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  1. Rowan_dark

    Rowan_dark Newcumer

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    Has anybody ever put then selves into a consensual sexual slavery
     
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  2. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    I'm in an M/s relationship but I'm not sure that's what you're asking.
     
    1. thinskin
      Neither is the OP I think!;)

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  3. Hush

    Hush Happy Hhedonist

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    I have two "by lifestyle choice" slaves, who contrary to the norm are actual and proven "no-limits" 24/7/365 slaves. Sex is a big part of that, yet their commitment goes well beyond that. Sexual slavery is a term that I have found either those young, or those looking for some situation where they can free themselves sexually, use. Yet it is far from "consensual slavery" and all that entails.

    Hush....an alias
     
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    1. Milo Cronos
      Their choice and consensual are synonymous, but anyone who submits to another for their sexual pleasure through S&M/B&D would be the aforementioned consensual sexual slave Yes or No?
       
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      No... Many involve themselves in BDSM sexual environments having no interest in being a submissive, let alone a slave (which is a thousand fold jump if literal), even when taking a bottom role. Furthermore, "slavery" in a consensual situation by their choice is much a much deeper commitment and sexuality is a very tiny part of that. Don't get me wrong, someone may submit to being a "sexual submissive," and granted, all people define levels of commitment to suit themselves, yet in my world, to take on the position of a "slave" means permanently choosing to give up ALL choice and consent. It is an all or nothing deal.

      Hush....an alias
       
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  4. deviantdick

    deviantdick Porno Junky

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    Surely the term is mutually exclusive? Slavery can't be consensual, can it? My wife has gone through periods where she's been completely submissive to my desires and I'm always the dominant one, but I wouldn't describe it as slavery as her satisfaction is of more importance to me than my own.
     
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  5. Jack Mine

    Jack Mine The Pope of Assholiness

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    I've gotten myself into a consensual slavery relationship. It's not sexual because my wife never wants to have sex, but I jump at her every beck and call.
     
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  6. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    I identify as a slave in a consensual M/s relationship because that describes the relationship structure. He has the authority and makes the final decisions. I'm allowed to make suggestions but he decides what is going to happen. It's how we relate to each other and our roles within the dynamic, I'm not literally chattel. And it's a regular looking marriage from the outside. We love each other. It's not all about sex. I obey completely but it's because I choose to, and I trust that he won't make me do something against my nature, because that would be against his.
     
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  7. Rowan_dark

    Rowan_dark Newcumer

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    Okay better question how and when did you decide to become a slave going further than just a regular submissive. Realizing that you wanted to give up complete control of your life
     
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  8. Rowan_dark

    Rowan_dark Newcumer

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    Bump
     
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  9. newlicker

    newlicker Porn Star

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    Well I will never give up complete control , but I have giving it up for a day or weekend a couple of times!
     
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  10. alastarr

    alastarr Porno Junky

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    Something tells me you dont have to clean the house much lol
     
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  11. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    From the get-go. In my early 20's I was in an M/s relationship that didn't start as D/s (Dom/sub) - in fact, I've never considered myself particularly submissive. People can argue about terms all they want but I see a difference between having a submissive personality and being obedient to authority. I'm the latter.

    I knew going into the relationship that he wanted M/s; it appealed to me; I just jumped in. I'm not sure I'd recommend that approach - I was lucky to trust someone trustworthy, but there are a lot of untrustworthy people out there. In my defense, I was much younger then, lol.
     
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