this isn't about necessarily sex, but more about relationships. i just struggle to know what women want in men anymore because all i can gather is women want a black man with a big cock, and they want it anal, particularly the asian women both young and old.

i imagine deep down women want a man who can do more than give what a woman wants and needs in the bedroom, but thats not what i get round here. it is also the same for a man for man relationship, what do i want in another man? if i were ever to be in a relationship with another man?

whatever the case, i am quite small, reasonably nimble and agile, i have been in the military, i listen to what a woman wants, i will help with housework, to be honest i am rather intelligent, i have had many bad experiences with women, i can be good with children or teenagers, i am more down to earth with women than i and women who know me realise.

i mean, what the hell everyone? are women just that shallow now in 2013? its like, i just want a black man with a large penis and to hell with all the other men? i coloured my hair blonde last night.

any input on this i hope it will help.

 

Good luck with that!!!

 

I think a big wallet and a big dick is probably a good place to start.

Thinskin

 

LOL.

i disagree with you on the BLACK DICK. alot of women want a

" ASS HOLE/JERK, SLAP ME UPSIDE MY HEAD, PUNCH/KICK ME,
HUMILIATE ME IN PUBLIC " TYPE OF GUY.

the " NICE GUYS ", ALWAYS wound up in the " FRIEND ZONE ".

plus, the women of " 2013 " want a guy who makes equal to what they
make or above they make, have a " PROFESSIONAL " job that REQUIRES
you to have a " DEGREE ", as long as, it's a " BACHELOR " DEGREE or
above.

if not, your left out IN THE COLD, until someone feels sorry for you &
HOPEFULLY give you the chance to PROVE YOURSELF TO THEM.

women know this. but, they try to DOWN PLAY this BULLSHIT GAME of
theirs. alot of women are CONFUSE, and don't have a once of a
FUCKING CLUE in what they want.

( not trying to sound sexist here ) but, that's how i see it. your better off,
probably fucking a girl with little to no self-esteem about herself. hell,
she may become desperate and do just about anything for you, in order
to keep you and make you happy.

( i know i am going to catch flack, from the women here ). just trying to
be sarcastic with humor. THAT'S ALL.

 

I like a guy who will at least clean up his own messes. I don't mind the housework, but I'm not your mother.

I like a guy who I can debate with, and who will argue with me when I'm wrong.

I like a guy who doesn't mind that I think about sex 90% of the day, and who appreciates my efforts to be sexy.

I really don't care about looks that much, although someone with a sexy smile or that can give me a bit of a cocky grin when they're horny... bonus points...

I like guys that I can nerd out with. That's what I can think of for now.

 

re. Cleaning! It is amazing how many guys fail to understand that doing the washing up can get you laid.

Thinskin

 

Honey, you're on a porn site, interacting with women who are also on a porn site. Using the women on here as a barometer for the thoughts and feelings of the average woman on the street would be a huge error.

However, to answer your question, I want a man who will treat me like a whore in bed, then hold me like a princess afterwards. I want a man who can hold an intelligent conversation with me and is happy to support me on the rare occasions I need to fall apart. I want a man who is as proud of my achievements as I am of his, and who wants to take care of me as much as I want to take care of him. I want a man who will understand when I need my space, as I understand when he needs his space.

Oh and something I've learned this week: I want a man who doesn't continually refer to sex as "yum yum".

Everything else, we can negotiate as it arises

 

There's a big difference in what I want in a man on XNXX and what I want in a husband and a father of my children. Not that I don't adore big cocks stuffed into all of my holes, relentlessly fucking my pussy, my ass, my mouth, pounding me again and again until my body erupts in an orgasmic frenzy and I'm flooded with fresh, hot, soothing cum...but that has very little to do with real life in a long-term, committed relationship.

So please...don't get the two things mixed up.

 

Come on Kimi, the voice of reason just does not suit you!

thinskin

 

Take heart that around here the women as well as the men talk about our inner fantasies but, unless your changing women or men like you change your socks any great sexual relationship that's worth it's weight in pleasure grows! Just like men women can also talk a good game when also in fact they always have the upper hand, it's much easier to give away free pussy than free cock? Those who are willing to give it away so easy to only certain types (like others like them) will almost never experience what it's like to get past the "infatuation stage" and many who do fail the first few times because they never had to "work at it?" I've seen comparisons of the hot girl who's so easy and the average girl you have to work for, when those looks fade (and they will) there's nothing keeping you coming back! The average girl is there through your off night and try harder because they want to be there and don't judge you as being just a "dick" with anybody attached! Something to think about?

 

umm, we really need more women like yourself in the REAL WORLD.
women like yourself, are so hard to come by.

thanx for speaking your heart. :rose: :excited:

 

true true

especially on the last part. women fail to realize their LOOKS will FADE.
with all the SMOKING, FOUNDATION ( MAKE-UP ), they love to
plaster all over their face.

in do time, they will look like a runner-up in a BUTT FACE contest.
that's when, the women want a " GOOD UNDERSTANDING MAN " in their
corner, and to have a heart & sympathy for them.

these will be the " HOT LADIES " who wouldn't give you the time of day.

now, the average girl(s), are more willing due to the fact that, they
see themselves competing the so-called " popular/pretty girls " in
mainstream society.

this why, you see so many ATTRACTIVE WOMEN, on these talk shows
whining about, " I CAN'T FIND A DECENT MAN/GUY ".

LOL. only if they took their HEADS OUT OF THEIR ASSES LONG ENOUGH,
to see people for their hearts, and " NOT " for their

PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES

so much easier said than done.

just saying

 

How True, How True!

 

PM me. Sounds like we would get along great!

 

I have said almost the same thing about what I want in a woman.

 

i didn't think men could be separated in to sex freak then the family man category.

 

I only see men as sex objects and friends and family. I haven't ever felt romantic towards one and I don't think I will ever be in love with one.

What do I want in a male friend? Someone who cares, loves, and respects, intelligent, and determined, passionate, motivated, honest, loyal.

 

Well im not sure if ill be of much help Geraldo, im not like most people my age, more old school i guess. But what i look for in a man, is someone who's not necessarily gonna win any beauty contests, or anything; but someone who's beautiful on the inside. Someone who can both love me for who i am, and that i can love for who he is, no matter how he looks, his job, his dick. To me when it comes down to it, looks, money, the size of a guys cock mean nothing; its the size of his heart that matters to me. Sure there are physical features that i find more attracting, like blue eyes, but if i love him an he loves me, in the end that's all that really matters to me. Another thing i find kinda attractive is personality. Someone who likes to kid around sometimes an will allow me to kid back at him with out getting upset. I know alot of people raise an eyebrow when i say stuff like that, an prolly some would even say that im crazy but hey im who i am. I hope this helps ya some

Kitty

 

your last sentence, is what most of us " NICE GUYS ' have. but, its the
women who don't give us guys a chance to " EXPRESS ", these feelings
when he have " LESS PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES ".

we have a heart & soul just like all the rest.

 

Sorry...I lost my head.