I would say I did with about 2/3 of my clients, maybe less. It just depends on what we were doing, if I was into them and how I was feeling. Being that I was very low volume, it was pretty easy to cum. And I've already answered this 3x in the thread.

I answered this one on this page already. Sheesh! I preferred my guys to be late 30s up to 50-ish. They just didn't play games, were prompt, respectful, etc. Younger guys could be that way but younger guys would want to haggle, tended to be a bit more rough (or the polar opposite, completely naive and passive) and so on.

At first I struggled with it but after about 6 months I had learned to deal with it and focused more on the person. If they had an obvious condition I'd either ask politely about it or avoid it but every has acne and bacne (back acne) and chest acne are fairly common. Same with razor burn. You just move on unless it's really extremely gross and then you have a polite but direction conversation to understand it and then set your limits from there.

 

Did you ever use costumes or do role play

If so any interesting ones that come to mind

 

Is there an "A" list for prostitutes, courtesans, or professional traveling companions? If so, what do they prefer to be called? What is their daily, weekly, or monthly rate? Are they likely to stay busy or must they have agents similar to actors, singers, and lecturers. Might the agent negotiate rates and handle travel connections, wardrobe, and professional grooming staff worldwide?

I am assuming a girl like this must be multilingual, hold advanced degrees in the liberal arts, have a perfect body regardless of age, and a wear face that could launch a thousand warships like Helen of Troy. And speaking of age, might they be able to work as senior citizens?

Wouldn't this be a better job than working in some Human Resource department in Denver? Your golden parachute would be a marriage contract with some billionaire who would sign a generous pre-nup.

 

ah very insightful, i didnt read the whole thread so i didn't know some of what i asked was already answered.

seems like the 20somethings shouldnt be seeing escorts based on what i've seen around, guessing because they are young and should be chasing girls instead of paying for escorts... tough call when a young guy can spend just as much on dates that lead nowhere vs getting exactly what they want...

also how bad was your worst client?

 

Yes it happened to me a few times. It's John's code also.

thinskin

 

Have you ever had a couple hire you so the female can watch you with her man or vice versa?

Have you ever done group activity?

 

ok,i have found this thread and read the whole thing, got my atten.. i have been seeing escorts scence the mid 80s. most were a one and done some were twice. one was a 3 timer (would have seen her more but she stoped answering). dont think i creeped her out but maby she got out. first off, i have alot of respect for a working girl, they provide a much needed service to those of us that have a (what i preferr to call) complushion for a new sexual experience. kind of to break up the bordom that masterbation cant do. dont get me wrong, i get laid often, but sometimes i want a steak and not a burger, burgers are good but a good steak stays with you a while. when i was a solder finding a steak and an escort were 1 and 2 on my to do list after a long(or even short) deployment. now in my late 40s it more of get this out of my system type thing. maby get an escort 2 to thee times a year now. any way , is there a diference in a girl working for a pimp and one working for a madam? and for the record i try to find the ones that work for themselfs...............thank you for ALL your answers and for the service that you kindly provided. again thanks and great thread.

 

Costumes / exotic lingerie yes. Role play, rarely. I can honestly only remember 3 or 4 unique roles that were setup ahead of time. I've mentioned the one guy that loved being humiliated and treated like garbage and he was hardcore into me being in leather, thigh boots, etc but I don't count that one in the mix. Cheerleader, schoolgirl, runaway. Actually all three pretty standard fare.

Outfits followed along the same lines. I actually have 3 "catholic" schoolgirl outfits still but haven't worn any of them in years. We're talking knee-high white socks, a plaid, black and beige knee length skirts, white tops, etc. I wasn't a cheer-whore in HS, I was a real athlete so I did have to go out to buy a cheer outfit. Can't say I am a fan but meh, it paid well.

 

Courtesans but elite escorts or travel companion are interchangeable.

Honestly I think you're trolling at this point because you didn't like my twin brother answer but no, I don't know of any girls that have an agent unless they worked for an agency and as I never associated with an agency, I didn't know any agency girls personally other than interactions on a board similar to this one. If I or other girls went on overnights or trips with clients, either the client set up everything or reimbursed us (because if the client booked, we'd have to reveal a lot of personal info including real names and what not).

You're confusing male escorts for female ones. Men are too simple of creatures. Yes, most of the higher end escorts are well educated and likely successful (in a business world standpoint) women who chose escorting as an easier and more lavish lifestyle. Not 100% true but the stereotype fits. However men are hiring you to keep them company, for sexual relief and arm candy, not to help them examine the social-political structure of conservative economics on a largely socialist society.

