I'd like to know how, where, at what age and with whom everyone lost their virginity?
For me it was all very trashy, I was 16, drunk at a party, with a 19 year old guy I'd only just met and I found out after had a girlfriend, poor girl. Lets just say it wasn't the best sex I've had. I do sort of regret it but I don't think I'd change how I lost my virginity.
Anyway, what about you lot?
Do you regret how it happened? Would you go back and change the circumstances if you could?
Or if you are a virgin, how would you, in an ideal world, like to lose it?

 

Congratulations, your very first thread!

An interesting topic. I'll reply in detail after a break.

 

17, nearly 18 (kind of an ugly duckling thing). In the backseat of a 76 firebird (really small back seat) with long time boyfriend, whom I dumped 2 weeks later. No regrets, except for a wish that the back seat had been bigger.

 

C's such a nice guy. He's like the greeter at Wal-Mart!

I lost my scarlet V when I was 15 on New Years Eve. She was my first girlfriend, we'd fool around but she didn't want to go all the way. We worked in a movie theater together. We attend our work's NYE party, got drunk, snuck off to an empty theater to fool around, and I tripped, fell, and it slipped in. It was awesome!

Years later, the theater closed (as they all seem to be doing) and it became a Bed, Bath, and Beyond. I worked there for 4 years - quite often in the dark - so I closed my eyes and walked to where I knew "the spot" in House #4 was. I then spent the next several minutes informing every old lady that walked past that I had lost my virginity at precisely that spot until the police escorted me off the premises.

 

Mmm mine was at 17. Located at what we thought was a secret spot beneath a weeping willow. Little did me and the guy know, a movie cliche moment was appearing through the forest. Besides that surprise, I don't regret it, but I do regret that I picked the wrong guy

 

I was 15, he was a college student, and we were in his dorm room after a party. An open-and-shut case of statutory rape. In retrospect, it wasn't all that great, but at the time, it was good enough that I was VERY eager to do it again. As for my virginity, I was happy to be rid of it.

 

I was 13, almost 14 and we did it in the back seat of a fourdoor pickup parked in front of her house. I was drunk as shit but it was pretty good. We had an open off and on relationship until we graduated highschool. Poor girl never slept with anyone but me until she was 20.

 

LOL! I take this as a comliment, thank you! But unfortunately nobody ever tips me - except for nice messages every now and then. Which is not so bad...

Okay, it's time to switch on my personal history channel. We were both around 15, both virgins - thank God. Because this way none of us expected any wonders from the other. We took our time, lots of petting etc. I think that was the key to success for both of us.

Almost forgot to mention who she was. We went to the same school, same age group but different classes. What we had in common was that we both weren't so popular by that time, that kind of forged our alliance which eventually led to sex. About a year later her father got a new job far away, so she had to move - too bad... I lost contact with her, wonder where she is and how she is doing. Memories...

 

I'm 20 and still a virgin. I have a bf who I have been dating for 2 years now. He was and is my very first bf ever.

I want to have sex with him but with college in 2 different states it hard to find time together. plus i have been having trouble getting birth control for the past year to ad to it.

I have an appointment to get it this week so hopefully This weekend I will give my virginity to the man I love and he give me his this weekend in a hotel( no fancy hotel but clean at the least)

NOTE: i had to sexual urges until age 15-16 ish. I masturbated since age 12 but not because of sexual urges but because it feel good ( kinda like a toddler)

NOT to be mean but Why do I feel like the smartest when it comes to sex and my virginity compared to those above me. that and i fee like a late bloomer.

 

The first time I actually had sex I was 15 she was 16. I was sleeping over at her place. We were hanging out, drinking, and just being stupid teens. She wanted to and I didn't give a fuck so I gave her a fuck. It was sex. It felt good but wasn't as awesome as I thought sex would be. She just laid there... :Zz

The first first time didn't really count cuz it barely went in. I was 14 or just barely 15 and it was with the same girl as above. We were at a party and everyone had left the room for a short while. We thought it would be fun to have them come back and catch us "with our pants down." We were dry humping under the blanket and it kinda slept in. Strangely enough, that more fun than the next time when I actually got sum.

 

My first time I was 14 years old and he was 15. He was my first "love" and a very shy boy so anything that we did I had to initiate. I finally got sick of waiting and after 6 months together I drug him upstairs , stripped him down, and lost my virginity. It was ok, but not what I had expected. It was a bit longer before my first orgasm, then I realized what all of the hub-bub was about.

 

Honestly i will be honest and with pride that i lost my virginity at 18. Yes rather old, i don't see nothing wrong with it. I feel it was both awesome and awful. Long story short, my now ex felt sorry for me becouse my mom died and we got togather and had tons of sex for a year. Before i turned 18 i did really really odd fun stuff. Didn't lose my virginity before 18 but i was still a nasty fuck.

Any ways after awhile i got bored with my girlfriend and wated to do more sexy things but all she wanted was casual intercourse and maybe suck me ok. Hmm it was a ok feeling to lose my virginty. I kinda wish i had lost it sooner but oh well. Living in the now.

 

I like your attitude, and I keep my fingers crossed for you. Would be wonderful if you keep us all informed.

BTW, why is it difficult for you to get yourself birth control?

 

I don't have a problem with your choosing to remain a virgin, but let's be clear about it, you're CHOOSING that. The reasons you give for NOT having sex (different colleges, difficulty obtaining birth control) are pretty lame, if you ask me. Why not just say you didn't feel you were ready?

But now that it appears that you've made the decision to lose your virginity, I have to ask: Do you feel any less smart?

 

I'm 21, with a birthday in the near future, and still a virgin. Was very self-conscious and lacked confidence in high school. As an adult, I'm just kind of socially awkward and know too few people who share my interests, so it hasn't happened yet.

 

Stay tuned...things will get better.

 

I totally respect the people who waited/are waiting. I used to think "if only I'd waited a couple more months until I met my boyf" but now I know I would have made it into a big thing, hoping it would be romantic and amazing, getting nervous and self conscious, only to be let down by the reality (he was a rather selfish lover). Where as, I'm not shy about it anymore and know what I want and like.

 

I actually haven't been waiting for the right person, it's just that - as my name implies - I'm still a very shy person, so it's pretty hard for me to open up to people. It's not that I'm waiting for someone "perfect," just that I'm struggling with making any kind of connection with someone.

So maybe confidence is still an issue with me? I don't know, I don't feel like I lack confidence, but who knows?

 

I do sort of regret the way I lost my virginity. I was 14 and trying to help my friend get over being dumped by his boyfriend, I tsill don't really know how it all turned around but he fucked me over and over, I enjoyed it all, just not the way I thought it would happen really

 

Are you looking for someone? Because in my experience when you're looking it doesn't happen, it's not until you relax and just go out and enjoy yourself that someone comes along. Does that sound a little cliched?