What is the best way to tell a girlfriend about a fetish? Or what is the best way to find girls who are into it.
For example. I would like to have a girlfriend/ or meet a girl, who is into having sex with black men now and then. Not like a cuckold were I wouldnt be allowed to have her. But one of my fetishes is to have a girl who has sex with black men.... And either lets me watch or tells me about it.
What is the best way to bring this up to a girl?

and would any ladies here be into that? what would you tell a guy if he told you that?

 

or big cocked men...not just black

 

Just get a slut for a gf that should work.

 

Why not just ask or talk to her about it? If that is your biggest fetish seems to me an easy do as long as your GF is not prejudice. You may be suprised how many girls are into the interracial relationships.

Good luck on your ventures ...

 

thanks rose. So is it a fantasy of a lot of white women to be with black you think?

 

Well, I certainly wouldn't want to speak for all white women. It is still a bit taboo in the bigger scheme of things. However, I can speak from my own experience ... it is not a fantasy of mine, use to be but not any more . There are small differences but all the equipment works the same. :rose:

 

Sounds good to me! I'm a big believer in straight up honesty in these situations. It isn't something you have to mention on a first date, but early and full disclosure is always good. Perhaps ease into the conversation when you are an interracial couple?

Good luck dude.

 

what changed your mind?
thanks...

is it something that I should bring up at first? or wait on....

I wonder where I could find a girl who is looking for a guy into it like me

 

"It isn't something you have to mention on a first date, but early and full disclosure is always good. Perhaps ease into the conversation when you are an interracial couple?"

thanks. my best idea was to watch interracial porn and see how she respondes

 

It was a fantasy fulfilled when I was in HS many years ago. Besides my prefernce is darker skinned playmates.

NO, not first date material unless maybe you already have some sort of relationship. But it is something you want to be up front with same as you would with other hangups such as 'Im bi' or 'Im into 3somes' etc. Like I said in my opinion, your fantasy of interracial is more normal than you think. To be perfectly honest I think you would have a more difficult time with the 3some conversation than you would the interracial.

Feel the waters, you'll know when the time is right. :wink:

 

Thats a good starting point if she likes porn. :wink:

 

thanks rose.. your awesome.

 

I found most like to watch it

any other advice from people?

is this an adnormal thing to fantasize about?

 

my girlfriend and i have no hesitation when it comes to sex, but i've also been thinking about how to see if she would be into any particular fetish. is there anyway to see if she likes porn, to start with, without possibly offending her?

 

what do you mean. just turn it on, see what she says

 

my GF never liked porn when she was with me. I bought shit that I didn't care for so that she would watch it. She didn't like it. But now that she has a newbie ... she is liking porn. Albeit not porn as in what we would like she likes the stuff that has a story line. Try something romantic and meaningful with a plot for starters. Personally I like the get down to business fuck that kittie hard and blow a good wad.

Zags you know your girl better than us ... go with something that fits her personality. If she doesn't like try something else until you find the right one for her. Good luck on the hunt for 'lady' porn.

 

yea i like honestly it does wonders.

 

Ask her what she's into, like what her fetishes are. Say if she shares them with you, you might be willing to indulge in them (depending on what they are). And then she'll most likely ask yours.

It's not such a weird fetish that i woudln't do it haha she just might feel like she's being disloyal to you.

 

I just listening my gf while she was talking about her friend and his fetishs. Some weeks later while we s tarted to have more physicall contact I told her about I like feets, licking, kissing, touching, smellin etc etc of them. She had to accepted that hehe. But still she dont like it ;P mostly making her laught .

 

get into a convo about sex, talk to her for a while about it, get her to reveal her fetishes to you then tell her.