I'm about to have sex for the first time with someone real special to me. I was wondering if I cum in my condom, do I have to stop and change the condom, or keep going? Also if you have any tips for me that would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

xXRedskinXx

 

Well, if you're able to maintain the erection for that long after words, then yes, you should. If you mean like stopping for 10 minutes or so, catching your breath, then reattaining wood, then definitely yes.

Having all your man juice in the condom can make it very loose and you run the risk of it coming off. And, because of all that extra lube on the inside now, you're going to loose some feeling. Not to mention it's just a little cleaner. Eventually the stuff is going to start getting squeezed out the bottom, then you've got it all over everywhere and that's just more clean up. Unless she offers to use her tongue, then the more clean-up the better.

But all that aside, bring some extras. Best to swap out after every orgasm. Plus, a cum-filled condom is not a very attractive sight.

Advice wise, if you're both virgins, be gentle. Lots of foreplay and listen closely to her. With most women, nearly everything you need to know about them during sex they will tell you by their body movements and the noises they make. That will take a bit of practice though, so just keep your eyes and ears open.

If she's had sex before but you're the virgin, don't worry about messing up or doing something wrong. She ought to know you're a virgin and will be willing to guide you along. You're going to fumble, you're going to feel a bit awkward and you're probably going to question yourself after words, but that's normal. And just remember to have fun. It's sex. Make sure you're laughing. It will help lighten the mood and help all involved feel more relaxed.

Ask questions during, there's no shame in finding out what she likes and you're not a mind reader (and my partners have always appreciated my desire to give them whatever they wanted), but not every five seconds. Otherwise you might make her tense and if she's tense she's not having fun. And I don't know about other guys, but I've always found it very tacky to ask if she had an orgasm. I'll ask her if she had a good time, occasionally, or inform her that I had a very good time, but sex shouldn't be just about an orgasm, especially if you both care about each other, it should be about the time you spent and the closeness that develops. Asking about orgasms seems to me to put to much pressure on it and I never wanted a girl to think she had to fake it with me. My ego can stand the hit. I'd much rather she tell me how she wants it next time then to fake it and then always go unsatisfied. That to me is way more humiliating then her not having one and lying to me instead of just saying 'do it like this', you know?

Good luck, and hope I was able to help.

-S-

 

The condom id say would be best changed, if you've ever had a posh wank then you'll kno it jst dont look good. otherwise i believe ZYZX has a good post https://forum.xnxx.com/showthread.php?t=7043 << ther if you aint read it for some tips. Most here here will give good advice and you seem to have recieved good advice from ShakeZula...mine is...HAVE FUN .. although admitedly its hard not to

 

Who says a cum-filled condom isn't a very attractive sight?

 

Thanks for the boost TMX. Hope it helps some young ones (18, that is).

 

Definately time for a pitstop after you cum. The condom can start to slip with the extra lubrication on the inside and the last thing you want to do is loose it inside her. Really breaks the mood.
Remember it only takes a drop of lively little sperm to make you a parent.

 

There are some instuctions on each condom.

 

You mean, like, "this end up"?

 

Yep. Change em and wash yourself off also..mood killer?
Yeah..but then so is babies and aids etc.
(respect your young and pure now, but its good to form good habits early on )

 

As Little Shake starts to go a bit soft around the edges after the orgasm the condom sort of deflates and it looks like how my dick might look when I'm 90. And it's the got big saggy reservoir tip just dangling at the end. Even if you love cock, I can't imagine a psuedo-90 year old penis with a colostomy bag at the end is attractive. ;-)

-S-

 

Well...when you put it that way....:???:

 

.....and that's exactly how I feel about them, that's how they look, and it's acutely embarrassing.
Once I've done my business, I just can't wait to get the 'orrible thing off and out of sight !!..........