Am I the only woman that before sex feels like I have the power when I'm nude, then after feel like I'm vulnerable to anything? It's like being before sex I can make him do anything I want, almost like time master. After sex it's like. I need to be covered, almost embarrassed. The telling goes away after a while but that first 2 or three min after a guy pulls out there's like a heightened sense of awareness.

 

It's not just you honey I'm the same way

 

Not sure why but I find this incredibly erotic!

 

It might be a case of you trading your body for something you want then feeling guilty for whoring yourself out after the deed is done.

 

No, it's nothing like that. It's just sex that is between two people. I've always had this feeling around sex. Ever since I lost my virginity.

 

If this feeling is after orgasm then it is just the post orgasmic dip...........try asking your lover to stimulate you through the orgasm!

Alternatively a houseful of cock will help you with this particular issue!

Thinskin

 

Nina: I feel much more comfortable undressing in front of a guy than I do having him watch me get dressed afterward.

 

I would much rather undress the woman myself than have her undress herself.
Can't never tell when you might find something you were not planning on finding and want to put her clothes back on her.

 

I think it says something about your partner if you feel insecure or like you need to cover up, after sex... With every woman I have been with... After sex, we may stay naked for several hours, whether we have sex again or not, before feeling the urge to put something on. And usually that's only because the kids were around!!!

 

I'm not a woman but I can kind of relate to what you're saying. Before sex when I'm nude I get this unbelievable rush of power that makes me feel totally in control and that I can make her do anything I want. But when they point down and start laughing hysterically all of a sudden I feel vulnerable, humiliated and totally embarrassed and want to be covered.

 

Same for me. I almost feel like just I candy and need to get dressed. After words I feel fine though.

 

I stay nude also but I cover up with the sheets. Its after i get out of bed. Im comfortable walking around in the nude with lovers around, but the loss of power after sex just dose something to me. Odd After he has seen me completely nude and everything. Odd how I don't mind it on the thrill of sex but afterwords it's like it's a secret again. Lol.

 

Maybe you need to get to know your sexual partner a little better before having sex.

 

For what it's worth I don't feel that way. I'm on an incredible high after sex.

 

That is usually what happens when a person chooses to sport fuck. It feels good at the time but after you cum you feel different.
Get to know your partner before fucking. It will make a difference.

 

If there wasn't another child in the house I would stay nude for a while after, it's a very powerful feeling and I would enjoy a nice hot shower after as well!

 

I need to learn how to use a dildo my wife is insisting on sharing her beats and I need to get dirty and masturbate with someone

 

In the end men are animals haunted by desire. Eros the concept of burning love gives women untold power. To me so often it seems women speak in rhyme. I guess I am different that I would prefer the Greeks concept of Pragma to Eros as long term relationships are more about day to day compatability than the burning of Eros. Though if we are lucky in life we can find both. That person would own the keys to my heart, yet never use them against me to lock me out.

 

I want to masturbate with you and make you take a hit from the tip of my Dick

 

I get what your saying, Iowagirl, and I think there is a biological element at work. Before sex there's a kind of find dick, get dick response that lowers your inhibitions that goes away after you climax. I won't worry about it too much though.