I am trying to fathom what it is that attracts young girls/women to older guys.
Some girls, aged around 18, have said "they fuck better". This then suggests they have had a sexual relationship, in some form or other, with an older man.
I want to establish what happened, and when, to have got them interested enough to pursue a relationship with an older man.
I am aware that in some instances, their first encounter was with a relative (usually their father?) or close friend or relative of the family (uncle?).
This fascinates me so please, serious thoughts only.

 

I will give you a serious thought My first wife was older by 8 yrs, never made any difference to us. But my 2nd was 18yrs younger, I prefer younger women, like anywhere from SERIOUSLY from 18 to 50.

I wish I knew the secret you are asking for. "#2 just said she fell in love with me the minute she first saw me, and I do believe her (she died at 35 in 1989.)

The younger girls (20's) are willing to come dance with me, and I don't ask, they just come, to my amazement. I have actually asked some under 20's for a date, and while they didn't show, they did seem all for it.

So that's from the male side. Maybe some females will tell us what the deal is. I think in some cases its that older men are usually better providers, and have more common sense and better able to deal with life's vicitudes.(Damn can't spell it right)

 

Perhaps it's a father figure kind of thing ... I had an encounter at 25 with a man of about 55. He was the first man to give me an orgasm orally.

I suppose it's similar to why men enjoy the older woman ... there's definitely something to be said for experience.

Of course, they could just like older men cuz they figure that's where the money is. Worked for Anna Nichole for a while.

 

money

 

I agree

 

Can't see the attraction myself. Biggest age gap I've ever had with a guy was him being 4 years older. Since I was 27 I've always gone younger, and I've never had sex with a guy older than 30. I like them young, firm and constantly active....

 

Actually I don't understand what it is that attracts older guys to younger women!

I mean, if sex is their basis then it is apparent to me.

But having a relationship means having common interests and so on, so I agree with you that it must have something to do with this father-figure-thing.

 

I agree with fran, but then I agree with piggit..............Maybe it is just pure chemistry, and we are overlooking that fact. I have seen older women and thought to myself, wow I wonder how she would be in the the sack..........Then I have looked at younger girls and felt the same.........The funny thing is some of the younger gals with the Paris Hilton attitude, are a huge TURN-OFF! I don't think that women who chose to be that foolish with money and daily life are rotten to the core no matter what the age.....lol.

That is my 5 cents worth...........Who cares about age anyway? Really? As long as it works for the couple, GO FOR IT!

As far as experience, I had an encounter with a women 23 years senior to me, and I would do it again! She was so hot and knew how to make a man feel great! And the youngest was about ten years younger, she was really into it as well...........But throughout my lifes travels, I have ran across women who didn't have a clue in the bed, and I would have rather just masturbated...............lol.

 

Does that mean that girls who're younger than 18 you're suddenly unattracted to, or that you're still attracted to girls younger than that but you steer clear since it's against societies standards? Because there are 15 y/os who look 18 and 18 y/os who look 15, so how can you tell, if you saw a 15 y/o who looked 18 would you then be attracted to her until you realized she was 15, or would you still be attracted to her?
I'm not trying to accuse you of anything or flame you or something, I'm just curious.

 

thats not always true.
i am attracted to older guys because they are more mature. they can make good conversation. i mean not to say guys my age arent mature, it just seems they arent.

 

what a stupid question...you cant help who you're attracted to. it's not illegal to be attracted to girls of any age. you just can't do anything with them.

 

ok young mr. johnk9159......let's put the boot on the other foot for a moment. There are literally hundreds of thousands, if not millions of young men who fondly remember being educated sexually (if only just as a one off) at the hands of an older woman, simply because experience, knowledge and awareness come only with age......so, why shouldn't it be the same for younger woman with older men, if they so choose?

I'm also a little bit worried as to why abuse by family members fascinates you.

 

Or...in other words....you being in control.

 

That's cos you're only 21 hon. Most guys in their 30s and 40s can tell how old a girl is not by the way she looks but by the way she acts. so even if a girl is 15 and looks 18, they can usually tell that she is in fact only 15.

Read this post again in 15 or 20 years and you'll understand what i mean....

 

id say most guys would fuck anything... exspecally Virgins (gah cant spell)

 

you are totally stereotyping your own gender.
guys have standards too.

 

the reason that young girls are attracted to older men is because we see our daddy's in them. I'm speaking from experience here.

 

I wish there was an explanation of why at 65 I literally fell head in love with a student and could never let her know it, and there was no possibility of anything physical. She was 15, I wrote a song with her, it was basically her lyrics and melody I provided the harmony and chords and manuscripting, an experience I will always fondly remember, and forever we each own half of it. It was not only her looks, being redheaded with long hair has always been a thing for me, but honestly the first look I had at her took my breath away. She liked me, but I am sure that in no way were my own feelings reciprocated, not that I even cared.
Thinking of her makes me warm even 7 years later.

 

young girls/ older guys

I feel that younger girls/women, are attracted 2 older guys because its tabboo. The same reason men are attracted 2 young girls. Society says it shouldnt be done, so as humans, that normally want what we cant have, we find ourselves fascinated w/ the idea. Back in the late 1800's and early 1900's it was common for older men to take young wifes. Men would be established financially in their mid to late 20's, and would marry a young 14-15 y/o girl and all was well. Now, society says its wronge and thats what we as humans fantasize about. I myself am dating a girl 10 yrs my junior. I'm 28 and she just turned 18, she says that i'm mature enough to know what I want, in life and relationship wise, thats y shes w/ me. She thought I was only 21-22 when she 1st saw me, but fell in love w/ me as we got 2 know each other.

 

I currently have a 27 yr. old g/f. We are both married but enjoy the excitment of our sex. She says she enjoys sex with hubby but that my experience clearly shows. Not making this up. Just trying to answer the question.