I'm sick of straight guys constantly pressuring women into anal sex but they're so skiddish when it comes to letting us play with their asses. Personally it's a huge turn on for me to see a hot masculine guy on all fours or with his legs in the air letting me put my face in his ass, but alas as a heterosexual woman it's hard for me to find guys that are comfortable with that.

 

It's a exhast not a intake! I don't pressure women into anything, if they want anal fine but I'm not going to ask. If the woman I was dating wants sex or something like that she has to initiate it. I won't do anything more than give her a kiss or hug unless she initiates it.

 

If you're not into it you're not into it. I just don't like the double standard for men/women and the idea that anal play for straight men has any bearing on their sexual orientation.

 

I get that. But I don't know.

 

because thats a little on the gay side

 

You just keep up that close minded attitude, while i have WAAAAY better orgasms than you have EVER or WILL EVER HAVE !! period !!


why is playing with you ass gay? you masturbate don't you? that means you're touching a penis..THAT'S GAY !! oh wait..it's YOUR penis, then it's ok. It's YOUR ASS , play with it.

Being attracted to men, having sex with ONLY MEN and having relationships WITH ONLY MEN, that makes you gay.

 

Thank you!!

 

if you let someone stick something in your ass thats gay..if it takes someone to stick something in my ass i don't need a better orgasm

 

I have a willing ass for you. I've never met a woman that showed any interest. If a woman were to try and play with my ass, I'd get the lube and spread my cheeks for her. And, she'd be getting a virgin ass.

 

I'm in the same boat. I've never been with a women that WANTS to play with my ass. Where are they!?

 

i enjoy when my g/f has anal with me. she uses small egg vibrators to dildos, strap-ons and double ended dildos so she can fuck herself while shes fucking me. its hot and very much a turn on. ive had some pretty intense orgasms with her in my ass.

 

The easy answer is the homosexual implications that are an age old hang on from the days of machismo bullshit that is still a set of rules followed by many men! Along with what toys are for boys and which for girls, some men still believe that if a boy plays with a Barbie you might as well buy him a rainbow flag and a pre-subscription to Playguy for his 18th birthday! As an active member of P.F.L.A.G. (Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) these are truly concerns for fathers just as well that some mothers in hindsight believe that letting their daughters play sports led to their lesbian ways? Proving that as a society we've come so far but, still have a long way to go!

 

I don't think it is necessarily a double standard. As another poster has said, if you don't like it then that's all there is to it.

I've had try to play with my bumhole but I'm just too sensitive and ticklish. It's also a mildly unpleasant feeling of vulnerability.
A finger pressed against my ring when I cum is pleasurable. I even do that on myself sometimes but it's not for everybody.

If you think about it, it's not surprising really that men are less inclined, ignoring the gay aspect, women are accustomed to being touched and penetrated within a few millimetres of their starfish but for men there is less familiarity to the sensation.

I think most people would agree that women's arseholes look much neater & cleaner than men's too.

More men would be up for inviting the local cheerleaders round to join their next sex session than women would too but it's not necessarily a double standard.

 

They're hung up on the idea that anything to do with their ass is gay. Personally, I think they're a little bit insecure about their sexuality.

 

so true!

 

If a man is secure enough to allow anal play and to enjoy it he still has to face the music publicly. The trust issue is not only an issue of please don't hurt me in my bum but also an issue of please don't tell and get me gay bashed if you ever get pissed with me. That's part of it for some of us.

 

My wife does it to me all the time. When she is giving me a bj or riding me reverse cowgirl she reaches back there and puts a toy or a finger in there and I cum so hard when she does.

 

This is pretty much what I'd post if you hadn't already said it.

 

I would agree not a...

I would agree not a double standard. Why? Cause not all men are into ass play...it wouldn't satisfy them.(in their minds) doesn't mean that us guys who don't or plan to have ass play are closed minded.*
I'm pretty sure there are gay men who don't do ass play....(just saying) plus people need to respect that their partners may not feel comfortable doing some stuff...when it comes to sex.

Y'all know what is a double standard is when a male or female partner performs oral sex on you but you don't want to return the favor male or female.

 

Hmm....

If you are heterosexual guys not wanting to have ass play why not go for a bi-sexual guy? I'm pretty sure they would be more open-minded to some ass play than a*heterosexual guy. (Don't you think?) I'm pretty sure it's hard to find a*heterosexual guy who is open to ass play just saying.