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  1. skill90

    skill90 Newcumer

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    Feb 4, 2012
    Hello to everyone,
    it seems that i am stuck in a weird situation and i am not sure if this is the right place to discuss about it...but hey...lets see what happens. But first let me give some information before explaining.
    I'm 21, she is 24. She is virgin and i'm not. We are together almost 2 weeks.
    So here is the thing, the first time we kissed we got really close but it was in university in a HOME that is used for experiments and have access only 4 people (why i say that? you will see later on).

    So as i said we got really close...we were watching a movie...and she told me that she wanted to have sex. Yes, there was a bed...but as i said, it was not a 100% safe place. So i said we cannot do it here. The next time we meet (it was after 2 days) we could do it at my home (i could not bring her at my home that day because i had people there). Well...she agreed! great, right?

    NO! Next day when we talked, she told me she is not ready for it. Ok, i can understand that, sure. But she was ready before? Ok nevermind, lets find out why she changed her mind. So next time we met at my home, i made it as romantic as possible, we cook together (closed lights, candles etc) and then we eat. Well ok we didn't manage to finish because...well...she started kissing me so we went to watch a romantic movie while we were..."playing". So there i found the right moment to ask her, why she changed her mind.

    She said, that she talked with her friend and concluded that she is not ready. So i ask her, why you believe that? and the reply was...that...I WANT HER FOR HER BODY. i was like...shocked to be honest because...i never did anything to make her believe that and i really DO love her. So i explained her, that i can wait until the end of time for her and she should never say that again.

    So today, we are supposed to meet in a few hours. What should i do? I feel pretty bad that she said that and yes i want love (not sex) but i want her to feel ready as well.

    How can i make her feel ready? god i even prepair a love letter that i will give it to her today...

    Thank you for your time.
     
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  2. abean696

    abean696 Porn Star

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    you can't make feel her ready to have sex with you, when she is ready you will know. If your not just trying to get into her panties then you will take things slow and not bring up sex, let her bring it up. Until then you'll just have to go home and stroke it out after you see her and get all worked up lol.
     
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  3. skill90

    skill90 Newcumer

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    You miss the point, she was ready and i said no. Now she is not ready because i want her body? i don't get it. I want to take our relationship to the next step so we can both feel comfortable with eachother. Sure i can wait but the point is that she was ready for it but then talked with her friend and her friend changed her mind. So i feel like someone is between us now and i want to fix that. Because of that third person she does not trust me now and i don't like that.

    I talked to her and she said she trust me, but she does not want to have sex now? then how she trusts me? A relationship requires trust, if trust does not exists then how can our relationship exist in the first place?

    Does anyone see my point?

    Thank you for reading.
     
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