to watching porn on mute, because so much of the "noise" is just that.

Kudos to you, sir!

 

Depends on the guy. Some are naturally quiet, other make an effort to be quiet, and others make noise. If sounds of desire and appreciation are what turns you on, tell your partner. He may make an effort or stop holding back if he knows you like it.

 

Thank you BJ! I would love for you to be able to hear me!

 

I like to hear my bf cum lol! I mean him being silent lol just seems weird to me! If you going to cum, I want to hear you! Either moan or groan! Be vocal! Though, I wondered what it be like to see some quiet though just to see what it is like

 

Moaning, groaning, grunting and talking all add to the experience. But I guess it takes all kinds. I am surprised in a lot of the amateur porn I watch, the number of people who have the tv news or a sports program on while they are having sex. I don't like distractions during sex. Used car ads are a distraction, groans and nasty talk is not.

 

My guy is definitely a moaner. So am I.

 

There is vocal, and then there is vocal. The reason that most men are not vocal (besides trying to hide the fact that they came), is because most women at one time or another have been exposed to at least one vocal guy that turned her off... and so she feels some inane need to pass that along to every other guy, and ultimately a lot of guys listen.

In any case, good or bad vocal to many women walks a very fine line. As an example, one guy I have sex with as his orgasm builds cannot help but say "oh... oh my... oh my... oh, oh, oh my GAWD!" and that's fine. In contrast another guy I know who is actually a very good lover I can't stand. Every 30-seconds he asks "does that feel good? Does that feel good?" Then there are those who state their degree of pleasure, or might grunt out how good a part of you feels, yet it is not constant or even intentional the feeling is just so overwhelming to them, and that's great. In contrast to that their are the commentators. They have to describe in every graphic detail every part of you, how it feels, what it makes them want to do, what they think you are, etc., and they drive me crazy. There are those who grunt and moan, yet it's not excessive, or those that when they cum literally roar or yell, all of it uncontrollably and that is great. In contrast there are those who every stroke, thrust or grind feel the need to make a noise. Not because they can't help it, but because they feel the need to mark the moment I suppose, and that is not great.

Finally, here's by far my worst to date. From my writing on "fetishes":
**Bob23** was another sniffer of sorts (as I have no idea what this fetish might be called), yet by the fourth visit had to end it as I couldn't take it anymore. What Bob23 liked to do was simple. With me freshly bathed neither sweaty or dirty, I would kneel on the bed naked from the waist down, knees wide and butt high as Bob23 would lean in and sniff at my anus never touching me. No licks, no gross smells, no gas or filth, nor would he even masturbate. Just sniff away for 30 minutes or less, then leave... Except... Bob23 would make the most horrific noises while he did so. Not soft and quiet, yet loud moans and groans, coos, grunts, gurgles and chitters. It was rather obvious he couldn't help himself, and given free reign having paid for it did not have to be quiet. The first visit it was all I could do to not bust out howling with laughter. The second it was funny at first, then irritating. By the third I would of rather had him fisting me in the ass if he'd just shut the fuck up. By the fourth I couldn't take it anymore actually about five minutes in beginning to wretch and spit up in my mouth... Sadly he understood why which made me feel terrible, yet I fixed him up with a deaf gal I knew who worked and as far as I know they were a match made in heaven.

Never the less, I learned long ago to never comment on things I didn't like that would insult someone's "natural" sexual way of being, whether I liked it or not. Those things that were clearly forced however, as in not reflexive yet planned (like women making BS fake noises and phrases), I'd try and gently nudge them to relaxing and not forcing it. Unfortunately however, most gals aren't that tolerant, especially when they have other issues with a guy brewing, and it is from those moments that most men are "trained" unfortunately to just be quiet. Such things are tough to break, especially when you would enjoy them just naturally expressing themselves in that you can push them to being unnatural too.

Hush....an alias

 

I make noise, and when I cum I usually make a lot. Wife's a bit quieter but I love hearing her grunt, gasp, and moan. But it's all very natural and unforced - I hate fake sex sounds.

 

This is where I am at, I like to talk nasty say things that come natural to me.

 

It's a strange phenomenon men being silent except for the occasional moans during waves of sensation, I myself I'm a talker. I attest it to the fact that while it may be welcome it's not expected of us and many of us feel the pressure of inherently performing even when we're not the aggressor our focus is on your response.

 

Noise, noise and more noise. I let a woman know exactly how I'm feeling, I never feel embarassed by it and actively encourage it by giving responses to noises made by my partner. It's sex, it's meant to be noisy and carefree. Grunts, groans 'dirty talk', anything that conveys the feelings of the moment. I like a noisy woman too but have experienced one or two that took it a bit far.
Having said that, there are times when the noise has to be kept down and that can be fun too, trying to stifle moans and graons. It can feel a bit naughty and add to the experience.

 

like thishttp://www.xvideos.com/video17308721/100_most_brutal_orgasms_of_all_time

 

He doesn't have to moan or groan, but if he does, I must be doing something right.

 

As my orgasm is building, I start pumping faster and growl!

 

Just my thoughts from conversations with past BFs when discussing the same thing while waiting for them to re-charge. Many of them confess to masturbating at home and not wanting to be caught, remained silent so it's a learned behavior. I like a vocal guy as I am very vocal myself and it helps me not be so self conscious and enjoy the moment.