If you want something besides vanilla sex, talk to your wife, dammit. Maybe she wants some new sexual excitement too, ya selfish Bastard. Why did you even marry someone that you don't care about their feelings?

 

You're not stalking and its mutual so your not a dirty old man

 

Having sex with a prostitute is cheating.
Doesn't matter if it's only sex.

 

Ah, yes it does matter.

 

Why?

If she is above the age of consent, age is irrelevant to the fact that it would be cheating.

 

I was just being rather basic, saying that it does matter to many men because a 19 year old is simply more attractive, and a hell of a lot more tempting than a 90 year old. If a 90 year old started flirting and showing an interest, well that might be easy to not follow up on. Cheat with a 90 year old? That might not be worth it. Cheat with a 19 year old? That might convince some guys. Even cheaters have standards.

Now lets hear it from all the 90+ year old women that have been insulted.

I would like to defend people who cheat on their spouses. Cheating is common and a blanket condemnation of all the people that have cheated is an inaccurate, harsh and unwarranted decree. Every cheater, maybe most of them, are not ethically challenged scum-bags. No matter how attached we are to our mates, we are all still individuals. I have cheated for very good reasons of my own. Wife found out of course. A brief time of discussion, concern, and counseling and then back to our happily married lives. Been married for 44 years, that was 30 years ago. If I was to repeat that time in my life, I'd do the same thing. It was beneficial to the longevity of our marriage. I now have no desire to be with another woman and I've said that directly and plainly to my wife.

If I found out that my wife was cheating with another man, I'd figure she had compelling reasons to do so and I'd want to know what they were. I'd be curious as to why and not feel angry or wronged. If she were cheating with another woman without telling me, I'd figure she had sexual desires to satisfy that did not include me, probably could not include me.

 

Why not just open up the marriage - give each other blanket permission before hand.

Or is it easier for you in your head to get forgiveness. Doesn't matter if she forgave you, going behind her back in the first place is wrong and I stand by that.

 

Maybe age, appearance, or anything else under the sun is a factor in whether you decide to cheat. But it does not change the fact that, after you have made the decision to do so, you are cheating.

If you want to have a relationship with someone other than your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend, you have the options of discussing an open relationship or leaving them so they can move on to someone who's not going to lie to them and betray them.

If you think "she'd freak out at the idea of an open relationship, I could never say that"? How do you think she's going to respond when she finds out you've been cheating on her?

And we almost always find out. Maybe not right away. But dirty secrets have a way of stinking, and sooner or later that stench will be traced to you.

 

Maybe age, appearance, or anything else under the sun is a factor in whether you decide to cheat. But it does not change the fact that, after you have made the decision to do so, you are cheating.

If you want to have a relationship with someone other than your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend, you have the options of discussing an open relationship or leaving them so they can move on to someone who's not going to lie to them and betray them.

If you think "she'd freak out at the idea of an open relationship, I could never say that"? How do you think she's going to respond when she finds out you've been cheating on her?

And we almost always find out. Maybe not right away. But dirty secrets have a way of stinking, and sooner or later that stench will be traced to you.

 

Nah, you're not a dirty old man, just an old creep.

 

Good, then I can fuck your wife now. Thank you for the clarifications

 

That would totaly be her decision.

 

All you repeatedly say is, "I don't care about how my wife feels". I feel sorry for her.

 

You should at least talk to her first. Don't be afraid of her shutting you down because she may be open to the idea. At the very least, you two could identify and address the problem that's leading you to consider cheating.

 

Lemme get something straight. My wife n i are not haveing sexual trouble. We get it on about 2-3 times a week. Pleanty of fuckin n suckin goin on so im not deprived or anything. Over the 20 years marriage ive fooled around with 7 ladys besides my wife. Ive always put her first and never took a thing away from her. She has a pussy i absolutely love to eat and she gives wonderful head m swallows my cum like a whore. I love her always! I just like to soak my cock in a lot of mouths.

 

"I'm a dirty old man and I'll be one until I'm a dead old man."
Redd Fox

 

DOM? ...YES!!

 

Which makes you a creep. You are sleezing around with other women without your wife's knowledge, possibly introducing her to STIs/STDs that she doesn't even know to get screen for. If you at least told her you'd like to try an open relationship or one where you can fuck around with someone every once in awhile no strings she'd have a chance to make a decision for herself. You never know, she might be the type of woman that allows you to cat around, as long as she knows you're doing it. Besides how embarrassing for her if one of her/your friends happens to see you out with some gal & tells her about it when she has no prior knowledge of your shenanigans?

When I figured out monogamy wasn't going to work long term for me I sat my husband down to talk about it before I did ANYTHING with another person. I told him I'd give him a clean divorce if that was what he wanted, or we would try to an open relationship where we are both allowed to see people with the other's knowledge and consent. It wasn't easy at first but it definitely improved our bond. 4 years into opening things up and I love him more than ever, I respect him and cherish our relationship.

 

Did your wife know about the other seven women? That's an important factor. If you are going to have sex with other women, without her knowledge, it's a violation of trust and this makes you a bad person.

If your wife knows you are a bad person and is still there, you get a little credit for that.

 

You're only as old as you feel....Damn I hate being 93.....you mudda fukka!

Hush....an alias