hiya every one im a nearly 21 yr old female and my partner is 25 ive been with him for 2 years and i am very happy wit our sex life well extremely happy now ive found sex toys (last 6 months)...me and him want to have a 3 sum FMF and im really excited about the thought of it happening but ive been concentrating on what i would do to her when we got down to it and thinking of it is really turning me on but heres the thing im worried that i might be bi because i really do want to have sex with another female and its llike i think about doing things to them every second of the day what does this mean i know im not lesbian because i find men very attractive but why do i have theses erges towards women ? can anyone help and advice or any other woman have theses feelings ?

P.s Sorry about my spelling i know its shocking x

 

First off I'd like to say stop worrying about being bi or not, You are attracted to who, and what you are attracted to. So, there is no need to put a lable to it. You enjoy sex with your S/O and you feel you will enjoy it with a woman as well. I say as along as no one is hurt, and everyone understand where they stand in the situation then go for it and just enjoy the exploration of your sexual tastes.

Hope this helps

 

Why worry about it? Do what feels good to you, and you can figure out how to label it later.

 

thanks guys im just going to concentrate on having sex with my partner and with who ever else gets involved just let it be fun
one more thing should i say somethng to him about me having these thoughts or are they nothing to worry about x:wall:

 

Maybe the first time you need to go out and get an escort that's into FMF 3 somes and she can teach you how and what to do and you will have a magnificent orgasm with her and your BF!! Check out "Backpage" for your area for a lady who does 3 somes and then if your curious of how they did with their clients, go to "The Other Board" to see their reviews.

 

what do you mean backpage ?

 

SHARER

So, from another point of view, you are willing to share your man with another woman!

Interesting!
Here, usually, if a woman has a "thing" with a man, she will just act "wild" if another woman would try to "approach" her partner...

I cannot label you as being a lesbian, since, as I understand, you are living with a man, not a woman...

Maybe you are just a sharer - a label that deffinitely has not been mentioned on this forum!

NOTE: I don't forget about swinging, but that means, as I see it, that you should also get another man's dick into your orifices...

 

I think it's totally cool what you like, it should be. If you are okay with your man being with another woman for a night then you are an amazing couple and an even more amazing woman.
Here's my thought on couples looking for threesomes:
If they want another male, the guy should be the one bringing it up.
If they want another female, the female should be the one bringing it up.

 

Good point!

I have had met several women that were friends of my wife.

I would have enjoyed having them in bed with us (especially if I would have been drunk! ), but the attitude of my wife has prevented such a thing to happen...

 

Yeah dont worry about being bi, if anything you and him can have more fun because of it. You just have to go with the flow with your sexuality, not enough people do that in the world.

Find the right girl though, dont let a bad experience ruin it. A 3 some is the best way to coast into it.

 

one line...if it feels good do it ...........

 

Most men would love to be in a FMF threesome.