Note how I'm replying to both of you with the one post. That's because you don't really deserve any more of my time.

If you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen!

 

Lol too much irony. It's not even your thread.

 

So instead of debating the facts, you've chosen to go for the ad hominem attack. Nice.

I've clearly stated my experiences that qualify me to have an informed opinion.

"Normal" means typical, usual behavior most people engage in. Most people don't smoke weed, and an even smaller percentage grow it themselves.

And I am a blast at parties, just not a blast in relationships, as I've stated.

I admitted to being an asshole, too. Can't you read?

I'm sorry if intelligent discussion seems pretentious to you. Run along now, grown-ups are talking.

Warmest regards,

AZMotherLover


Ps. Did you enjoy the stories I posted links to?

 

Lol the fact that you said "grown ups are talking" is clear indicator that you're a pretentious narcissist.

I don't really care to argue on the internet because it is pretty pointless. Just know that you don't sound nearly as intelligent or cool as you think you do, lol.

 

Thanks for this great thread. I have learned a lot from your answers.
You have a great attitude about sex. It is a shame it is not shared by the majority. I wish you the best. I have not used an excort yet, but if I do, I would want to find one like you. Again, thanks for starting this thread.

 

Go away for a few days and a fight breaks out.

Let me break it down in very simple terms. There are three types of women who get into the various forms of prostitution:

1. Those who gather both a sense of empowerment and carry an entrepreneurial spirit with it
2. Those who do it because they can
3. Those who do it because they feel they have no other choice

From there, there are 3 different attitudes:

A. Those who genuinely enjoy it, treat it like a job they like and as a positive means to an end
B. Those who do it but are otherwise indifferent
C. Those who hate it but feel there's no other way to survive

All generalist claims, there's various degrees of each one if someone actually wanted to plot the attitudes on a graph. I never claimed that this thread was representative of all sex workers. Hell, it's not even representative of most sex workers. I have said before that most sex workers likely hate this line of work but just because a lot of women don't like it doesn't mean there aren't women who do enjoy it.

Very early on when I started, I was solidly in the 2-B camp. I did it because I could (the money was good) and I was indifferent to it because I already was very sexual and enjoying myself as is. After a few months when I started to take the opportunity seriously, I slid into the 1-A territory and I'd say that after a year I was pretty solid in that camp.

You asked why I didn't work in the oil fields in South Dakota instead since it pays well. It's a no-brainer though (not to mention a piss poor argument) because I could spend ~10 hours / week doing something I enjoyed on my time and my schedule with men who were going to be low risk (given the market I catered to)...why wouldn't I? Because society says being a prostitute is bad? Yeah, that's not going to stop me.

There's a lot of attacks, some getting personal, in your post above and so I'm just going to blow it off. You don't understand, you think you do but you do not, and it's not something I'm willing to explain to someone with obvious hatred towards women in general and focusing on me individually. I'm sorry that you had a fucked up past but please don't project that onto me. I've worked with a lot of girls who genuinely enjoyed being escorts. We are the rare ones but if you honestly took the time to look into the industry and the girls that work in it, you'd see that the self-professed "high end escorts" are fill with sex positive women who not only enjoy their job, it's a source of personal pride and provides a very stable if not predictable lifestyle.

You many not agree with it or me but that doesn't make it any less valid. You want to project this inferiority deal on me, saying I need help and if I talked to someone I'd find a trigger, yet not only do I not feel broken, I lack any regret/remorse from doing it. I don't pretend that I'm special or bulletproof. I don't think that my experiences or approach to the industry is unique either. I can only present my own experiences and share what other women have shared with me first hand. If you want to translate that as "everyone except EroticaLady", that's on you, not me.

 

I was looking forward to a civil discusson, and initially thought your reply was exactly that, until I got to this:

I assure you, I have nothing but love and respect for women, including those who choose to work in the world's oldest profession. My contempt and disdain are reserved for those men who profit from the labor of sex-workers.


