Titty fuck is another favorite. I would rather they cum on me though. Bj I always swallow.

 

Right? *high five* lol

 

Definitely a propositional remark. Lol how many messages did that bring in?

 

Surprisingly none... lol

 

My hero! *licks lips*

 

*swoon* *hand on forehead*

 

Focus, relax and get a nice rhythm working. Ass to head is the work area , eye contact, dirty talk, sucky noises work well cup his balls also...

 

Does it count if they don't come? If so, I love to give blowjobs, but not to completion. I would rather suck him as foreplay and then have him come in my pussy. But it's ok if he comes in my mouth, just not my favorite ending to a great activity. I especially like to take a soft or at least semi-soft cock in my mouth and feel it grow. As I mentioned in another post, sucking a cock turns me on as much as just about anything. I have knelt or squatted in front of my guy many times and found a small puddle on the floor when I got up.

 

I had a much older man teach me how to give BJs. He'd suck my index and middle fingers, to show me how to do it. I just copied what he was doing.

 

We play the game. Half tit fuck, half blow job. Alternate until the cum gets released, see which one wins.

 

Here comes one, lol

 

Nina: I was "orally active" for quite some time before I had intercourse.
I think that's why I still like it so much. (It's like pizza, if you grew up eating Chicago style deep dish, you probably prefer it over thin crust)
The first guy was a great instructor but he didn't really care about my experience. He was the same when we eventually had regular sex. Lots of input on how I could make it better for him but not all that concerned about my pleasure.
The second guy I gave blowjobs to taught me that there are different ways to give them and not every guy likes the same thing. His style wasn't for my mouth to just be a receptacle for his cum. He was also better at "sex". Me enjoying it was nice if it happened but it wasn't his goal.
He wanted to enjoy getting a blowjob and not just get it over, zip up and move on.
The next guy I dated wanted me to enjoy it too. He suggested that I could use my hand on myself while giving him head and he was the first guy to go down on me.
Let me tell you, if you think the idea of having a penis in my mouth was bizarre to me, the idea that he was going to put his mouth on me "down there" was horrifying!
I was so tense I couldn't make myself relax and unclench enough to enjoy it.
He told me that he liked getting blowjobs but that if I didn't like doing it or didn't enjoy doing it, then he wouldn't try to get me to do it.
Of course, that made me WANT to do it even more and knowing that he was concerned about my experience made me enjoy it.
He said if I was going to do it, he wasn't going to tell me what to do but that I'd have to pay attention to his reactions to determine what was working and what wasn't.
Fingering myself while giving head probably conditioned my body to associate giving head to my own pleasure (a Pavlovian effect) and I soon found myself getting horny just having a man in my mouth.
Then, as they say, I was all in.
I still hadn't had an orgasm from intercourse yet so even though sex was fine and felt good, oral sex was my go to.
What did I learn from my various mentors?
1) Pay attention to him and his reactions. Respond accordingly. This can be increasingly difficult based on the number of guys you happen to be giving head to at any one time.
2) What works on one guy, doesn't work on all. (see #1)
3) It's about his pleasure. If you start to do it thinking about how you're going to get yours, you probably won't do a very good job.
That's not to say that he shouldn't take care of you too but let it wait. Just like every time he makes you feel good doesn't have to be reciprocated at that time.
It all balances out in the end.
4) If you don't care for the taste, learn to recognize the signs and pull him as deep into your mouth as possible and swallow. Get it past the taste buds as soon as you can.
5) While most guys like getting blowjobs, some of them like to make unpleasant comments about the women who give them. Sometimes TO the women who give them. While they are giving them. Don't be surprised to hear some guy call you a filthy whore while he has his most cherished body part between your teeth. Remember, you're the one in charge. Don't put up with that shit!
6) Guys talk. He might say he won't tell anyone. He might even mean it when he says it but trust me. Very few men can resist bragging about getting a blowjob from a neighbor's wife/ co-worker/ student/ boss or subordinate/ their wife's sister/ or any woman other than their own wife. (guys generally don't brag about their own wife sucking their cocks). Then they always seem surprised when it blows up on them. You will be blamed. Just don't be surprised.

 

I love sucking on a cock after it has cum. The head is so sensitive it drives the guy insane

 

I love sucking cock but if I had to choose just one thing, I'd choose getting fucked every time.
I may not be the best cock-sucker around but I've never had any complaints.

 

I love the head of my cock being licked and gently nibbled. Also having my balls sucked is a major turn on. I have also had my prostate played with in the past- really liked the feeling of the lady's fingers inside me when i cum. And it made me cum so fucking hard.