My gf is studying abroad this semester in Australia. I am about to send her a package of somethings she left behind and I was wondering if I should include a vibrator. I am not sure how she will react though. She is sorta innocent (i was her first kiss 2.5 years ago, both still virgins) and sometimes can be prude but then sometimes her sexuality can surprise me (more so when she is drunk).

We had decided that while she was gone for the semester we would be on a break to hopefully help our relationship grow, by seeing what else is out there since we are each others first bf and gf. Before she left I suggested getting her a vibrator and her response was i dont know how I am going to pack it without my parents seeing and if I will have room. This is true because her parents are strict indian parents and dont want her dating, and she had very little room to pack 5 months of stuff, which is why one of the things im sending is a picture of us. But at the same time I am not sure if that was also a way of her telling me she didnt want one.

I am really not sure how she will react if I send it.

 

You should send her a few big, horny, dirty convicts who just got out of long prison sentences for rape. She'd have more fun with them.

 

What if her parents found out, would that be uncomfortable for her?

If you think that will stop her from having sex with some tall dark stranger who sweeps her off her feet, think again. I know it can be difficult but it's either meant to be or not.

 

By all means, send her the vibe, but make sure it is bigger than the Aussie guys she's currently fucking, or she'll never use it and you'll have wasted that postage.

 

I'd send her condoms if she were my g/f. Don't want her to get any diseases abroad.

 

Sending her a vibrator is a slap in the face! You know she has dicovered sex and can't go without! If you have the trust that she wants to take a break and hopes the relationship grows, then the dildo becomes a point of anger for her.

If I were her, I'd be wondering if you were prepared to wait for her to return. If she has sex while she is away let us hope she is honest enough to tell you, and vice versa.

If she tells you she needs a dildo because she is feeling too horny, then is the time to send it - by air mail!

 

Thank you for all your responses! Its not that I am worried that she will have sex with someone else, because we are both still virgins (we tried to before she left but there were complications and then we ran out of time) and she is one of those ppl who it needs to be with someone special..hence why I was her first kiss her freshman year of college....but i guess im kinda hoping it deters her from hooking up with other ppl while she is there...she has only hooked up with one other person before when we were on a break and she said she didnt like it and wouldnt want to hook up with someone unless she was in a relationship...but studying abroad in Australia can always cause someone to change their mind about that....or should i just hope for the best? to be fair while she is gone i do not plan on hooking up with anyone else...although if something happens something happens but i find it difficult to even flirt with other girls if she is on my mind

 

***by hooking up i mean doing other stuff other than sex....i guess its kinda nice to know that I have a girl where i am the only guy that has touched her

 

ok, instead of being a complete jack ass like all the other people and telling you that she is just fucking other guys i will give you some advice. My gf and i are in 2 separate cities doing are respective professional schools. I wanted her to think about me so I bought her a dildo about the size of my cock and mailed it too her. She thought it was so hot!

 

I like the reason behind your question, but I have one of my own - have you spoken or written to her, asked her if she would like a keepsake of you and that you would like to send her something that you hope will remind her of your desire for her.

A dildo, sent in that way, is almost like a rose - and you know it will last longer. The idea of the dildo being about the size and shape of your cock sounds hot!

 

Can you send a vibrator to my girlfriend for me too?

Just kidding.

As to your girlfriend, talk to her....

 

Would you like her to send you a Fleshlight ?

If you would, send her a dildo.

 

Sounds like this guy's motive for sending the vibrator is based on emotional control and abuse. He wants to send a toy to substitute for himself so his girl won't hook up with other dudes, as she has every right to do.

 

Yes,it might keep her happy and waiting for you.

 

go for it and also send some rechargeable batteries

 

Get one of those mould your cock dildo's so it looks like yours and she'll always knows and remember it too. However, that only works if she's actually seen your cock!