1. CCommonSensei

    CCommonSensei Sex Lover

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    Uh huh
     
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  2. razzaghyh

    razzaghyh Newcumer

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    Hi baby
     
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  3. ladygodiva123

    ladygodiva123 Porn Star

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    Considering his religious beliefs, it would seem he wants to stay a virgin until he is married. So the question is, do you want to marry him and do you have similar religious beliefs? Do you want to be the kind of wife he is looking for? If not, keep him as a dear friend.

    In any case, starting a relationship when you have a very ill parent is a bad idea. Starting a relationship out of need, rather than desire, never works out well.

    I'm sorry you're going through this with your mom. I was my mother's caregiver through her almost 10 year battle with breast cancer. It was a difficult time, but the one advantage is that you have time to catch up on "I love you"s before she's gone. But it's just not the time to start a romantic relationship.



     
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  4. Bron Zeage

    Bron Zeage I am a river to my people

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    "Give him a chance?"

    Don't you mean, "give him a turn." After all, he's waited in line and he's next. I've seen this opera many times and it always ends the same. After all the sexually attractive men have gotten sick of your shit and became jerks, he's still here, complete with the cock you don't want to fuck.

    I don't mean to sound harsh, but look at it from his point of view. He's watched you go through relationships with other men and probably knows all your flaws. What you need to worry about is whether he'll give you a chance.

    If he's under 25, he will. It's a cinch. 26 to 35, maybe. It depends on whether he's ever been married. Over 36, probably not.
     
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      Well said.
       
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  5. submissivelyspeaking

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    Between my original answer, Lady Godiva's and Bron's, I think this is covered.

    This isn't the time. This is really not the time. You're upset, very vulnerable, probably frightened. Not a good time to make big decisions.

    He is not owed intimacy because he waited years for it. Even nice guys can be "nice guys", and women are not machines you drop nice coins into until sex falls out. Jeezus fuck when will they learn that?

    You don't want to fuck him, and chemistry cannot be invented. It won't get better. And he's never had sex? Do you want to wait to be married to find out he's a bad lay? Do you want to teach him?

    It's a bad idea all around.
     
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  6. michael saint

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    I feel sorry for the guy.

    It seems to me that you may be one of the many women around these days that thinks she is entitled to be worshipped.

    One of the fat girls that says she is "curvy" and men prefer plumper women, well maybe some do but more prefer women that care about how they look and are prepared to work to stay in shape and ignore the dessert trolley.....

    Rant over.....

    If you do make a move I hope he turns you away.
     
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  7. Dildomechanic

    Dildomechanic Sex Machine

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    Lets see my uncle had an arranged marriage. The usual chic movie plot.
    This does not look like loise lane . she has not read the ethical slut. He is a virgin because of religion she just wants to pop his cherry? Her bio clock is not ticking? She could stay friends and hook him up with a girl friend. Of course you ask hhere rather than find someone who knows you well for advise that may know both of you. The real issue is we marry families so you must earn the respect of him and hos family. If you are a slut then be honest with him. He may take a relationship and vows seriously. Hush has writen a good eval of womens dark side. The person who visits you in jail or hispital is a true friend. I was fwb a srx worker help her thru hospice. She was specific to her family she had not seen in 20 years for my help. I did it because someone helped me and said pay it forward. Imho
     
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  8. submissivelyspeaking

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    Oh look, everyone.

    Prince Charming has arrived, to set us all straight on etiquette, personal health and well-being and female self-esteem, all in one post.

    Thank heavens. I don’t know what I’ve done so long without him.
     
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  9. tallnfit

    tallnfit Renaissance Man

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    Jesus Christ.

    Way to make assumptions about somebody you don't know.

    You know what opera I've seen so many times?

    The one where the pathetic loser who hasn't contributed anything meaningful to society and has fucked up every opportunity to do so thinks his getting older makes him some wise old sage.

    It's old and tired. It really fucking is. Get over yourself.
     
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  10. halodren

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    Dude, back the fuck off. This girl came here in good faith asking for advice. Clearly you’ve been hurt at some point because you thought you were owed sex in exchange for basic human decency, but that’s not her fault. She’s going through a hell of a time and she doesn’t need assholes like you trying to shame her for trying to figure out what she wants in her life. Go torment small animals or whatever sadistic bullshit it is that gets you your jollies.
     
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      Back the fuck off?

      Fuck you dickhead, if she can't take opinion on a porn forum she should not be here and that goes for you too.

      Grow the fuck up.
       
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  11. Gcccc

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    Don't ruin a good friendship
     
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  12. Dildomechanic

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    The last time he got laid was during the vietnam war! Even the street sex workers turn him down. Lol
     
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      That's brilliant, well played.

      Are you 12 years old?
       
      michael saint, Aug 12, 2018
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  13. ladygodiva123

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    Well that took a turn. Project much?

     
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      LOL
       
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  14. Valspar

    Valspar Porn Star

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    Where have you been, mate?
    I was just thinking we need another asshole around here and...POOF!
    You appeared.
     
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      Pretty bored with this place to be honest.
      The Trump/anti Trump shite is just too pathetic for words and I'm having a brilliant summer.

      Hope the trailer park is still ok and your kids have stopped spitting everywhere!

      Be around more when it gets colder.
       
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      I hear you with the political shit.
      Thanks for asking about the trailer park.
      Actually our trailer caught on fire but my son spit on it to put it out.
      Fucking meth labs are volatile.
       
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    3. michael saint
      Got to make a living somehow.
      Working most days and out most nights and weekends.
      No time for here when there are real girls around.
      Happy to still be an asshole though.
       
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  15. Valspar

    Valspar Porn Star

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    Top of the line advice....
     
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  16. freethinker

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    Ah, so more comes to light...

    So, which is it, he wants to remain a virgin or he wants to get laid? Or perhaps he's talking about a chance at marriage - if so, has he proposed?

    Not a good time to make a decision about anything, especially whether to have sex with someone or to get married. And such a decision is not 'owed' to anyone - if they feel it is, they aren't quite the decent person you might think they are. There seems to be an ulterior motive at work here.
     
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  17. Valspar

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    Or...us older people can realize she's only 23. Sorry O.P. You're too young for advice from me.
     
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  18. Dildomechanic

    Dildomechanic Sex Machine

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    My daughter just called me with testing for cancer... Dealing with cancer with any person is draining. I helped a fwb thru hospice. You half to put your life on hold and you learn something about yourself. My dad died of cancer when i was six. My mother died complications diabetes at 60. You realize you are the future for next generation. You have been sexually active. This guy has not... There are few virgins in their 20's today. You have 23-40 to have kids. At some time you would have to make a decision about sex with him... That means religious talk if khe expects you to join his religion make that decision first. Like a gentile and jew. Or catholic/ prostant. Etc.
    Women make a decision of daddy status instead of h s jock. A few ideas for you an old guy
     
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  19. michael saint

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    She asked for opinions...I gave her mine.

    If you have a problem with that I suggest you grow the fuck up or get to facebook or some other fucking circle jerk.

    I think that she is a patronising cunt that thinks that this poor guy deserves a chance, I hope he sees her for the fraud she is.

    Oh and fuck you and your arselicking opinion, you are the type of dickless twat that gives men a bad name.....
     
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  20. michael saint

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    I thought that with your username you could take the truth.....

    Well played....
     
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