Ever since we've been together my wife has been really self conscious about her appearance. She wont even let me see her naked without turning the lights out. Is there anything I can do to help boost her confidence any? I think she gorgeous and tell her so all the time, but it's like she doesn't believe me. Can anybody help me with this?

 

show us a picture of her. doesn't have to be naked. then tell her how everyone tells you how hot she is, again you don't have to tell her that people on this site are saying it.

 

Don't just tell her she's gorgeous. Show her! I'm very self conscious about my body. but the fact that my bf adores it and practically worships it makes me so confident in our sex life. He holds me close when we make love and passionately kisses my whole body and he's always grabbing my butt and man-handling me like he can't help himself because he just finds me so desirable (I only accept that behavior from him haha). But yeah, the way he acts like he's just crazy about my body makes me confident and hornier... try that.. .find her irresistible to touch and to make passionate hot love to (if you haven't already...)

 

To be a little more specific, love her for her insecurities... I'm insecure about my huge butt and little belly, but my bf LOVES THAT. I don't know if he knows I'm insecure about it, but the fact that he grabs them and kisses them and tells me how much he loves my jelly belly (hahaha) makes me even hornier and confident that he doesn't find those things disgusting... it's a good feeling to be beautiful in front of the guy you love..

 

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strip her naked and put her out down town were u nigge3rs hang shel,l know shes hot when were done

 

Thanks for the feedback. I'd post a picture of her, but she won't let people take pictures of her. Even at our wedding she barely took any pictures. But I'll try to talk her into a photo or two. Once again, thanks for the advice, I'll try anything to get her to feel better about herself.

 

I used to be very self-conscious about my belly and my bum, to the point where I really preferred to have sex with the lights out. An ex once blindfolded me and I was far more comfortable - I knew he could see me but as I couldn't see his reaction somehow I felt far less inhibited.

I've found that as I age I accept myself far more, but Dalia is quite right, the more you tell her and show her that you adore her body and find her sexually irresistable, the better she'll feel. If you can have a frank conversation about it without embarrassment getting in the way of honesty it may also help for you to tell her some of your insecurities - it never ceases to amaze me when a man will confess to something he hates about his appearance as I can guarantee it will be something I've either not noticed at all or something I like.

My current man has major moobage, to the point where he has considered surgery. I don't think he understood just how unconcerned I was about them until I was playing around and motorboated them. He is more than his moobs, just as I am more than my thunder-thighs.

Good luck MoonLight!

 

She sounds like a complete ass whip! It's a little late to start trying to change people after you marry them. You had to know that she was like this before. If it bothers you so much then why did you marry her? How about you tell her that she is wearing you out with her childish self centered attitude and your not going to put up with it anymore.

 

TITS OR GTFO.

 

Take her to the gym...then she'll be more attractive. Problem solved, you're welcome.

 

Once again, thanks for all the POSITIVE feed back. And thanks Curious, that's a good idea. I'll definitely have to try that. As for those who want to know why I married her, I love her regardless of her faults, but that doesn't mean that I don't want her to be happy with her self. I'm not trying to change her at all, she looks great and is a wonderful woman.

 

I take the liberty to believe that your wife is simply shy - you have already mentioned that she looks great!

So, for starters, try some dim lights or some candles.

Meanwhile, try to convince her to take the showers or baths together with you - there, try washing her and ask her to wash you.

From my experience, I believe that in a few months she'll let you look even inside her ass if you feel like that.

It all depends on the way you act and react.

I don't think it would be a bad idea to tell her how much you love her and how much you love the parts of the body that you know she thinks she has a problem with them...
Anyway, don't mention only those parts!

Good luck!

 

Tell her how hot she is several times a day, call her out f the blue from work and tell her you miss her, buy her gifts that are romantic at least once a week (doesn't have to be expensive, I love a good chocolate bar with a little I love you note) take her picture allot (with her clothes on). Touch her, touch her arm when you talk, touch he face when she talks. talk to her during sex about how beauiful she is, tell her how tight good her pussy feels, etc...do all this and eventually she'll be walking around the house naked just for you. guys always forget how to be a player after the relationship goes on for awhile.

 

very good points wet I have found that is a common thing with some women. . .unfortunately I have found that something happened in the past that brings this out and it is sometimes hard for them to move on.
But going back to what wet mentioned, if you just tell her what you are thinking when you see her close to nude or you feel her body against yours in the dark then that will be a huge boost! I did this for years with my last ex and before you knew it she was naked with me and my best friend which led to a 3some! Just tell her whats on your mind man!