If you equate my encouragement that you seek professional help to understand why you do what you do with a hatred towards women, then it would be a waste of time to continue our discussion. If I encourage someone who drinks too much to go to AA, does that mean I hate alcoholics?


I sincerely and honestly wish you only the best, and hope you find the happiness you seek.


Warmest regards,
AZMotherLover

 

I am at a loss of words. I mean i have literally read through this thread in about 3 hours and just cant get enough!! You are an amaaazing women! Hell, I will even go as far as to say that I am actually attracted to you. One would've never thought to find someone like you on a porn forum. Honestly, I dont even have a question to ask anymore as everyone already asked what I wanted to. Just wanted to let you know that you arr just lovely! Probably a bit older for me since you already have your masters but I can tell you that I enjoyed every bit of this thread and every bit of you. Hmm.. Turns out im not really at a loss of words and its 3:30 am here. Thanks for making my night!

 

Just thought of some questions. What was the average time a guy lasted in bed with you? What were your shortest and longest times? I am guessing that your clients usually went for more than one round? Finally, since you said you enjoyed your work, what would you consider the ideal amount of time?

 

....and your point is exactly?

Thinskin

 

A question about your favorite client

You had stated earlier in the post that you had a client that was just magnificent. The description that sticks out in my mind was "he really knew how to work my ass", lol. Seriously though, I'm extremely curious as to what exactly this man did to you that was so amazing. I look at women in the sex trade, from porn stars to escorts, as the professional athletes of sex. So, for this guy to impress YOU he had to be something special indeed. What was it about him? Was it physical attraction that brought the whole thing together, or was technique the biggest factor? I'm dying to know, and I would be forever grateful if you shared. Also, I apologize if you already have elaborated on this and thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us.

 

So do u not do escorting any more n if u do how can someone get in touch wit u

 

Just send her a PM without improving your grammar or spelling. Her panties will come off instantaneously.

 

now-late-twenties guy here

Hey firstly, thanks for starting this thread! Reading it has been fascinating. I just wanted to comment on this particular section here. My first full-on (not just jerking off or fingering in school) sexual experience with a woman was in my mid twenties with an escort. Yes, it is because I am just absolutely awful at attracting women (at least romantically, I have a ridiculous number of really close female friends) and was frustrated and horny. I figured what's the worst that could happen. Right?

I found one on Backpage (I didn't realize till just reading your thread, that was a bad place to look. However, I did go for the most expensive one in midtown that I could find, that didn't look like she was being abused in any way) and went to visit her. It was quite awkward and I had a hard time keeping it up due to nerves, but I still was able to cum and had a generally good time. I definitely don't regret visiting her as she made me feel incredibly comfortable after revealing to her I was a virgin not even 2 mins after walking in. Obviously, I was (and still am) clueless about sex and my biggest fear has always been not being confident enough to not be completely nerve-wracked and fail to have a good time. Which happened the second time I visited her (I made the mistake of having a few brews prior - to calm the nerves). I was utterly embarrassed by this and while she literally did all she could to make me not feel awful about it, I left early and not in a great mood (mind you I wasn't mad at her or anything, I am a gentleman after all, but it made me upset that this wasn't going as I would've hoped). She was kind enough to hit me up later asking if I wanted to try again, but I told her I couldn't because my nerves won't allow me to enjoy it.

To put all this into perspective, my goal after the first visit was to keep seeing her to:

A) Get over my fear of sex -- my first time almost going all the way, with a really good FRIEND mind you who was about to cheat on her boyfriend, at the last second flipped out, started crying while still on top of me, called me a rapist ,then ran into another room. (This is a long story that after years of telling pretty much everyone I know, I have come to the conclusion that I did nothing wrong and she was just fucked up in the head. To be fair she got on top of me and kissed me first. but yeah. this has led me to have problems with women, intimacy issues, and basically fear the concept of sex with someone I actually care about.)

B) Develop "sex skills," so when I did meet a woman I was romantically interested in, she wouldn't judge me or get rid of me ASAP cause I couldn't satisfy her sexually. Again, leading into the first point.

