There's a lot of good advice on here. However you decide to approach it, I'd suggest talking about it while you've got your clothes on. People can say the kinkiest things while fucking which isn't always carried forward into real life. My wife told me she wanted a threesome while we were driving to the shops. Smart move.

 

@Splashgirlx , talk to him about while you are not having sex and gauge his true intentions.
Also consider if you can't talk about what you want sexually now then it won't get any better in the future. Life is short and everyone deserves their best shot at happiness.

 

sound's like he thinks in his mind it's hot that his friend wants to fuck you and he's got you. he prob tounts the guy saying see I got her you cant have her!! FUCKER!!! haha that's why he fucks u so hard.

 

It seems fairly obvious that YOU want it to happen or you wouldn't be posting such a question on an open forum.
So just ask him straight out.

 

We've all done bad things, but the worst thing you can do is cement a relationship with someone when there are secret things in your past which would change his feelings about you. Of course, you just assume it would change his opinion of you. If you know for certain, it's crazy to continue, proposal, or not.

As for you OP, I think he wants to fuck his friend.

 

Yes. I don't really mind, I've done worse, I just don't want to risk what I have. I'll tell him, as he knows, that I will do whatever he wants me to and it is his choice. But I'm going to do that finger thing that Hush said to. It's been nearly 3 months now and he hasn't pushed it further so I do think he likes the thought of men wanting me rather than actually have them fuck me.

 

Splash, first of all you should never burden your good relationship with what you done wrong in the past. As unfair as it seems, keep it to yourself. The unfair part was the cheating and don't add to it making him miserable that that happened. Telling him is a way to free your mind from the burden of the secret and loading it on him instead, and in the meanwhile ruin what you have. That's the real unfair part of it.

As for your original question - here's my 5 cents worth.

Ask him, not while you're having sex, whether he is serious about his fantasy. Then tell him whether you like the idea. In this order. Apparently some have bad experiences but my wife and I had the time of our lives with the numerous threesomes we done with our fuck buddy.

 

I haven't read all the replies to this, but my guess is that it is a fantasy but not one he necessarily want to turn into reality. If you are enjoying the thought and he is enjoying the thought and you are both getting some amazing sex from it then why worry.

My wife has said some stuff during sex and it has been an amazing turn on. She denies ever having said those things now. It is such a shame because being open and dirty during sex can be just so awesome and bring a couple together in a whole new way, but it doesn't have to mean anything more than a in the heat of the moment. Keeping it a fantasy might actually be better than trying to make it a reality

 

We'll see. But I think you're right which is why I was asking.

 

So i did the finger thing. I took his fingers in my mouth and sucked while i was riding him and told him it was Lou's cock. I got flipped over and totally slammed hard with a good hard fucking where i told him i would do anything he wanted with anyone he wanted no limits just what he wanted.
Fucked so hard. He didn't say yes but we'll see.

 

So after asking me if i wanted him to do anything for me, we went for a drive out which was fun

 

Fucked in some trees near the golf course lol

 

Well after i said i would do anything for him he asked this morning if i wanted anything and driving out for a fuck was it

 

You daredevils.