My girlfriend and i have tried having sex multiple times and we can't because she says it hurts too much. I know its not because her cherry is intact because we have had sex before after a long period of gently easing it in and some alcohol consumption. Does anyone have any ideas on whats wrong or what to do?

 

Use your finger, and see if she's swollen or puffy inside, or any type or rash or redness.


If there are no obvious signs, or even if their are, get her to see her doctor.

 

ive tried using a finger but sometimes i cant even get that in.
and shes very stubborn about seing a doctor but ive already told her she should

 

some extra attention to her during foreplay might help
try carasing her hips kissing her lower back gently tugging on her nipples
kissing the back of her knees slowly carasing her pussy

make it about her

 

its not that shes not wet enough
shes physically incapable of allowing me in.
it seems as though anycontact with the inner walls causes her pain to the point of tears

 

Honey it sounds like the only thing to do is take her to a doctor, she needs to see one. Tell her how concerned you are about her health.

 

take her to the doctor.

 

Time for a doc visit.

 

ok thanks a lot
i'll definently talk to her about it today

 

If it has been a year or more since she had sex and doesn't use a dildo, sometimes the sides grow threads between them, I know of two such cases. The gynocologist can easily open it up without pain.

 

Wait for her to reach legal age. It should go easy when she does.
Just kidding. Ever heard of Vaginismus?

Take her to a doctor.

 

Plenty of lube and time and a small dildo should sort this problem.
You can get into a vicious circle with this problem, the more you try it and it hurts the more tense she'll feel and the tighter the hole will get and so the circle begins.
Otherwise try her arse, you may have more luck, then you've hit the jackpot. sweeeet

 

When something hurts, go and see a doctor.

 

"Hey doctor, it hurts when I do this."

 

Wait for her to reach legal age. It should go easy when she does.
Just kidding. Ever heard of Vaginismus?

Take her to a doctor.

Yea I looked up some stuff and that seems like the closest thing.
Sadly dildos and butt fucks are out of the question haha
and i'm having trouble getting her to go see a doctor because of family issues.
but im trying

 

Try making her read about it for herself. That should convince her to see a doctor. Her family doesn't need to know. Doctors are sworn to keep secrecy.

 

try her ass instead

 

there you go, that works

 

take it

hold her down and take that shit as long as she is willing its not rape lol