In a crowded bus: Get your hand off my ass, sir!!! Not you, young man!

 

I once thought there was no such thing as a stupid question. I must have been misinformed.

I take it that groping is offensive to women and should be illegal. Some women think stripe clubs are all offensive and demean women. Let's ban them too.
Porn movies also demean women, so let's ban them too.

But I'm just some kind of special stupid, so what do I know.

I also learned not to ask women questions in order to better under stand then. I'll just take it that women think just the same as men do.

 

Several years ago, there was a genre of porn called "sharking". It is similar to what you refer in your question. Search the Internet for any videos that may still be around. Use "top sharking" or "bottom (or low) sharking" as keywords. If you find any and watch them, you should be able to figure out why porn sites took them down, and get a pretty good answer to your question.

 

The difference of being groped is that you don't have permission to touch, some may think porn and strip demeans women but the women are doing it to earn money so you can not compare the two.
I was groped on a train and the guy didn't apericiate me stamping high up his foot or kneeing him in his bollocks

 

I can say that the one time I have been groped in public absolutely terrified me, and it could barely be called sexual. Some older black woman (gotta be above 60), leaned over and grabbed at my leg hair and just smiled and went "My I do love my men nice and hairy" and I swear I could still feel her hand an hour afterwards. That's just an old woman having some fun, and as men we don't even fear being groped that often, since it's not something we hear about or deal with on a frequent basis. It's absolutely wrong, and can really mess with people's heads, and yes, they will mess you up back.

 

Groping is an assault. Assault is illegal.

Never mind offensive or demeaning. ILLEGAL.

I realize this is not true everywhere, but for the most part, people voluntarily perform at strip clubs. People voluntarily perform in porn movies. That's not at all the same thing.

 

Comparing porn, strip clubs or the subtleties of sexual fantasy to actual, real groping is to wilfully misunderstand the difference.

The issue for so many in this thread is the fundamental principle that a woman's body is her own and doesn't belong to any man without her consent. And even then she reserves the right to withdraw that consent any time she chooses.

Any man who doesn't understand this - or doesn't want to understand it - can learn a better way or fuck off.

 

Japanese porn and its insistence on frape and groping on public transport has alot to answer for.But common sense says learn some fucking boundaries.

 

I was on a crowded bus once, there was no sitting room, there were lots of people standing then this group of females came in and i suddenly felt one of them pressing her ass on my hip and thigh through the whole 15 minutes she was on the bus, i could feel her cheeks and crack, when she got off the bus with her friends she looked right at me with a wicked look that I'll never forget. My cock was hard my heart was racing faster than ever, Is that considered groping? I allways thought it was a form of groping and i loved every second of it.

 

I guess you would not like this video.
http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1153771425

 

I was on a crowded bus once, there was no sitting room, there were lots of people standing then this group of females came in and i suddenly felt one of them pressing her ass on my hip and thigh through the whole 15 minutes she was on the bus, i could feel her cheeks and crack, when she got off the bus with her friends she looked right at me with a wicked look that I'll never forget. My cock was hard my heart was racing faster than ever, Is that considered groping? I allways thought it was a form of groping and i loved every second of it.

 

Oops i don't know how that happened . Sorry

 

At work? Well of course I love being groped by strangers at work. The people I actually know? No way man. That'd be creepy.

 

If I groped a female co-worker I would probably get written up, made a fool to the whole staff, and probably end up loosing my job. My record would be trashed so my career would be over and hopefully I would not get my ass kicked by her or her friends.....

 

Anybody touched me like that and they would be in intensive care for a long time

 

I guess there are a couple ways to look at this, say a stranger who is good looking caresses my backside with my husband right there and he doesn't notice, that could be exciting. A little flirtatious groping on the dl, hmmmm, maybe exciting.

 

1 in 800 women would think it flirtatious. Odds not good. Consequences not good.

 

Seperaring 'fantasy' from 'reality' is the mark of a sane person. Sure, I like porn which is why I am on here; but I like women more. In porn fantasies one may cup her ass, fondle her boobs or reach between her legs for a handful; yet, in the real world I know it is illegal, disrespectful and, in many cases, a terrifying experience for a woman to feel a hand on her sexual assets. I was groped by a homosexual once my reaction was fast and violent - I punched him in the mouth - and if someone hadn't held me back, perhaps even fatal I do not know. But I can say rage not lust filled me. I cannot expect a female's reaction would be different.

Like someone said above, women are not a different specie. They are the femal counter part to homo sapien's which is why one is everyone of us mother.

 

I made post above that had to do with my experience, not because I'm confused on this thread but because i was hoping to get a point across that women too enjoy groping.

 

How would you like going to prison for sexual assault? Then you can get groped there and find out.