Don't fuck your kids man and keep out of her phone

 

Wow, I googled her. I can understand the fervor she caused. Her body was ready for sex before her mind was mature, and that caused problems. I feel a bit like that about my step.

To those who say I shouldn't go through my step daughter's phone: maybe if someone had gone through Angie's phone before her account was hacked, she would have gotten in trouble privately and avoided the whole public mess.

 

There we go, getting closer to the ultimate punchline of this thread. So let me guess, your step daughter in contrast IS emotionally/mentally mature?

Hush......an alias

 

Over 53,000 pictures and 63,000 tagged with her name. Her pics were, and probably still are, used on porn sites.

There is a great interview and article from ABC News. It should come up straight away when you put in her name on Google. I'd link it, but I have too few posts.

You should show your daughter this article. Even though this girl took tons of pics, it still is a good example how pics can info can spread very quickly all over the planet.

 

I usually find what you have to say witty, and utterly hilarious. But not this time, I think OPs intentions are actually in the right place and he doesn't want to 'fuck, bang, wreck, rape, penetrate etc' any of her orifices. YOU may be the one taking his thoughts there.

As to the OP him self:
Sit her down. Talk to her. Don't tell her you went through her phone, but tell her you're concerned about her well being. Explain to her what the consequences are, both legally and socially. Show her news stories about it, and how fucked up the kids are after it happened.

Then talk to her about sex. Tell her she can trust you and you won't be upset or judgmental. If she is having sex, ask if shes using protection, and for the love of all thats fucking holy reinforce the use of protection. I'm pretty fucking sure you don't want to be a grand dad yet.

Do the same with the boy friend. Take him fishing, or what ever is people in Cali do for fun. Talk to him about it, and REINFORCE THE USE OF PROTECTION! Especially how having a kid that young will DESTROY HIS FUTURE.

You can't stop them having sex. But you can make sure they're both protected when it happens.

 

http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/angie-varona-14-year-unwillingly-internet-sex-symbol/story?id=14882768#.UCkcmKFlSdw

This be the link mentioned above.

 

Thank you!

 

Never mind spawning, STDs like gonorrhea, herpes and syphilis are increasing. Just three days ago there were news articles on how gonorrhea is becoming drug resistant.

Shit, never mind HIV.

 

It doesn't surprise me gonorrhea is mutating. It probably should have happened sooner. In fact I'm quite surprised that most STD's haven't gone through mutations and have become drug resistant or proof altogether. Especially the big ones like Syphilis, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, and Mono.

 

LOL

 

Well lets think about this....

If the very same question had been brought up on one of a gazillion forums regarding child rearing, step-parent interaction, adult (non-minor) random discussions, and naturally the "sexual thoughts" aspects would of been left off.....Well then I'd not bat an eye. It's a valid question that many/most adults will have to face with their children.

However....

It's posed on a forum where a good 50% of the threads deal with sex with minors, incest (though this is not genetically it would fall under that morally), and are full of made up fantasy fapping material as folks try to find out if others have similar interests.

In kind the OP naturally has to toss out her age, and of course there is the lead in of "been having sexual thoughts about her".

It doesn't matter how responsible he responds, even outraged at the responses to seem as though innocent and good intentioned, as he'll get the very same responses if he did not do so, and more so by pleading his innocence (though while still admitting he's turned on), it simply generates all that much more pushing and prodding for him to do the deed.

So lets sum up.......Really good, high moralled, all around great guy comes to a forum of whackos, perverts, pedophiles, wanna-be child molestors, and general freaks to ask about his possibly very sexually active step-daughter, who is turning him on, and wants advice from the kink-squad as what he should do to STOP her activity....because he's too embarrassed to talk with her about it, or her mother, yet is not too embarrassed to tell the world here, all because he's hot for her...now...can't help it...he's a man after all and she pushed his buttons, etc. etc..

There are two reasons people say or do things......1. It's intentional, meaning coming into such an arena is an intentional act meant to inspire the obvious responses. 2. Because they're stupid. So stupid in fact they cannot tell right from wrong, and in such a situation wouldn't understand anything anyone said here in the first place.

I thought I gave him the benefit of the doubt.....and if I'm wrong, then he won't get it anyway.

Hush......an alias

 

Oh....and p.s. said in this thread earlier

 

I'd really like to believe op is true is his word that he DOESN'T want to fuck his Step daughter.

He said he didn't think about her in a sexual light until after the pics were discovered. And he seems to have tangible regret about those feelings. And I want to point out who wouldn't have sexual feelings towards some one (blood related or not) after having found nude photos of them? People may deny it, but sexual nature tends to rear its ugly head at the most inopportune times. In this case step daddy finding step daughter's nude pics. Personally, he could choke the chicken thinking about it as much as he wants, there are weirder fetishes and kinks out there (like popping balloons, really?). He may just want honest advice, and this is the only place on line he feels comfortable divulging that information, even if the freaks here preach fucking her 'like the slut she is' (which BTW, nude photos are slutty behavior now? where was the memo on this?). Which even for a porn forum, he seems to have gotten pretty decent advice from some of the members here (the freaks not withstanding).

I look at this thread as the OP giving us the facts we need to know, and some of his personal feelings. I'll continue to give him the benefit of the doubt until I see something that just makes go 'what the fuck man...'. In the end you could be right, but theres no REAL way of knowing until he slips up with his so called charade.

 

I'd like to believe in Unicorns, they're so wunnerful *cough, gag, wretch*

Hush.....an alias

 

In Georgia on the new there was girl "Amber Cole" she was giving her bf head and he recorded... sent it to all of his friends who sent it to theirs so on... Youtube it, the reactions are there. Also on the news was a full grown women who had sent an indecent picture to her bf and when they later broke up he took the picture added her phone number and address and started hanging up flyers ...

Say quite randomly, "I am so proud of you for being how you are and for staying away from negative influences," that is for guilt and then add, "A coworker was talking about how devastated his daughter was when she sent pictures to her bf who later forwarded them." and that is to get her thinking. And then ask if you her need to talk about the dangers of sending such pictures and whatever her response have a non accusatory and non judgmental tone... And try to let her know that she will always be your little girl and youre afraid she is growing up too fast and just don't want her to make mistakes she will later regret.

 

If you can't help having sexual thoughts about your own daughter, you are sick.

 

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Blah, blah, blah

 

Opinions are like anuses. Everyone has one.

Not directed personally at you, cinnamonlisa, but at all the folks who want to condemn someone for their thoughts. Yeah, this guy is a fringe thinker and perhaps indulges in fantasy that many do not find appealing, but the condemnation. Feels like I'm dealing with religious folk, holier than thou and ready to condemn anyone/anything they disagree with. Very disheartening.

 

As has been pointed out she did not show you her slut side. You went looking for it. My advice is to have the talk with her that you should have had last year.

Copious use of your right hand is also advised. I am sure it will wear off.

Good Luck.

Thinskin

 

But what if hes a lefty?!