I don't understand this; a man can fuck anybody as many times as he wants, and he's a stud. A woman fucks many guys and she's a slut. Why is that? Is this term offensive to any of you hot, sex-loving swingin' gals? Do we need to cum up with a better, complimentary name for a hot gal that can get anyone she wants, and DOES?!
My point is, I don't look down on a woman that likes to fuck multiple partners.
Why is she any different than we guys that love sex and some occasional strange?

 

A lot of the women take "slut" as a badge of pride instead of a means of offence.


The double standard dates back to when women were property, not people. It's outdated by a minimum of one century, and it was hypocritical even then...

 

haters hate

Slut is complimentary. It depends how it is used and upon your mindset and attitude.

So if you came up with another term for a promiscuous heterosexual adult-sex sex-loving woman it would be considered offensive by the prudes and frigid cultists (who's cults keep getting busted and their kids taken away). So you would have the same argument allover again. QED.

eg: new word for slut =tuls
'she's a tuls'
'how come guys get called a stud and women get called a tuls?'
'we need a new word for tuls'
'how about 'slut'?'

 

I like being sexual.. I am a slut... I have many friends ... I share my bed with them often.

 

I dated a girl who was a slut back in college. It was awesome. I loved hearing her tell me about all the naughty things she did, and the sex was good and often. I'd actually prefer a girl who is a bit of a slut as long as she doesn't have STDs.

 

There are those of us that have risen from our primordial form into fully functional sexual beings in control and acknowledging of a woman's needs as well. I don't like men or women who are "pigs" about it as in; Any man, Any woman, No protection and Random? I want an experienced woman who's not afraid to explore new horizons because she has!

 

For me mentally?

It seems more invasive for me to accept something into my body, than for you (guys in general) to put something in someone's body.

You can wipe your cock off, that and a shower and you'd be considered clean, yes?

No matter how much I "washed" or "rinsed," I would still feel what had been inside of me. Remnants.

It won't change your cock to fuck a lot of girls, unless you catch something or hurt it.

A girl fucking a lot of guys can get loose.

I DO think less of guys that have fucked a lot of girls. and I AM proud to not be a slut. It is My lifestyle choice for sex to be something intense, to share my soul with someone. I do not have a problem with anyone's habits that do not affect me, harm others, or promote reckless behavior.

 

For me, Thrilling filling. :excited:

 

Nope, A Vagina is a muscle, it doesn't get loose.

However people can get USED to the feeling of being split open often, much like a man can take longer the more often he masturbates.

That misconception bothers me.

I imagine you could stretch it with child birth or sticking size-queen size objects down there all the time though. But taking dick on a normal basis isn't going to harm it..At all.

 

Let me interject that I study exercise physiology and nutrition for personal training and my own needs, you would think that the benefit offered to men and women with such easy exercises as Kegals and sphincter locking would be worth the 15-20 minutes a day?

 

Sluts

It's true what you say. Men are not held to the same standard we are. I think it's probably due to the ancients wanting to be sure who the babies belonged to. I think a more complimentary term might be wolf, short for "women like fucking." Sweetcreekcowgirl.

 

I love your attitude and agree whole heartedly in how women by virtue of their receiving should treat their bodies with the responsibility of being a willing receiver and not a mere dump site. There's almost no bigger turn off (except for fantasy's sake) of a woman talking about how many guys she sucked off or being gang banged freely with no protection, risky behavior is not as sexy as it sounds in real life! Kaiotic Evil I commend your choices of not being just a dump site slut!

 

Solution #1

How's about a Stut and a Slud. Then they both sound as bad as each other.
I'm personally a slut and male. How you value yourselves?!??!!!

 

Great!

Then you're my kind of gal! Thanks for the input!

 

Love it! Thanks,'cowgirl!

 

lock and key

Personally, how many partners aksomeone has had would be irrelevant as I look at sex as pleasure or fun. But when I was younger it was explained to me like this and I remember getting a laugh at the logic used to explain the double standard. If you think of it as a lock and key it makes a lot of sense because if you have a key (penis) that can open a lot of different locks, then it is called a "master key" making it very useful. If you have a lock (vagina) that is easily opened by different keys, then that lock is not very useful and is referred to as a bad thing. Lol


Again that's not my oppinon on the matter, just a little joke I heard. Hope you enjoyed it.

 

The double standard is horrible and whether counseling young adults, teens or even my own children growing up I never emphasized chastity (a moral issue) as much as safety and if we had evolved more as parents? We would have had a "real" sex talk with our kids not just trying to scare them, which as you can see doesn't work!

 

I've done what most would consider tremendously things and in the beginning I struggled with it. Now I'm more comfortable. One thing's for sure, if a guy thinks I'm a slut and therefore a bad person he can use the slut on the end of his wrist and leave me alone. Live free and be careful is my motto.

 

There are ways to counteract it, and there are exceptions I'm sure, it's a high possibility that what I've seen is the sluts that fuck a lot of guys and also use stupidly large toys inside of themselves, but if I can see clearly inside of your body before you've been fucked, I'm calling it loose, even if your name is something like "tightpussy18"

Muscles, can be stretched out, it's even a term. But really as I don't ever intend to be a slut, this doesn't affect me.

Thank you luv :rose:

I'm happy to have a very limited history, but truly, it should be cut in half. I feel guilt over my only past partner, because it was something that should never have come about. Master should have been the first; for even more things than he already is and was.

 

I'll second that notion.

Fantasy is fantasy & that's kinky because it's a play on your own inhibitions.
Reality on the other hand is a different story and besides, given the choice would you rather be given a new Mercedes or a used ford pinto?