I am curious. This is something that can go both ways. How do guys feel about sharing. What if you are the one choosing to share and with whom. does that make a difference? Gals, ever thought about using your honey as the party favor for a girls night in? Would your SO, male or female see it as a treat? a test of submissiveness?, a turn on? What if you are sitting around with your friends, and knew you could tell her to just drop to her knees during a game and go down on you no matter who else is there? Would you feel proud of her? Possessive? Like it is making your rep? Would you want to tell her to go over and take care of your friends after? Would their jaws drop? Would they leave? Would they wank? Ignore it? Ask for a turn? Gals, would you ever want to be stakes in a game of poker? What about a birthday present? (have done that one, it was fun) What about being blindfolded and not knowing who it is? Could you ever look any of your SO's best buds in the face again? Would it add a wiggle to your walk or make you stare at the floor a lot in company? Would you feel cheap? Valuable? Owned? Given that your SO makes sure that everyone is clean would it give you license to be a wild child or would it be pushing boundaries on embarassment. Would you like to be ravaged (_in a fun way) as a party favor? What are your thoughts and fantasies on this? Is it a measure of how much you trust your SO?

 

Personally it makes me feel very valued and appreciated. I have been shared a few times, and loved it every time. I never once walked away feeling ashamed of what had happened, but I have a few very firm rules about the way I'm treated by anyone at all. If I feel disrespected, all play stops until we sort it out. I love how free it makes me feel. Pleasure, of (almost) any kind, shouldn't be shameful.
Now c'mon guys post what you think! I wanna know those answers too!

 

Personally I have not had experience in either scenario, but would like to share with the right group of friends. As for being the party favor myself, I never gave it much thought, but I suppose it would make me feel appreciated.

 

My wife and I did a foursome with another couple in a hot tub not to long ago. She loves to give head and we have chatted about her blowing other guys and having a cock fuck her while she does it. It was VERY hot to watch her give the other guy a blow job in front of me and she told me later that night that he slid his cock in her pussy under the water. That really turned me on and I think our sex lives have been turned up a notch since. And we already had a really good sex life. Now I want to have a guy over and watch her suck and fuck him till he cums in her...either her pussy or mouth while I fuck her.

 

i love sharing my hottie!! she loves it too... she loves cock n cum... turns us both on ..., so why not??

 

I would love to share my wife. We talk about it and I even tell her as I fuck her how it would be so hot to watch another cock work her pussy good and hard. She is so conservative I am not sure how to take it to the next level!

 

Misty

What about you Misty. You like the idea of being the stakes in a poker game. Everyone present desperate to win the prize?

 

I shared my wife for many years. She always picked her partner, unless I asked her to specifically do someone for me. We had lots of fun. She is no longer with us, and I miss her.

 

It might be fun, especially if I am blindfolded and have no idea who I will be going to.

 

I've never had the chance to share and my GF really isn't confident enough to do it. I do have a 3 sum fantasy but i think you would have to have a very strong relationship to do it. I would worry that jealousy issues would creep into the relationship after doing group sex. I also don't think I'd like to share my GF, I'd prefer to have sex with a group of people who I wasn't in a relationship with......remains a huge fantasy tho!!

 

We did a threesome with our male friend for month's. I loved it. I felt loved by. Both men.

 

I want to be shared, but with a girl. Or share a girl. But I get more of her. I'm not really bi, I just want to use her to get us off.

 

Shared

Sounds delicious......

 

Im in those shoes here too, with my wife

 

With the right people, anything is possible.

 

In my younger years I could not share my lover, Maybe I might not have been secure about my body and performance. As I aged I became more openminded about it. Sex is a great and fun thing to share and as long as my partner is happy,comes home to me, and loves the heck out me and I her, its no big deal!!! I sure missed out on some fun and great sex so I'm willing to play catch up often! Blue Skies and great sex to all

 

I have been shared with both menand women and loved it. There have to be boundries, but if you are careful and get to know abd like the people involved what can go wrong.....unless one of you is the jealous type, then DON't do it. In my marriage my hubby said treat my wife right, and they did. Being shared with women was very different, but very nice as well. I shared my husband with some of my frieds too, and I know he wasn't bothered, I could almost hear him thinking, yay bonus sex for me lol.

 

I shared my wife several times but we used alot of communication, so it didn't harm our relationship. You have to be confident both parties are up for it. I wouldn't share my wife with just anyone either, they had to make the grade.

 

My gf and I have shared a girl. We had wanted a 3some with another female and decided to hire a escort while on a long weekend in Europe. We loved it and will certainly be doing it again.