Ok, so this is how it is.
A just before Christmas my partner came home drunk one night, and during sex he told me that a friend of ours wanted to fuck me. I was turned on that my boyfriend was talking about me like that. Later I told him that I bet he was glad I was fucking him and not his friend and he fucked me so hard.
On Christmas day he proposed and we got engaged.
A few times since I have mentioned his friend during sex and it just leads to harder sex.
So... Does he want him to fuck me? Does he just like the thought that I am all his when other want me? Or was it just a test to see how faithful I would be before he proposed?

 

He might want to experience it or one of the aforementioned reasons

 

Say to him k let's do it and his reaction will full in your blanks

 

Or I end up homeless

 

Just ask him during sex if your pussy is all his. Simple dirty talk and might lead to a clue.

 

Ask Him , That's what I would do ?

 

High stakes I see, you could play it off if he reacts in an unpleasant manner but no need to skate on thin ice sorry for your disconcerting situation

 

Just ask him if he likes the idea of another guy. Don't outright offer or say you want it. Just ask if that is why he gets so excited.

 

I have said during sex a few times. It just leads to harder sex. My thought is that he likes that I am all his. I don't want to jump at the chance if it spoils things between us. I don't want to risk it all and be homeless when I am almost 40

 

I also think it's strange he proposed shortly after telling me.

 

Go with it then, don't look for answers you don't want sorry your in a bind it's harmless in my eyes ???

 

When my wife and I talked about it it progressed slow. We fucked hard and came hard and eventually I asked her if she liked the fantasy alone or really wanted to try it and made it clear I would be okay with it if she really wanted to fuck another guy as long as I participated. We have had a few threesomes since, and we both enjoyed ourselves most of the time. ( some people didn't want to follow the rules.)

 

I couldnt say for sure but maybe it means he is that comfortable with you? Not my place just a thought

 

I've had 3sums in the past, but he doesn't really know. If he asked outright I would be fine. I just wish I knew what they were talking about for him to say it and know the exact conversation.

 

Well im not much younger than you but marriage is a serious thing. Only you can judge what is appropriate or not and at what time with your fiance. My only advice is to be honest with him about your curiosity or desires at some point before he becomes your husband

 

Sex should be fun if couples explore or entertain the desires and wants then go all in , for some insecurities and jealousy gets in the way of fulfillment, and watching a loved one doin things to another can bring out feelings not felt before

 

Sorry double post

 

alastar that's excellent advice

 

My wife and I have fantasized about this very thing. I have told her how I would love to see her suck another cock and it made us both crazy! We have done this many times over the years but it never materialized into anything more than great sex. I would have loved to have followed through on our fantasy. I never felt my wife was REALLY open to it so I never pursued it. However, she is pretty judgmental, so I tread lightly. Only you know if your relationship is strong enough to with stand this if he isn't open to it. I understand the worry about blow back, it's why I didn't pursue it. If you couch it in such a way that you assure him you are all his, but you simply can't help but be curious if he is even remotely serious, maybe it reassures him that you aren't interested in other guys. Is he here at the forum? Doesn't sound like it. Sorry if I rambled.

 

No he has no idea I come on here. If he ever found out and read my posts it would really be over