anyone else in my boat?

 

I don't have a boat.

 

So I guess your in my boat then noboat

 

Well I’m guessing that’s why we are all here then?

 

As you all know I hate these threads.............you guys need to spank your girls!!

Failing that here is a gambit you can try..........next time you go to bed take a glass of water and two aspirins with you................look your wife in the eye and offer her the two aspirins and hold the glass of water!!

When she looks at you and says..............but I do not have a headache!...............well I assume you can take it from there!!

Good luck guys!!

Thinskin

 

I feel your pain mate,i was in a loveless,sexless and boring relationship for 12 years,i guess we stayed together so long as we had kids and everything just worked,bills were paid,food on the table,kids were clothed etc,i guess we fell into that trap alot of couples do,although we did love eachother it wasn't how it should have been if that makes sense ??
I wasn't in love with her as a partner should have been.....anyway long story short,we both ended up splitting up and were both good friends,we probably get on better now than we ever did,the kids are happy and i see them when i want,she cooks me tea after work and we spend time as a family too.
My regret is that i feel as though ive wasted alot of years in my life,so i guess thats why im here cuz i have alot of making up to do lol.
(Good luck mate)

 

Why does anyone continue living in a loveless, sexless marriage?

 

I think Passionman1980 gave his reasons above. I assume that I could cohabitate with a lot of different people. But if none of them are enjoying sex with me, I need to go elsewhere.

To me, accepting a sexless life when that is NOT what you want is letting someone else decide your sex life for you. Easy for me to say because I've never been there. Came close, though. I'll repeat this story once more: Wife backed off on wanting sex with me, not ever asking, only consenting. There were other problems but sex is important and I didn't want to find myself 6 years later with an unsatisfactory sex life in what had become an unsatisfactory marriage. Said to her "Why would I want to have sex with someone who does not want to have sex with me? If you want to have sex with me, let me know. I'll not ask again." Without saying so it was obvious that I was going to have a sex life and she could decide if she wanted to be part of it or not.

That, plus an agreeable marriage counselor, was needed. That was with kids, years (years!) ago. Glad it worked. Not having a sexually active marriage was not an option.

 

Staying is cheaper than giving the boat away. I burned up mine

 

Hello

 

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If you have a boat, go fishing.

What's the deal? If a sexless marriage is a problem, either fix the problem, or get out.

Nobody likes to wash dishes, but somehow, the dishes always get washed. If you can't manage to make fucking you just a little less unpleasant than washing dishes, you're really doing something wrong.

 

I know what you mean

 

Personally i think we just fall into a situation and stop thinking so much about our lives and concentrate on what has to be done,i see it so often,ppl staying together for all the wrong reasons....if i could go back and do it again would i ???? DAMN RIGHT !!!
ill never settle for less than perfect now,or perfect for me rather.... life just sometimes gets in the way of everything and we forget that.

 

If you guys can't get your own wives to fuck you what makes you think your going to be able to score some hot strange?

 

Kids and work get in the way.
Heywood hahaha Heywood ya just blow me hahahha