Loved reading these.... always try my best n would like to think I can satisfy a guy.. I get off on seeing how I can excite a guy. But much to be learned.. keep cumming with the awesome posts!!

 

massage his postate when he starts cumming

 

:rose: Thats about how I feel too, I miss my morning protien shake He's been gone for months Also, my trick is to get my hands inolved if he's long enough, just slide them either down or up but don't alternate, use your saliva as lube, and keep rotating your hands do NOT stop while you suck/lick the tip and look in his eyes. Most guys either beg you to stop or cum within a minute or 2.

 

A mouthful of rice pudding.

 

Most of the suggestions are good.. The things I tell girls..
1) The wetter, the better... Don't like fucking a dry pussy, why fuck a dry mouth?
2) Deeper the better.. I don't fuck you with half my dick, why would I only want half of it sucked?
3) If you really want to make him happy.. give him a blow job, not a hand job with some tongue.. Keep your hands behind your back

 

I think there's no a formula for a good BJ. Some1 mentioned to enjoy it and I'm 100% agree. If u r enjoying what u r doing u'll make improvisations that noone had ever expected from u. All the other stuff is just clearly transparent. If u r not enjoying, but trying to blow bc it's ur man, it's always obvious and no matter what u do, he'll sense it. Enjoy and listen to him while talking Most of us r excited i. these moments and r just navigating and explainig what we want i.e deeper, harder....etc. And when he start trying to pull it all inside ur throat so u r suceeded Personal opinion..

 

Women...Something that I never fail to laugh at is when I see womens magazines at the supermarket with articles like "How to drive your man wild" or "Ways to make your man moan!" There are three simple things that a woman needs to bring to the bedroom that ANY man will enjoy. First...show up...thats the hard part, the rest is easy. Second...be female. Not just in gender but act like a woman not a truck driver.Preferably dress like a woman too. Third...and this is the realy important one...be ENTHUSIASTIC!!! <---( Note, all caps. That means this is important.)

Men will judge thier sexual performance based on YOUR reaction to his actions. Help him out and guide him if he is a clutz or a moron, there are ways to do that without actualy writing it out for him. But respond! When he does a good thing and you just lay there or maybe moan alittle bit he doenst have a clue. But if you realy react by twisting, writhing, grabbing, groping, moaning (loudly) screaming, clawing or biting the pillow in half then he knows he is onto something. Men love making women feel good. We judge our performance on your reaction and when you react we try harder. The more you react the harder we try. It becomes a vicious circle and he ends up trying to fuck you into a coma. If you lay there he will get off and fall asleep. Great sex for a man means he walks away feeling like his manhood has been validated and he feels compelled to say "your welcome" when he is done. That makes a man feel like he is king of the world and that to a man is great sex. Simply getting a man off is about as complicated as opening a can of soup. On the other hand getting a woman off is damn near an art form.

Oral sex is the same way. If you act like your being asked to put a dead rat in your mouth then he isnt going to like it very much. If you go after his cock like its a turkey leg and you havent eaten in a week then he will like it. If you are greedy for sex he will try to fulfill your greed. If you act like its a chore he will get bored and just treat it like jerking off but with spectators.

 

To start off, let me just say that even a so so blowjob is still a fantastic experience. Just the fact that a girl is taking my cock in her mouth is pretty much an amazing thing. Of course, there are some things that can turn an average blowjob into a amazing one.
First, its really nice if you are naked while doing it. Or at least topless. I love having a nice view of your naked body. Its also nice to be able to play with your tits or rub your pussy while you're sucking me.
Second, I like when other activities are combined with the blowjob. You don't need to be sucking it the whole time. Switch up to a handjob for a while, or take it in your cleavage and let me tittyfuck you. Then go back to sucking for a while.
Third, I love when you talk dirty. Its so hot when my girl says things like how badly she wants my cock in her mouth. Or tells me how big and hard it is. Other hot things to say are how much you love sucking my cock. And obviously the ultimate thing to hear is how good my cum tastes or how badly you want me to shoot it in your mouth.
Fourth, please use your hand in addition to your mouth. Jerking the shaft while you suck and lick the head is amazing. Its also really hot when you stick your tongue out, rub the head of my cock all over it, and jerk me off.
Fifth, its very sexy to rub your tits and/ or masturbate while you're giving me head.
Lastly, when it comes time for me to shoot my load, I absolutely love it when the girl tells me exactly how/where she wants me to do it. "Oh yeah baby, give me your fucking load, shoot it all in my mouth." Or "I want you to cum for me. All over my face." Or "I want to see you cum baby. Shoot it all over my titties."

I hope these suggestions help!

 

Finger Play

This might not appeal to everyone, but when my wife puts her finger in my ass while she's blowing me, I go nuts. I also like receiving anal sex and am bi, but the prostate is pretty sensitive and if you can get your guy past the homophobia, he'll probably like it.
I also agree with eye contact and using your hands. Deepthroat is great also. My wife can do it, but I know not everyone can -- Snoochie's comment about concentrating on other techniques and what she does well is good advice. Also, enjoy yourself. If you don't like it, you probably won't be good at it.

 

Looks like everyone else has pretty much covered the waterfront, so I'll refrain from adding anything.

But I fully agree with the comments to the effect that:

Wetness is everything. Saliva is your friend.
Two words: eye contact.
Enjoy your work, and be patient. Hum a little tune.
Don't neglect his balls.
Stop now and then and talk like a whore.

 

The interview process is over...you got the job

 

Oh, goody! How many cocks do I get to suck?

You were right in your earlier post, though...I can't imagine why a man would enjoy having sex with a girl who just lay there and checked her watch now and then, or clicked the TV remote.

 

As a male Bisexual cocksucker all I can add is to put your tongue in play! Don't be afraid!! After all it is part of your mouth. He will appreciate your efforts much more. Nothing feels worse than to feel a pair of lips encircling your cock and nothing else!

 

In my opinion, what makes the difference is the tongue work. Use your tongue as you bob up and down. Expecially, cirlce it around his gland and along his shaft...
I've met only a couple of girls able to do that, but those were the only bj's i liked...
That said, i also think that every guy has his opinion on this matter. Most of my friends love sloppy bj's...while i hate them...
It's also about chemistry and sensuality. Try to be as conturbant as you can, and your tecnique will be not so important.
Take care!

 

Seriously love all these.... thanks everyone. Taking it allllll in .... advice too.

 

Frenulum FTW!!!