if you had a gf, who you loved and wouldnt want to cheat on but were extremely dissapointed in the fact that she doesnt perform oral...and had a coworker who put an offer on the table to "suck your dick anytime you need head"...what would you do....i have a high sex drive as it is...and while our sex is amazing, i dont always feel 100 percent satisfied from a sexual standpoint

 

If you truly love her, you wouldn't care if she gave oral or not. I think you should try to look at things a different way and be grateful you have her at all. Also, try to talk to her about it. Why doesn't she like it? Taste? Maybe you could start eating better? Or whatever, try to compromise something. Don't just turn around and get it from somewhere else, not nice

 

yes we have talked, and its not even the cum, its giving head in general she doesnt like, and i do care i havent cheated on her but the urge to get oral just eats away at me, her sex drive isnt nearly as active as mine so from a sexual standpoint im slightly discouraged

 

If she truly loved you, she would give you head if you asked her to.

 

"and wouldnt want to cheat on"

Yet getting a blowjob from another woman is most certainly cheating on her.

And... it doesn't say much for your feelings for her if you're willing to be unfaithful just because you don't get blowjobs.

You may be less than 100% satisfied... but you can't expect perfection from a relationship. No two people are truly perfect for each other.

Unless you don't actually care about cheating on her or doing something that would hurt her an awful lot if she knew, then you've a simple choice: blowjob or girlfriend. You can't stay within the morals you gave in your first post, while asking another girl to suck your cock.

 

If you aren't happy with her break up with her.

 

grow some balls its not the end of the world if she doesn't suck your cock. you are being selfish and men like you give men in general a bad name if your thinking about cheating on her. and that lady gives women a bad name for offering you to cheat on her with

 

If you're not entirely sexually compatible, you may need to evaluate whether this person is the one for you. But you also need to consider that perfection is a hard thing to come by in another person, and that most of us have to make a concession or two. In the end, it's up to you and what you think is important.

I can't, however, recommend that you simply cheat on her.

 

You used fewer words than I did, and got the point across more effectively.

 

Great advise right there, nothing more to be said

 

That's not true. And not very respectful look towards your relationship. Never ever say "if you love me, you'll do this for me" because that means that you obviously don't love her or respect her enough to accept her decisions. No matter how silly they may be.

 

I absolutely agree that this sort of coercion is out of bounds. She has the right to say no...but he also has the right to end the relationship, if it's that important to him.

 

Firstly if you truly love your girl then anything she doesn't want to do you should respect.

Secondly getting a blow job is not the best or even one of the best things about sex.

Although you've not said her age and for the reason she said no.

Only go with someone else if your a two face back stabbing cunt. If your not then you've answered your own question.

 

STFU. Just because someone loves you doesn't mean that they will be willing to do EVERYTHING sexually that you desire. Some people find things on the disgusting or unwanted side and will not perform those acts.

If anyone is to love another, then they also need to come with the understanding that PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT! We all have our do 's and don't 's in sexual activities.

If someones seriously going to be stupid enough to get pissy because they can't get 1 sexual act from their partner. Then that person not only doesn't truly love their partner, but should just end the relationship and go elsewhere because they wont be doing themselves or their partner any good by living a "lie"

 

If the oral is so important to you that you would cheat on her, it's time to get out of the relationship and move on. Sex is sex, but a relationship transends the sex. In other words, sex should enhance your relationship, but in the base sense the relationship isn't there to strictly enhance the sex. Decide what your priorities are and if you need the oral, it's time for a different relationship.

 

blatant cuntishness ^

 

No head is better than bad head.... And love is not based around giving head! Christ!!

 

I'm sorry but you sound so selfish..

I got with my partner when I was 20 and a virgin,he asked me if I would like to suck his cock,I tried it..didn't like it so I didn't try it again until 3 years into our relationship.
I realised being a little older and wiser I did enjoy doing it.
The whole 3 years not giving my man oral did not bother him in the least.

If you truely care and love this lady you will stick it out until she is ready even if she's not your heart should come before your cock..

 

Well you're a douche to begin with because you're a wigger, but this just really puts you in a whole other douche category.

 

she said it the best