Ok so my girlfriend is a virgin, and we tried to have sex last night, but I barely got the tip of my dick in before she started crying... I fingered here for like 45 minutes before we tried, but she had to stop because it hurt her too much, and now she's scared to try again... what do I do?

 

Dude, she wasn't ready. She may have said she wanted to have sex but she probably was too scared and didn't let herself go. need to get her to relax. tell her to try again in a couple of days.do alot more foreplay such as eating her out. Do it for a while to the point she no shit begs you to go in her. then she will open up. until then, she is too scared.

 

Use a smaller penis extension.

Or anal?

 

Hmm. Ok so make sure she's relaxed, and I dunno, she was freakin begging the shit out of me like hardcore. Should she use a dildo on herself on her own time to kind of "train" it?

 

Skeeter, I have no idea of what the lead up to this was, but if she WAS 'begging for it', she still was not ready.

If you didn't do it, you need to engage in a LOT of foreplay(fingering, licking) and make sure she is really, really wet. Some girls do not naturally lube as much as others, so even with a lot of foreplay you may have to use a lube.

Some pussys are also MUCH tighter than others, so go slow. There is no such thing as a pussy that will not accomodate you, no matter how big your cock is, but you have to take it easy at first---especially her first time. It IS goig to hurt her some, but the gentiler you are at first, the better it will be.

Good luck!!!

 

high fife!

 

rofl is it a problem you have alot then?

 

I hope she's not like 12 years old!!!!

 

Lol no, she's 19. And she seemed really wet... Idk, she's just scared it will hurt too much.

 

tell her you in and after that go

 

It will only hurt for a few seconds if you do it right.

 

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My guess is that she isn't too tight, she's too scared.

Take your time. Relieve the pressure; let her know it's not a big deal to take it slow.

 

Put your penis in a pencil sharpener to narrow it down for the poor girl.

 

HAH!

 

Lmao!:mrgreen:
I wonder if that sign was `altered'? Hmmm.

 

Instead of spending your time fingering her pussy, I'd suggest you instead participate in some non-contact mutual masturbation (self masturbation but in each others presence). Be in close proximity to her, maybe even try masturbating while embracing each other to whatever extent you can. If she agrees, try and take notice of what she does to get off... how she touches herself, the speed, and intensity of her movements etc and how they change as she approaches orgasm...

Then take over a little, and try and use what you observed her doing, to give her the same pleasure yourself. Make her really want it... the more into it she is, the more beneficial it will be for the both of you.

And...

It doesn't sound like you're too positive on that, lol. There's no reason why you can't use lube.

 

sure you didnt aim up the wrong hole ?

 

It only hurts the first time you penetrate, after that, it won't hurt again until she gets pregnant and gives birth.