I don't work in HR at some company. I'm a consultant and a damn good one at that. I make 6 figures doing it with no legal risk or risk of exposure. Escorting is not a career choice. It was a means to an end and something I could justify doing and didn't have any moral objections to participating in. While there are escorts in their 40s, they are much more rare than those in their 20s and tend to fill a more unique niche. And no, clients as a rule of thumb are not someone you would plan on riding off into the sunset with. Yes, I dated two clients and I regret not actually being open to something with a 3rd but I was young, naive and too emotionally invested in those cases.

 

Not all 20 somethings are confident, have good social skills or maybe there are physical / external issues. Escorts are a good way for them to both lose their virginity (which may not be ideal but it's not entirely uncommon) as well as building some confidence.

I had a few bad clients but the worst was the guy who tried to rape me and left with a broken nose, likely a cracked rib or two and a serious contusion on his shin. Guys that try to "stealth" me (aka slip the condom off during doggy or rear positions) fit into that category. I had one guy that had that skin disorder where he smelled like rotten eggs / sulfur and I just couldn't do it. I had an uncut client that when I rolled back the foreskin there was smegma everywhere. You want to talk about gag-worthy. And so on.

 

Not always. Guys don't seem to get the boundaries. I'm not saying girls don't as well but I've heard far more horror stories from working girls than I have from clients. Girls generally don't want to see / interact with you outside of the session. It's not because they're bitchy but let's be honest, we're selling a fantasy alongside of sex. When it intrudes into our personal life, it gets very uncomfortable.

Every girl has had a stalker of sorts be it via email, work phone or hanging outside the incall. So there's always that paranoia when you see a client in a social setting. Granted, 95% of the clients are good guys who get it, like you said, John code. But that 5% ruin it for the rest of you. Think of it like the random PMs we get on here as women. A lot of the guys here are likely good guys but it's the army of 'tards that ruin it for everyone else.

 

I only did one couple's date and I swore to never do it again after that. He ignored her, I could see the hurt and betrayal in her eyes and the fact she was only doing it to appease him. Otherwise, no, didn't happen.

I did a lot of FFM dates or duos with other girls but never anything more than a threesome. On my bucket list for my personal life is to be the center of attention in a gang bang of at least 3 and up to 8 guys and sorry gents, I already have my potential partners for that hypothetical situation selected and two of them I've actually asked and they've agreed if I ever decide to do it.

 

That's sort of the point, we offer a fantasy that maybe isn't available elsewhere and/or we offer an outlet to mix things up. It's true a lot of our business is from married guys who are frustrated at home but it is what it is...

Let me make it clear, all girls are in it for the money. Nobody does this thinking she's going to find her husband. Maybe a sugar daddy, yes, but never a husband. With that said, a girl working for a pimp will probably have a quota, will see as many guys as she can and get you off and out as soon as possible. Girls who work for pimps are generally abused or at least under the threat of violence, are plagued by substance abuse and are essentially cattle to be used up and discarded when done.

Indy girls are, in my opinion, entrepreneurs. We run our own business. Yes, that business is selling pussy. Let's not sugar coat it. Working girls sell pussy. But they wrap it up in a fantasy. They tend to make it more personable and more intimate. They don't have to see 5 or 6 guys a night at $20 quick blowjob that is mostly hand in order to appease the pimp. They can see a guy for $200-$300/hour and keep it to 1-3 guys per day and live a very comfortable life.

There's more to it than that but this entire thread I've spoken from the experience of a very high-end call girl / escort / prostitute. I think I've laid out the case for what those girls who charge $400/hour and beyond will offer you. That's going to be very different than the girl who is forced and/or trafficked by a violent thug using intimidation and control to keep her under his thumb. Not to mention indy girls are much more safer to see in most cases. Our vagina is our business so getting it sick is a death knell for the job. With pimps, they don't care, if the pussy gets worn out there's more down-and-out or vulnerable women to take advantage of.

