Well me and the wife have finally set out to bring another man into our sex life. A larger man, of course. We have been talking to one of the wife's former co-workers that recently confessed to her that he had a thing for her. He is a younger black guy with a nice 10" cock.
We have been sending pics back and forth and explained to him what we were and weren't looking to bring into our sex life. He was very understanding of our wants and said he was on board 100%. We we're all set for this past Friday to do the deed. The wife was going to pick him up after dropping the kids off at school and take him back to the house and get started. Sending me texts, pics and small clips. Inwas going to go home and join them on my lunch break. Friday comes and goes. He stood us up. That sucks. On with the search.

 

That sucks, dude.

 

Try a swinging site. There are still time wasters. Some people get off on the exchange of messages alone, with no intention of ever meeting anyone, which is not fine unless they tell you so. Some people will lose their nerve and if they don't tell you, report them. Members have feedback from their meets. Obviously everyone has to start somewhere and you'll need to find someone to take a chance on you but that's not difficult for a couple.

 

That sucks that the guy didn't show up. I hope you and your wife find a better candidate to join you.

 

Damn. Id show up.

 

man that sucks!! i would love to try that one time. i bet ur wife was pissed lol

 

Damn I hate even people go all ghost on you! It’s just rude. As someone said previously, I’d show up!

 

That’s extremely typical. Lots of people chicken out at the last minute.

 

A few years ago I arranged for another woman to join us to celebrate my then-boyfriend's birthday. Took ages to find someone we both wanted to fuck who wanted to fuck us, then a few weeks before we were due to meet my boyfriend and I broke up.
You'd imagine that on a sex hook up site finding a man to join two eager and willing women would be really easy, but most guys we approached thought we were winding them up. Eventually we found someone, a real life friend of the other woman, but it shocked me that it was so difficult.

Online as in real life there are a lot of time wasters.

 

Maybe he showed up and the wife liked it so much she decided to keep it a secret.

 

Thanks for all the kind words. Yeah he did end up texting the wife and owning up to chickening out. He said he would like another opportunity. We'll see. Not holding my breath.

 

I know I question a lot of things out here but that's nothing new to anyone. The only thing that's new is me saying that I know! I'm sorry but It's hard for me to believe that your wife got in contact with a former colleague, the big word here is former. Getting in contact with someone she doesn't work with anymore, that's a red flag popping up for me. He recently confessed to your wife that he had a thing for her? He's gotta be out of his mind telling her that when her husband's willing to share her. And you'd be out of your mind sharing your wife with a guy who recently told her he had a thing for her! Don't you know once you go black you never go back? I'm out of my fuckin mind wasting my time with this shit, but I do think it's fun. I'm not even going into him having her number to text her saying he chickened out. Why didn't you call and ask him where the fuck he was instead of just waiting around? WTF