:? My wife and I have great sex but usually I am the first to cum. I like making her cum but the only way I can do that is by fingering her or going down on her. She never cums when I am just fucking her….what am I doing wrong?

 

Not all women orgams just by being penetrated. Let her play with herself while you are making love with her. Or maybe you could pleasure her till the breach of her orgasm and then penetrate her.

Good luck.

 

You could possibly make the sex more kinky on her. Or during foreplay make sure to concentrate more on her and maybe do it longer during sex.

 

Yeah, there are many times when I don't orgasm by being penetrated. I find that I get the best orgasms when I'm being fingered or he goes down on me. If she dosn't orgasm, it's not that you are doing anything wrong, so don't worry about that. It's just the way she is.

It is a good idea to give her clit a little more attention during sex. Play with it yourself or let her do it. and foreplay is always good.

 

My GF never came during sex with me or ever for that matter in her life!
But she say's that she still enjoy's the Sex
Especially whe I cum.
She Love It when I scream & my Facial Expration.
:twisted:
So Don't Worry you are doing just fine.

 

She has NEVER cum?

 

Poor girl.. :shock:

 

my roomates' girl has never cum...god if i had a night with her...i'm not all that great but i'll eat your pussy till you cum

 

I know...
I would really wouls like to give her that experience of cumming during enturcorse.
She does cum when she masturbates but only that.
Girls help me out please!!!!!!!!!!

 

Rub her clit while you're fucking her.
Pay attention to the sounds she makes and how she moves her body.
When she's close, don't go changing the rhythm and speed.

 

ive done like what 6 virgins now (not concidering the girls ive gone out/dated) the trick to please them is to hold urself :evil: ... i hated it soo much my first few times but thats the beauty of having sex with amazing girls...when they know u held out for them...u let they reach their orgasm first...some of them will do such wonderful things..
one thing i hated :twisted: (u get the drift of the face...i hated by loving it so much) my 3rd girl would strip for me..ever so slowly...she would keep a safe distance from me so i couldnt reach her...i would get soo erect...she would then please me in such ways...the only ways u can get to actually experience it is by..well DOING IT :?

 

Foreplay, foreplay, and more foreplay, read the Karma Sutra and look up Tantric Love Making

 

Have her on top so that she can rub her clit on you. Or as the others said, finger her clit. Let her use a toy on her clit while you're penetrating her.

Good luck.

 

remember only 20% of women can have orgasms through vaginal penetration just rub her clit while you're doing it

 

Well, my wife and I have been married well over ten years, and in all that time, she's come strictly from penetration maybe twice. So when we want to have vaginal sex, I always go down on her until she comes before I put it in. (Well, "always" = 99% of the time.) Works for both of us, since I love to eat her out anyway. So, if you're doing something "wrong," I am too -- but my wife doesn't seem to mind, so it doesn't bother me either.

As I think about it, I can only remember ever having one sex partner who came regularly from penetration. She was, in general, the easiest girl to get off I've ever been with. (My wife is on the opposite end of the spectrum; she takes about ten times as much attention to get her there.) And anyway, I have some suspicions that she was faking at least some of those.

It's difficult to remember sometimes that real sex almost always /= fantasy/movie/porn sex. Real girls don't (usually) writhe in uncontrollable ecstasy just from having a penis in them. So, I just try to be generous and make sure she gets hers, without stressing too much about exactly how she gets it.

 

Your not doing anything wrong..
It takes me a while to really cum.
And same with my boyfriend..
So Its like christmas!
When someone finally cums we scream "SUPRIZE!"
>.<

 

Talk to her my friend. Just thinking about what is going on does not work. For the best possible sex, you need to communiate to your partner about what both sides want and how to reach that point so both are satisfied. Takes some practice but in the end it will pay off. Each person is different on how they injoy sex. Think of your partner first. Good Sex.....Long&Thick.
:wink:

 

As long as you have made her cum at all its no problem. You can actually 'train' her body to cum from any body part you want!

Start with the method of excitement that typically brings her to orgasm. Stimulate her that way till she 'just' begins to orgasm, THEN, switch to whatever part of her body you want to train to cum.. deep inside her pussy, her tits, her mouth or even her neck. When switched so close to orgasm she will continue to cum, no matter where you switch to.

After doing this on a regular basis, you will find that the 'new' spot will respond just as her original 'trigger' point did.

Try it.. you'll both have fun trying, and may discover a thing or too!

 

i have the same prob. best thing to do is get her to cum first by oral or with your finger. if she cums again while you in her then it good job, lol

 

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