 

interesting, i understand some guys are pretty underhanded when it comes to what they expect from an escort. if they wanted to go bare they should just get themselves a girlfriend.

i am uncut but i make sure before i see an escort i take a shower and clean underneath there as i dislike the smell and it is just proper manners even if i were to be going on a date. basic hygiene is lost to some, or they think 'hey this girl is a dirty whore anyways' or something to that effect.

in my experience with escorts, i have had one that was all safe, she didnt seem to like cum at all when i had to finish i asked her for a handjob finish kind of left me hanging after i came, and after i did it was like 'get the fuck out' kind of feeling, no hug goodbye, basically no customer service at all.

the other girl i was with was very sweet and finished me off in a way that made me feel like she wanted me to enjoy my release. a hug good bye with a sweet smile. havent seen her again yet but might.

there was a difference in price point between the 2 though. so i guess it is you get what you pay for.

have you ever gone beyond what was expected of you?

 

I've read this thread from it's inception. I do not recall this having been asked before.

Besides keeping yourself in excellent physical shape, what were some of the immediate preparations you performed before meeting a client, both physical and maybe mental? Any room or environmental preparations?

 

The criminal who broke your nose - police involved? Ever have any interaction with the police? Were any of your clients police? If so, do you know how they reconciled the ethics involved?

Besides having the income to indulge in your services, any idea as to the professional breakdown of your clients?

 

Ask any prostitute - the bare questions comes up a lot and the stealthing attempts happen often. I just think it's funny that guys think we're not onto them when they try it. Which is also why I always provided the condoms and never let the clients use theirs. Nicks, tears, intentional sabotage, etc. One of the "white knight" tactics is to sabotage the condom so that it fails and he knocks you up. That way he can "do the right thing" and try to "save you" from the horrible life you must be living. Its one thing to try to go bare, knocking her up is a different ball of wax and one of those things that infuriate me.

There's some truth to that but the niche I was working in, less so. Some guys just don't think about it. Almost every escort out there that is mid-to-high range in price and services will pretty much demand you have either taken a shower right before or you take one there (hell, we'll join you most of the time). It's just a rinse but if you are dirty, your time will be affected. Always.

3G's girl: Get in, get off, get out. She was probably trapped by circumstance, hated the job but it's the only thing she could do to figure out how to make ends meet. Sadly, that's a lot of girls, I'd argue the majority (as in greater than 50%) of the girls. They hate their job, they resent you but the money keeps them doing it.

That's the way it should be at least that is how the GFE experience is. That's what I did. Those are the girls who either really enjoy the job or are really good at selling the fantasy and have detached themselves from the act itself. They're actresses. I did both. There were guys I really had good times with and there were others that I had to act with. I'd suspect almost all girls are that way.

That's hard to answer because it's about me. At $500/hour (or $800-$900 for two which was very common for me), there were some pretty lofty expectations. I can't say that I ever went "above and beyond" because the service I was known for was already "5 star" or "AAA" or "10 out of 10". I think what made me different was my enthusiasm, my passion and the fact that I didn't resent the clients, I didn't judge them for paying for sex, that I didn't hate my job. Yes, I had the occasional bad client but in my last 3-4 years, that was increasingly rare.

But to your question, I think I always offered a service that reflected the premium I charged.

 

I'd usually masturbate 30 minutes before as long as time wasn't running short but not to the point of orgasm. It was a good way to build up some sexual tension yet at the same time relax me. Beyond that, depending on the client I would put some music on, chill some drinks, light some candles, etc. It just depended on the client. Of course I would shower, do my hair / makeup and so on. I'd make sure my drawer had various condoms at the ready and that if needed lube was stocked and within reach.

The big thing was to masturbate before though. Seriously, I could tell the difference in my performance when I did versus when I didn't. Doing so beforehand always put me in the mood, in a positive frame of mind and excited. When I didn't do it, I still put on the happy face but I can't tell you that I was always primed and ready to go on those days.

 

I broke his nose. It was a palm-elbow combination followed by a shot to his solar plexus and then my heel into his shin. I was largely unharmed other than really frazzled. And no, the police were never involved. He sure as fuck wasn't going to call them. He got his ass kicked by a girl. I wasn't going to call for obvious reasons.

Which is a problem in America. Anyone that thinks that prostitution isn't happening is naive and anyone that thinks additional prohibition or legal methods to persuade folks otherwise will work are just dumb. We really should take the Canadian, German or British approach to it and be done with this cloak and dagger nonsense as well as protect everyone involved so that law enforcement can focus on real issues like trafficking, child prostitution, pimping, etc.

 

If you were to write the laws regarding prostitution yourself by starting over completely what would they be?

I can understand your dislike of girls being pimped and don't blame you, what about girls working in brothels? I see some safety advantages but picture it having many of the things you dislike about stripping. Thoughts?