Anyways, all that was to just give you an idea of what that mid-20s guy might've been going through (obviously not exactly). I felt the need to comment, because I always have been curious about what she thought of me. Now I know. So thank you. I did tip her exceptionally well though, due to my guilt of being such a terrible client. I can only hope that made up for such a not-awesome experience on her end.

 

You ever suck a golf ball through a garden hose?

 

Have you or would have sex with a client in a wheelchair such as myself?

 

how many partners/did your boyfriends ever find out?

How many partners have you had (both in your personal life and while working?) Of those who you have dated, other than the clients you dated, did any of your boyfriends know about it? What toll has it taking on your body. To be frank (and for a lack better wording..sorry if it offends), have your boyfriends noticed/said that you are looser than "the average girl" Thank you so much for posting. This has been a very interesting thread.

 

Sorry that I've been MIA the past 2 weeks. Between a weak cyberstalker on here and a relationship that has taken a turn for the more serious (one I was not looking for), I just haven't had the desire to get on here. So let me catch up on some questions:

Back in my college days I know one guy and I, not a client, went about 2+ hours before he finally came and when he finally did, it was EXACTLY like porn with the sheer volume he shot. It was surreal.

I'm assuming you're asking about my work times. I did a minimum of one hour but I tried to talk most dates into 2 hour minimums.

Usually they did but not always. It depended on the time, what we were doing, his age, what he wanted to do, etc. I didn't have too many 1 hour appts my last 3.5 years so I didn't have to worry about frankencock too much but yeah, some guys tried to work out the easy one 5-10 minutes in and then spent the next 45+ minutes trying to get round 2 shot off. Not all, just most.

Having 2-3 rounds of sex in a 2 hour appointment is so much easier which is why I pressed for those types of appointments. That way it wasn't rushed or forced. It let us have more fun and to be honest, was a lot easier on my vagina than a steady 1 hour pound session.

2-4 hours. Longer than that, unless you know each other and have seen each other a lot, can get awkward.

 

I've elaborated but it's fine. The man just had skills. From how he talked, to how he looked, to how he performed. A lot of us debated if he had been an escort himself previously. The man just knew how to work every aspect of a woman's body. A lot of hit-&-quit clients (as in guys you see once, maybe twice) like to get down to the action right away and it's all about them. And that's 100% fine. That is this business in a vast majority of the cases. Let's not make this something it isn't. Regulars are a bit more different but that's because if they're a regular, there's at least some sort of chemistry even if it is one way. That doesn't mean romantic but it does mean there's a level of comfort and ease of encounter.

Anyways, he was the master of foreplay. Toes and feet, backs of my legs, my stomach, my sides, my back, my neck, my earlobes, that sensitive spot just under my chin, etc. He knew how to activate every single one of those. He didn't just dive in and suck on my clit (PS: generally don't do that, it can hurt and be too sensitive) like a lot of guys think that women want. No, he worked every part of my body BEFORE he went for my nipples, then my vagina, then my clit and then my asshole. When he did get to the more sensitive and traditional spots, his tongue technique from how he could do very precise circles, starting teasingly light and slow only to build up to more pressure and greater speed, using his whole tongue, his lips, on rare occasions his fingers, etc. And I've had a lot of rim jobs in my life but nothing compared to his technique. I literally orgasmed from just his tongue in my butthole. It was...I couldn't properly describe it or give it justice. It left me with a few tears coming out of my eyes it was so intense and overwhelming.

But that was his kick, his fetish, his game. He did this with a lot of other escorts in Denver. On the magnitude of 12-15 of us. He was the only John us girls really talked about on the escort-only boards as far as how we could get him to see other girls (or us, in my case me again which I did get the chance) and so on. But yeah, his "fetish" if you will was focusing 100% on the woman even if she was for hire.

 

I'm not "working" anymore, at least not like I was. I've thought about doing it part time again because it was a rush, I had fun, the extra money would be nice to stash away from something I want to do long term and given my current relationship thing, it would be nice to enjoy a real man but only in the context of sex and not for a relationship. I don't think it's going to happen but you never know what tomorrow brings.