my g/f and i want to try anal for the first time on thursday. any tips? i know, lots of lube, and go slow....

anything to add to make it less painful/more pleasant?



i really never thought i would be trying this...

 

try having her get her but hole loose before you plop your dick in, maybe finger her ass hole with 1-2 fingers before giving it a shot.

magik_man

 

ok, thanks, i will see if she is down with that. :mrgreen:

 

Who wants anal more? You or your G/f? First timer can be a rather painful experience.

 

not if you use an anal desensitizing cream and/or lots of lube.

 

sounds like fun, let us know how it goes!!!

 

um....she does, believe it or not. i'm kinda worried about the whole thing....but wth....if she offers, i ain't gonna say no.

any other tips?

 

Oh, the last thing I'd want is to desensitize the area!! But that's just me.

Your GF will want to make sure she's "empty" (sorry, don't know what else to say) first so there's no embarassing accident.

She needs to be very relaxed. Give her a massage or something first, cuz you don't want her tensing up. If you are game, lick her ass first ... it really gets the juices flowing and you won't need so much lube. GO SLOW. A little at a time. Give her time to get used to the size. I find that laying on my back, with my lover standing by the bed is a very good position ... it allows you to play with her clit while you're inside her, or for her to use a toy or her own fingers. And since I don't know if you're using a condom, please don't cum inside her the first time. It's like getting an enema and it might put her off doing it again very soon.

That's about all I can think of right now. Have fun!!!

 

Lucky guy. My g/f likes to have anal sex, so here are some tips.

1. GO SLOW! If you just ram it in it going to hurt her like a MFer, and she's going to clamp down.
2. Use lots of lube the first time.
3. Its best to use a condom.
4. To quote piggit, "have her empty herself."
5. Have fun.
Tell us how it goes.

 

An enema beforehand is a good idea too, but that can get complicated if she's never done one before. She will probably get a sharp "pang" when you first get in there, so hold still and don't make it worse. She might also tense up at that point, so taking a break might be a good idea. Once you're in and going at it, don't pump too hard. Think of it more as sliding than pumping and try to get the pleasure on the out-stroke. Besides that, get your cues from her and be responsive.

Ditto on the tell us how it goes

Sam

 

Funny, everyone says go slow, my partner really likes it hard in the arse, !!

good luck though mate, its quite erotic I feel

 

Sure, once they're into it! I highly doubt pounding away the first time out is a good idea.

 

The first time take it slow - the first time I didn't let my husband finish in fact, although we tried again and have been doing it since. Alot of times now he starts in my pussy gets it lubed up from there and then slides over to penetrate my ass.

Typically he starts off a bit slower going in just a bit at a time until he can't control himself anymore then buries himself in me. It helps when he grabs and spreads my ass cheeks.

:shock:

 

tomorrow night is Dday, so to speak, i will post results.

thanks for the advice...i will def. go slow...

 

with less than 24 hours till game time, i will ask if one position is better than another? i assume doggy style will be the easiest, right?

 

The "If your game, lick her ass first" made me laugh my ass off

 

Doggy is definately a fav for my gf and i. It makes things easier in a few ways, such as the aforementioned "holding the cheeks apart."
Good luck!

 

Gods speed. And Gods penis in this case...

 

Pookey, I hope this doesn't mean you aren't game!!

 

my girl was always against anal, but the other night in a crazy sex session she bent over and allowed me to try, we used lotsa lube and condom but i got quite a big package and although i had fingered her ass first there was no way it would work:
*1* despite her havin a big juicy sexy ass, her hole is tiny x
*2* just the tip of my head entered and it hurt her x
*3* i weren't complaining just pulled the condom off and fucked her crazy for another hour or so x x x x x x x