I was talking to my ex, and during the conversation she told me the real reason she never wanted to do it. We tried maybe 3 times, she would just say it was too big and that was that. Recently she went further into it saying that the pain was doable, but everytime I got in she felt like she needed to poop and it turned her off. This is the reason for no anal for the last 6years. Anyone else experience this feeling? What other reasons have you all encountered?

 

I have not experienced this issue but for some people, i have noticed that size is definitely an issue that has been brought up multiple times.

 

So your saying you have a big penis

 

I am a bi male and have been fucked many times and it stings a bit about halfway in, but after that it is all pleasure........But I have also had an inflatable butt plug used on me , that slid in very easily and felt great as it was pumped up, BUT suddenly I really felt I was going to shit myself, so yes I understand where your ex was coming from. However I have had anal with many guys and some women and all have loved it after the initial half way in sting. The key is lots of lube and taking your time- the pleasure is awesome. The greatest difficulty is getting guys and especially women to try it out, without exception every virgin guy I have had has come back for more

 

For a majority of those on the receiving end, the feeling of needing to have a movement passes within 30 seconds but it can be fairly intense in nature. Generally that's a sign that they weren't relaxed, they aren't fully into it, there isn't enough lube and in some cases, they just can't shake the feeling. I know the first 3 or 4 times I had anal, that was a sensation I had a hard time shaking but each time that feeling would feel less and less. By the 6th or 7th time I didn't feel that sensation at all but that's me, that's not everyone. Some things that help:

1. Cleaning out ahead of time (warm water only enema , not a stimulant enema)
2. Lots of foreplay using a plug or dildo to help relax and stretch
3. Anal is 75% in your head so mentally getting into it and it being something you actually want versus something you're doing to please your partner
4. Believe it or not, not being drunk. Being drunk might make you open to the concept but being trashed can make you mentally interpret certain sensations differently.
5. The penetrating partner shouldn't go "balls deep". There's not much in the way of nerve sensations past the first few inches but if they are well endowed and get deep, you can stimulate the colon which will tell the vagus nerve that there's something in there and it's time to "go". Flip side, when you get to the point of really enjoying anal sex, that same nerve when stimulated can be absolutely yummy.

As far as the "inner sphincter" hurting, that's you not taking the time to warm up. Seriously, there's a different between discomfort and pain. Discomfort is ok and doesn't involve "ouch". That could stem from not used to being stretched to the receiving partner not being relaxed enough. Ouch / pain is bad, you should stop. Again, using a plug or couple of fingers (trim those fingernails) generally eliminates the pain part.

 

Foreplay is a must for anal. Toys and rimjobs if you're not averse to it.

 

YEah, the first few times, but it went away.

 

I’ve loved it from both ends. I just make sure that me and my partner (male or female) are well prepared. Cleaned out and a lot of lube

 

My main reason for not going anal is because my wife told me no and told me that's all I needed to know. So I had to mail back the beautiful American whopper dong with harness I bought her for my birthday.

 

I have felt that way at times, especially the first few times. The first time was the worst. When he pulled out of me I was literally afraid to look at his penis because I was certain I had pooped all over it. I still find anal a bit uncomfortable (but overall enjoyable) but it makes him so happy I just can't say no (most of the time).

 

read somewhere, that it should be cleaned (using enema) being starting the exercise. that would reduce the chance of pooping or even having that feeling; size is definitely a case in question, for the anus hole is not as adjustable as the front opening, and a lot of oil would help initially. should try this sometime.

 

My friend says that the brush handle (after removing the bristles) is a very good thing for anal insertion. Anybody tried???

 

Always do anal!
No excuses!

 

I have an average dick and I can make anal hurt..but I don't because I know how to do it.

The feeling of having to push..is natural and WANTED by her. That push..allows the sphincter to do it's job by relaxing and opening more to allow something through it. It doesn't know it's only suppose to be a one way road lol..it just opens.

She has to enema before you do it..at least know she doesn't have to go....or you can probe with your finger to find out. Be adult about it..every one here has felt some poo inside a butt while poking around. This is just what you have to do to prepare for it.

 

Diarrhea is the only reason . Other than that bend me over and give it to me

 

i love getting fuck in the ass i have my biggest and best orgasms when i am getting ass fucked and i never felt like i was ever going to poop any time i get fucked in the ass

 

Never have the issue as I completely relax

 

i have enjoy getting ass fuck ever since i was a teen age girl my dad was my first ass fuck

 

Definitely not the front