hey all, have advertised 4 a 3some partner for me & hubby on here b4, we finally had sum luck in our quest, but its getting weird....
Met up with an old friend named Aimee (think christina ricci with slightly bigger tits) and she needed a place to crash so we obliged.... Aimee was the shyest girl you would never meet, scared of her own shadow, big puppy dog eyes, extremely quite........
Well after her staying there about a week we all got on the drink, and i cant remember why but she had the smallest skirt on showing every piece of thigh and everything but her pussy.
having always being open to her that i was bi and being rather tipsy and carefree i mentioned that i could easily fuck that!!! aimee being aimee i expected her to be uncomfortable and shy away but i was shocked when she clearly said "and wat in the fucks stopping you"!!!!
To fill in the blanks we started a very unexpected but very regular and hot 3some..... like every 2 nights, my fuck is aimee a sexaholic!!!!
now the complicated bit is the other morning i walked in on them fuckin each other at 4 in the morning!!! now obviously havin an open marriage i smiled and watched.... a week later and bang, there fucking again, i played it cool again and this time joined let, yet he hardly got his cock out of her the whole time!!!!
now im playin it cool, but truth is worried, having irriational thoughts, even fuckin another guy bhind hubbys back which i mentioned last week. should i be worried?????? thoughts????

 

What did you expect to happen?

 

2 things

First of all I will be the other man behind your hubby's back!!!

secondly, yes you should be worried. I talked an ex into doing a 3 some with me and another guy, she did it once, loved it. Came back a second time and loved it so much, she forgot I was in the room. I havent seen that trifling fucking cunt since then.

 

Here's my advice... I'm married to a bi-woman and we have dated 2 girls over the past 3 years. Both girls were ongoing LTRs. We saw them 1 or 2 times a week for at least 6 months for each.

Maybe you started out being cool with an "open marriage" but now you are not. If you don't want your husband having sex without you there you need to tell him and close your open marriage. Only have sex with each other and other people when you and him are together, in the same room.

This might not be easy if you both wanted an open marriage when you said: "I do". This will be even trickier if you've been sleeping with other men and women and he didn't have an issue with it.
BUT, at the end of the day, if he loves you and you express that you are not comfortable with him having sex with other women while you are not there, he should respect that. Having limits, is always key with 3somes.

 

My current wife and I participate in frequent MFMs. Recently I was across the country on a trip and she spent the night with her lover. I am fine with that, but enjoy much more being there to see it live. The rules were established in advance: she could have him over as much as she wanted.

I do get to play on the side if notice is given in advance. That was not the case at first when my wife came out as having a wild side - it was a permissive and trusting evolution over time.

That said, during my previous marriage (and not since) I have only participated in one FMF and it was tricky. Who received the cum? Our guest, not my wife. Why? Because I can get it from her anytime. Would I replace my wife with her? No. But it turns out my wife was not into it, so that ended that. (But she could fuck whomever she wanted so I found out later)

Besides, I prefer going last (ergo my handle).

Having the ball rolling with a third member of the bedroom, it will be challenging to establish boundaries that will work for the two of you now, especially if you are not comfortable with this person. Good luck.

P.S., I would love to see you naked.

 

Threesome doesn't mean twosome...throw her out unless you want to lose hubby.

 

This one ought to be used as the base reference for every "I'm thinking of doing a 3some" thread that comes along. Even with "rules" established ahead of time - people have no idea what or how they'll respond to something until they experience it. Good Luck.

 

How is he responding to her emotionally and vice versa? (Not during sex)

 

Ditto to this.. An open relationship/marriage does not intail that he can up and fuck people behind your back (This to me IS INN FACT cheating).... yes its in your own house, but I am assuming he or her never said anything to you before it started?? I would definately be worried at this stage because it seems the boudaries of an open marriage are being evaded. You need to sort it out and make sure the boundaries are reninforced before someone gets hurt.... xx

 

Not that I know anything about anything, but here's my opinions anyway.

I think you should tell him how you feel. But be careful not to sound like your accusing him, because then things could go ugly. After you've told him, there are three choices:

1. You break up with him.
2. You let things be as they are, but it doesn't make sense to stay in a relationship where you don't feel okay. Also, it's likely that things will get worse and worse until finally you do break up.
3. But there's a risk that he'll agree just because he doesn't want to lose you, in which case he might cheat on you later on, or you might not feel like you can trust him even if he hasn't actually done anything.

 

I wouldn't have anymore 3 somes in my life ever again...it got to be where bc my ex husband convinced me to try it I did and he ended up screwing the girl he brought into our marriage over and over behind my back and he would throw in my face with the typical

"If you're not OK with it now why weren't you OK with it when we were all together"

ugh! Just be careful....

 

could be just the sex thing, it's something new and fresh, something that can cloy eventually... there may be nothing wavering in him loving you or never wanting to replace you

 

haha!!!!!!!

kicked the bitch slut out, god was she the best girl ive ever slept with but, dammit!!!!!!!!!

told hubby 2 find another place 4 a coupla weeks 2............

god my head is doing me in but, ive fucked around a coupla times these past few days as a result, yeah its been good sex, the thrill of being evil at the time maybe???? but i dunno, afterwards i dont feel like ive achieved revenge, feel more like the slut i neva thought id be..........

 

although........

fuck it i guess..........

if theres a time u can fuck me its now......... if your in nsw australia and want no strings sex... check out my album....... pm me maybe????

i know it sounds wrong........ but im fucked if i can b the nice girl 4 eva........

 

You don't need to offer sex on a forum (and even more so for women) just go to you local bar / club and take your pick(s).