Okay, from a guy's point of view...just ask him. You'll be surprised how many men have the fantasy of watching their wives or girlfriends get fucked. I was in this situation, except in reverse. One night, I was just having a "dirty" conversation with my girlfriend and told her that I had a crazy fantasy about her fucking another guy. She didn't freak out on me at all. She realized that everyone has different fantasies and fetishes and it doesnt make me weird or crazy for thinking about such a thing. At first, she was up in the air about it. From there, it took a few more incidents to get her mind eased about it.

I have a close friend of mine. We often show off naked pics of our girlfriends to eachother from our camera phones. The girls never really knew at first. One day I told her that my friend thought she had a nice ass and that he wanted to see a picture of it. I kinda threw it out there as a joke, incase she got mad at me. To my surprise, she told me to show him the pics I had on my phone (she would often pose for me). Little did she know that he has already seen most of the pics, but at least I knew she was into the idea of my friend seeing her naked. From there on, she kept questioning if he liked what he saw....obviously getting aroused from another man seeing her naked. From there, I kinda just layed it out there. I brought up my fantasy a few more times and she went with it. I offered the idea to my friend and he was more than willing. Now, I didnt know what he was into, so I left it as letting him fuck her while I secretly watched. It turns out, she was more comfortable with the idea of my fantasy, being that it was someone she knew, rather than a stranger. The whole stranger idea was what originally made her uneasy. Long story short, she had a blast. After he left, we had the hottest sex ever! As Im fucking her, she's telling me how much she loves me and how grateful she is to have me. Since then, they have fucked two more times.

In order for this to work right, ground rules must be laid out and you must have a super strong relationship. She was just looking for a little physical spice...nothing more nothing less. She made it completely clear to me that she loves me and that she will always come home to me no matter what. She does have the capability of doing things on a physical level and not allowing emmotions to get involved. As for my friend, no bad feelings. We often joke about it and our friendship couldn't be any better. He's not looking to steal her from me, he's just looking to get laid by a hot piece of ass. With that being said, everyone had fun and in the end it all worked out.

So, my advice to you is to just be honest and tell him. If you guys are in a solid relationship, you should be able to be open with everything and anything. At first, I would just tell him...."You know how we've had a threesome with another girl? Well, you got to have two girls, and I was thinking....let's explore another option and have another guy now....this way we can both experience having two of the same sex in the bedroom." I would leave it at that at first. Ideally, you may even want to bring it up when you're fucking him when he's really hot and heavy. Eventually, as you talk about it more, assuming he's in favor of the general idea, you can bring up the friend thing. You must give it some time though...dont bring up the friend right away. I would say...."So, this whole fantasy of mine....I really want to try it. I was thinking, if we find someone or meet someone on the internet or wherever, it might be a little uneasy. What if we find a trustworthy friend to have some fun with. It would make me more comfortable to play this out with someone we know, someone who we know is clean, and someone we can trust." See what he says about that.

Most important, lay out the ground rules before anything happens. Assure him that you love him and you're not looking for another man to run off with, but just for a little physical fun...thats all. Whatever it takes for you to convince him that he is the man you are going home with and that the other guy means nothing to you other than another dick for you to have fun with. I assure you, if you guys have a rock solid relationship with no trust and jealousy issues...it would all work out in the end. Im extremely open with my girlfriend. She has a high sex drive and I work alot. I understand she has needs and I will let her have whatever she wants...as long as she comes home to me in the end. I see a huge difference in sex and making love. I know she needs sex alot....which is what I allow her to do with other guys. On the flip, I am the only one she makes love to. I find that after she fucked my friend the few times, every single time she came home to me more loving, grateful, and appreciative than ever! Our relationship couldn'e be stronger. It works out for everyone. She gets to ahve some fun on the side, my buddy gets laid, and I get my fantasies fulfilled. I also strongly believe that If you allow your partner some sexual freedom with other people, she will be completely honest and open. If you get jealous and dont allow her to talk to someone or do certain things, she will rebel and end up doing what she wants anyway. Of course this isn't 100% uniform amongst all couples, as some couples dont approve of this kind of stuff. Im just speaking for those that enjoy this type of fantasy and are into this stuff. We are and she's more than happy and willing to participate.

Anyway, I know I wrote a novel on this, but it is something that not everyone will understand. Good luck and if you need anything more, just email me

 

It looks like you've got some real grat advise, so go for it. Hope it works out.