Do you still talk to the person that took your virginity .....

 

Her name was Kim. We didn't see one another or talk for 30 plus years. Connected on Facebook a few yrs ago. We almost cheated on our spouses four yrs ago......I consider her a great friend, who I can confide in.

 

i still a virgin :3

 

We were both virgins. He was my first boyfriend. We stayed together for three years but after we broke up we didn't talk again. I looked him up on Facebook once, he has a wife and kids and is doing well.

 

I don't even remember her name, honestly. It was a one night stand set up by a friend's girlfriend. I drove 2.5 hours for it. She was a pro.

 

Still virgin.

 

Maybe some stranger wife takes my virginity. Atleast thats what i dream of.

 

The girl who took my virginity about 35 years ago has been my wife for almost 30 years. In many ways, she is a stereotypical wife that keeps secrets, and refuses to have sex. Many times I have had her introduce me to people who we have both met before online, and she introduces my as "my husband" rather than including my name. Sometimes I feel like she doesn't even acknowledge I'm there in person. Of course, that's why I visit this site...

 

Her name was Carolyn, and she was the younger sister of our next door neighbor when I was still living with my parents. We were making out when she asked me if I wanted to play a three minute game. Of course I said yes and she led the way upstairs to her bedroom. The game took over six times as long to complete as her suggested playing time. By the way, her brother, sister-in-law and my parents were in another room in the house the entire time. My desire to have sex for the first time, and she being so willing to allow it to occur, far exceeded any concern either of us had over being caught.

 

It was some girl that was just going to blow me but changed her mind. She pulled down her shorts and pushed down on my back, climbed aboard and had her way with me. It's something I'm not really comfortably talking about and never told anyone about it till now. I was violated and it made me feel dirty, cheap and ashamed especially after she called her girlfriends that night and told them how easy I was and that I put out. What topped it off and made it worse was when I called her the next day and asked her she wanted to get laid and she laughed and told me no fucking way, that hurt.

 

I think you dodged a bullet there, bud. But I understand how you felt.

 

Nope don't tlk. But i know he will never forget our fun times together. As i will never forget either. But sometimes people move on and change. But doesn't take our memories away from us. I love to reminise sometimes.

 

Hopefully he is dead and roasting in his own personal hell.

Hush....an alias

 

I don't talk to him now. He was my next door neighbor's cousin. He also went to the same school as I did. It happened in the bathroom at my neighbor's house. My neighbor and his mom had to leave suddenly, so me and the cousin went into the house to change clothes after swimming. He pulled me into the bathroom and locked the door. Got me to suck him and then he quick-fucked me, just a bunch of fast thrusts, it all happened so fast and it was over before I knew it. I was not ready for getting it in the ass and I felt really bad about it afterwards. As some time has passed, I think it was kinda hot. He was just horny and could tell I was into guys and just that he wanted my ass. Never did anything with him again after that.

 

I had a friend who spent ages waiting, preparing, making sure everything was just right before she gave herself to her boyfriend.

I lost mine to a guy who I knew well but wasnt involved with. A quick and fairly unconnected romp on a pile of duvets on a strange bed at a party we went to. I dont think he even knew I was a virgin.

No I dont know where he is or what he is doing, but I hope he is happy. Loosing my virginity felt good but only for fact of being able to tick it off the list.

Shortly after I started dating a really lovely guy and was so pleased not to be a virgin when we had sex for the first time with each other but I lost touch even with him. People move on I guess

 

My H. S. girlfriend, we dated for a little over 2 years and fucked a lot. We are Facebook friends now but only occasionally talk.

 

i paid for an insanely gorgeous blonde escort to take mine at 18. i barebacked and came to her.. she rode me like Rachel Starr very sensually and slowly she held me in her arms and stared deeply into my eyes the entire time. i felt like id just got married.

 

I think it's unhealthy to think of virginity as a thing that can be given, lost, kept, or taken; and especially to wear it or lack of it as a badge of shame or pride. Your first sexual experiences are formative moments, but your condition before and after are merely social constructs. You're still you.

Now that my little rant is over, the first time I had sex was with a high school girlfriend. It was planned, we knew her friend's mom would be away and snuck over and did it in her friend's bed. Neither of us had had sex before, so it was not very good, but it's a fun memory. We were together for over 4 years total but she started cheating on me in college and we broke up. I only communicated with her a handful of times since, and don't care to keep in touch.

Ok, I lied, back to my rant. If I thought of virginity as some magical thing, the fun memory of my first time might have turned into a bad one when we broke up. But I don't regret that the person I have sex with now wasn't the first person I had sex with, nor do I regret that I wasn't my current partner's first.

 

It was a classmate of mine, Martha, who was my first. We hadn't been dating too long. Found out her last boyfriend had been her first. That set things in motion. It happened in the back of a Mustang II in a church parking lot. Doubt I made it 30 seconds. We had a lot of fun exploring.