Anyone who has read even one of my smutty and depraved stories in the archives hereabouts, will understand I have some pretty perverted ideas from time to time regarding sex. In terms of the real world , I'm not shy about.. well.. much of anything, and have had my fare share of pretty out there sex action (insert almost any type here) and done it from time to time in as selfserving fashion at times, as anybody else.

However, I'm hopelessly romantic just the same..

I'm wonder how many people encourage romance in their SEX lives?

Does anyone here have a sex session which is anything like, what I will try to imagine here in text before you:

Two beautiful, interesting, worldly people, no inhibitions, no prejudices, or at least so much in love that such things are easily over ridden come together.

A meeting of the minds takes place. This is their treasured selfish time. Perhaps they whisper sweetly tawdry subects? Confess their deepest feelings right or wrong? By nature, these two are fire and kerosene at times, yet not tonight.

Tonight they long to enter the sweetest inner sanctum of each other's inner beings. Longing deeply for a way to caress each others hotly glowing souls.. All barriers removed, all faults forgotten. How ardently they seek each other's liquid passions.

In their little timeless time of utterly intermingled emotion; kindly craving and sharing super-consciousness together.

They swoon together, knowing lovers. Lips whispering the sweetest promises their bodies long to keep. Tonight they will confirm their gentle, caring love, in unison. Tender knowing tactile loving touches. The overwhelming desire to be completely together transmitted through their knowing limbs, and hotly throbbing bodies. Urging each other on until the white hot moment of their union.

So.. what I'm asking is.. are their any folk out there who love to be romantic DURING sex?

What special sort of things do you say and do?

Like whispering and enjoying each others minds as well as (and not just) your bodies? Daring to be vulnerable with each other when you literally have each other in your palms? Do you love to tremble, trusting together through sheer verbal expression of your desires? Are you a honey dripper whom can charm your lover into coming for you with your wits?

If so, how did you get to this point in your relationship? Was it just always that way? Or did you cultivate it?

How do you feel romance enhances your sex sessions perhaps?

Perhaps I'm being silly?. Is romance something better finalized before the bedroom door in your opinion? Why?

I rather hope this wont be to private, a subject to discuss. Personally I think, even if only a fantasy, romance during sex is really HOT!

 

I'd say 90% of sex with my girlfriend is romantic lovemaking.

5% is kinky and highly-charged sexually.

5% is sort of de-facto, quick session, just to do it sex.

And to be honest, the kinky still mingles with romanticism as well as eroticism.

 

Yes.

However my questions are mostly in regard to practical examples of your notions of romance.

You didn't actually share your romantic side with us just then, did you?

 

same here, cept 90% is romantic and 10% is super-charged kinky. i dont think we've ever had sex just to do it

 

Hey you two ol' honey drippers. Here's a few lines you might find romantic then:

Darling, how do I love thee? Let me count the ways:

Hmm.. Well. Let's see, 90% its because you have eyes that are 20% bluer than your sisters. And the other 10% is because your a great fuck.

Well. I guess its not THAT bad.. accountants have to have sex too apparently..

 

...accounting for a 20% margin of error.

 

My husband and I lie in bed and read poetry to each other. We love Shakesperean sonnets, Walt Whitman (even though he was gay), Emily Dickinson, you name it. We go out to nice restaurants with white tablecloths and speak low over glasses of red wine. He surprises me with weekends at Victorian bed and breakfasts overlooking Monterey Bay.

Probably 70% of the time our lovemaking is slow, sensuous, and endless.

The rest of the time, we rip each other's clothes off and fuck our brains out, until we fall apart, gasping for breath, utterly spent.

 

THANK GOD!

That gave me shivers of delight, hope and envy. My heart swoons.

So romance is not dead after all! Hooray!

For what its worth, you've gone way up in my estimations now Kimiko.

If melancholia over takes, when I lament this generation's ideal of "meh";

I'll remember your marvelous example, and decide there are still some women in this world, whom are as pretty on the inside as without.

 

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Damn you have a way with words.

I'll refrain from the accompanying joke, I am sure you can envision.

 

Kimiko

Why can't we all have a love like that (he signs mournfully)

 

lol

 

my husband and i aren't quite as vocal about our romantic moments...but we have a connection that we both can feel during the majority of our love making...however, we also like to have jungle luvin's as we like to call it, similar to kimi's quote above :mrgreen:

 

Could someone explain to me what...'meh'.....means, as I have seen it often, but understand it not!

 

How lucky for the both of you!!!

 

I use 'meh' as a synonym for "whatever", or "I don't care" or a combination of both.

such as:
"hey, what did you think about the movie?"
"Meh"

"Are you ready for the test tomorrow?"
"Meh"

 

I guess every generation has to have a few expressions like this. I'm glad someone else asked, so I don't have to feel so lame.

I have a girlfriend who keeps saying things are "groovy", and we don't have the heart to tell her that she's a few decades behind the times.

 

Cheers Nympho...now I'm 'in the groove'.....:-D

 

Yes I'm pea green also.

I once spent 5000rias on a specially arranged dinner for my wife in Brazil. (not including bringing her and the kids to visit me there from Holland)
I hadn't seen her for a a few weeks (working) and I already knew she was having an affair, still, I wanted to show her she'd been missed.

As I'd prearranged, we took diner at one of the most famously romantic restaurants in all Brazil. A special menu I knew she liked, and we were given the best outdoor seat, over looking a gorgeous moonlit bay.

Everything was perfect, as the sea sighed before us and the evening progressed like something from a fairytale.

And when I felt the time was absolutely right, I took her supple little hand, and looked lovingly into her eyes and told her, discreetly but with heart felt affection, how much I'd missed her and how beautiful she was.

And she said;

"For fuck sake! Don't embarrass me in front of all these people."

So the moral of this pathetic tale may be this:

If you marry a very unromantic person, and they cause you grief, and you decide to try to rekindle your passions in something like the way I have tried to describe above.

I do advise you make sure soup is on the menu. That way you'll have something handy to poor over their fuckin' heads, as need may be.

 

oh hun...

oh, you poor thing...i would love for that much effort to be put into making me feel special!! just out of curiosity, are you still with her?

 

Yeah, but maybe she will bring it back into modern usage, I thought it was fab when people started to use cool again about ten years ago. So chill, she's hip.