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  1. not-i

    not-i Porn Surfer

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    i had an interesting chat with some guys at work and one of them said he had heard there was etiqutte to swinging. is this true? where would i find swinging etiquitte? like who enters who 1st? stuff like that
     
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  2. Emily23XXX

    Emily23XXX Studette

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    Rules are unique to each location!!
    The only one universal is that the men must compare hard penis and the largest penis fucks all the smaller penis men in that ass (a form of hazing)!!! Once you complete that just follow the posted rules!! :excited:
     
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  3. not-i

    not-i Porn Surfer

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    not very believable but at least it sounds fun
     
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  4. Gordon2

    Gordon2 Porn Surfer

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    Just Google "swinging etiquette" and you'll find dozens of links on the subject. Read, think, discuss with your partner, and enjoy yourself.
     
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  5. sunkissedlips

    sunkissedlips Porn Surfer

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    hmmm that DOES sound like fun :)
     
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  6. not-i

    not-i Porn Surfer

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    i have done this and just aint learning anything. and it is turning into a obssesive need for info.
     
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  7. cdatj2

    cdatj2 Sex Machine

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    some things to think about are that all must have some attraction, and if you or your wife are not comfortable with the others then dont go there, you cant move any faster than the the one that is taking there time to get warmed up and mostly just be considerate and treat all like you want to be treated, and remember no means no all around. we have been swinging for a few years and every situation is different but commonsense is your best friend, and being sure this is what you want to do
     
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  8. Gordon2

    Gordon2 Porn Surfer

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    Having hosted dozens of parties, here are a couple of important points:

    Be patient, friendly, and don't be pushy at all. It's fine to say to someone, "hey, we're interested." That's all you need to say. Talk about other things as the conversation flows. The other couple/person may want to think about it, may need to talk to their partner, or might even be a newbie feeling their way along. Give them time--it might be the next party when they say yes.

    If they say no, smile and be gracious. Their answer might have been yes, except for some special circumstance. Be gracious, and next time they might ask you. Be rude, and you'll never get another chance. What's more, all of their friends will soon know you're a rude shit. Rude shits don't get future party invitations.

    Leave your drama at home. If one of you is more reluctant than the other, have a plan beforehand. "We'll just talk to folks and dance a little," or some such. Don't embarrass your partner. Don't drink too much and act like a bitch or an ass.
     
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